{"id":17257,"date":"2020-04-04T07:34:58","date_gmt":"2020-04-04T07:34:58","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/herway.net\/?p=17257"},"modified":"2022-09-14T08:25:33","modified_gmt":"2022-09-14T08:25:33","slug":"7-segni-che-lui-ti-sta-usando-e-tu-non-te-ne-rendi-nemmeno-conto","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/7-segni-che-lui-ti-sta-usando-e-tu-non-te-ne-rendi-nemmeno-conto\/","title":{"rendered":"7 segni che ti sta solo usando (e tu non ne sei nemmeno consapevole)"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>Quando si incontra un ragazzo e si inizia una relazione seria con lui, non si \u00e8 consapevoli delle cose negative che potrebbero accadere lungo la strada.<\/p>\n<p>Forse l'uomo che avete appena conosciuto \u00e8 un <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/relationship\/guy-10-things-hes-serious-narcissist-disguise\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\">narcisista sotto mentite spoglie<\/a> o addirittura un bugiardo compulsivo e forse \u00e8 davvero bravo a ottenere ci\u00f2 che vuole senza impegnarsi molto.<\/p>\n<p>Ci sono cose diverse che i ragazzi vogliono dalle ragazze, come il sesso, il denaro, lo status o altro. Dipende da ragazzo a ragazzo. Ma se non siete sicure che il vostro uomo stia con voi solo perch\u00e9 vi ama, controllate questi segnali e scoprite se quello che prova \u00e8 vero amore o qualcos'altro.<\/p>\n<h2><span style=\"font-size: 18pt;\">1. He won\u2019t commit to you<\/span><\/h2>\n<p>If you have been dating a man for a long time and he still doesn\u2019t want to commit to you, it is a sign that he doesn\u2019t respect you and that he is just using you in the cruelest way.<\/p>\n<p>He is with you because of the girlfriend benefits that you give him, while he is quite selfish about his boyfriend benefits. If you don\u2019t feel good about the relationship you are involved in, you should talk to your partner about that.<\/p>\n<p>Tell him about your needs and wishes. If he loves you enough it won\u2019t be a big problem for him to put a label on your relationship.<\/p>\n<h2><span style=\"font-size: 18pt;\">2. Ti chiede sempre dei soldi<\/span><\/h2>\n<p>Do you sometimes feel that you are the only one paying for everything? It is understandable if your man doesn\u2019t have a job so you need to support him financially for some time but if he is too lazy to go out and find a way to pay the bills and buy food, <a href=\"https:\/\/www.thetalko.com\/15-signs-hes-using-you-and-you-dont-even-know-it\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\">ti sta solo usando<\/a>.<\/p>\n<p>Probabilmente vi dispiace per lui e gli date i soldi pensando che abbia avuto solo un po' di sfortuna e che le cose cambieranno in meglio. Ascoltami, se vede che tu sarai sempre l\u00ec a sostenerlo economicamente, non trover\u00e0 mai un lavoro.<\/p>\n<p>Quindi, se vedete qualcosa di simile nella vostra relazione, dovete reagire prima che sia troppo tardi.<\/p>\n<h2><span style=\"font-size: 18pt;\">3. He doesn\u2019t talk about the future<\/span><\/h2>\n<p>For a man like this, you are good for him whenever he needs your help but that doesn\u2019t mean that he plans anything serious with you. You are just his backup plan and you are good until another one comes into his life.<\/p>\n<p>Se volete sapere a che punto siete ma lui si rifiuta di parlarne, \u00e8 segno che vi sta solo usando e finge di amarvi, ma sar\u00e0 il tempo a dirvi se siete fatti l'uno per l'altra.<\/p>\n<p>Please, don\u2019t buy into this shit and move away from a man like that because he is nothing but a manipulator who is damn good at what he does. He will never be hubby material and he just pretends that he loves you and cares about you just to get what he wants.<\/p>\n<h2><span style=\"font-size: 18pt;\">4. \u00c8 gentile con voi solo quando ha bisogno di qualcosa.<\/span><\/h2>\n<p>Have you caught your partner being all sweet to you only when he needs something? If your answer is \u2018yes\u2019 that means that he is just using you and that he will never commit to you.<\/p>\n<p>This is a characteristic of a manipulator and a liar who gets what he wants in an easy way and doesn\u2019t feel any remorse about it. If he talks to you only when it is convenient for him, it is a<a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/relationship\/12-sure-fire-signs-he-doesnt-care-about-you-move-on\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\"> sign that he doesn\u2019t care about you<\/a> come dice lui e che continuer\u00e0 a farlo finch\u00e9 glielo permetterete.<\/p>\n<h2><span style=\"font-size: 18pt;\">5. He hasn\u2019t introduced you to his family<\/span><\/h2>\n<p>When you love someone and when you want something serious with that person, it is quite normal that you introduce them to your parents, right? But if your man has never spoken about anything like that and if he doesn\u2019t want to talk about it even if you insist, you should think twice about why you are still with him.<\/p>\n<p>Vi sta solo usando, ma \u00e8 molto bravo in quello che fa, quindi non ve ne rendete conto. Dovete sapere che un uomo del genere non sar\u00e0 mai una persona a cui potrete appoggiarvi e trover\u00e0 sempre un modo per sfuggire a qualsiasi cosa seria.<\/p>\n<h2><span style=\"font-size: 18pt;\">6. He shows his \u2018love\u2019 for you only in bed<\/span><\/h2>\n<p>Un ragazzo del genere dir\u00e0 tutto quello che volete sentire solo per portarvi a letto. Vi dir\u00e0 che siete la donna pi\u00f9 bella che abbia mai visto e che \u00e8 cos\u00ec dannatamente fortunato ad avervi nella sua vita. User\u00e0 lo stesso metodo quando<a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/segni-che-un-uomo-vi-sta-usando-per-soldi\/\"> ha bisogno di soldi da te<\/a> anche.<\/p>\n<p>He knows that he will get things easily if he is kind, so that is what he will do. Also, if you see that he just tends to satisfy his needs in bed and doesn\u2019t care about yours, it is a big, red flag that he doesn\u2019t love you enough.<\/p>\n<p>He is just using you for the things that you can help him with and doesn\u2019t feel any remorse about it.<\/p>\n<h2><span style=\"font-size: 18pt;\">7. Ha una pessima reputazione<\/span><\/h2>\n<p>Forse il vostro uomo aveva una cattiva reputazione prima di voi, ma credete che per qualche motivo possiate cambiarlo. Mi dispiace farvi scoppiare la bolla di sapone, ma lui non cambier\u00e0 mai. Sar\u00e0 sempre lo stesso manipolatore e bugiardo che otterr\u00e0 sempre ci\u00f2 che vuole usando i suoi metodi malati.<\/p>\n<p>He will go from girl to girl and use all the methods on them until it works on one of them. So, whatever you do, don\u2019t let him treat you like shit and fight for your rights. If he doesn\u2019t want to have an official relationship with you, don\u2019t let him have anything with you.<\/p>\n<p>Respect yourself because it is obvious that he doesn\u2019t know what that means.<\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>When you meet a guy and you start something serious with him, you are not aware of the bad things that could happen down the road. Maybe the man you have just met is a narcissist in disguise or even a compulsive liar and maybe he is really good at getting what he wants without&#8230;<\/p>","protected":false},"author":42,"featured_media":17259,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29648],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-17257","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-dating-tips"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29648,"label":"dating tips"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/04\/jd-mason-506442-unsplash.jpg",800,548,false],"author_info":{"display_name":"Selma June","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/author\/selmajune\/"},"comment_info":2,"category_info":[{"term_id":29648,"name":"dating tips","slug":"dating-tips","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29648,"taxonomy":"category","description":"Learn to date like a pro and avoid making some of the biggest mistakes in texting, flirting, winning a man's heart, and commitment. 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