{"id":17285,"date":"2020-12-04T12:27:29","date_gmt":"2020-12-04T12:27:29","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/herway.net\/?p=17285"},"modified":"2021-08-12T11:53:20","modified_gmt":"2021-08-12T11:53:20","slug":"una-lettera-alla-ragazza-che-ero","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/una-lettera-alla-ragazza-che-ero\/","title":{"rendered":"Lettera alla ragazza che ero"},"content":{"rendered":"

Caro me,<\/b><\/p>\n

I know you worry excessively about everything. I know that sometimes you feel like everything is too much, like you can\u2019t take it anymore. I know that there are times when you just want to give up.<\/p>\n

And I know you give yourself to people way beyond what you should\u2014especially since most of those people end up hurting you. You feel like you give them everything and you get nothing in return.<\/p>\n

Every boy you ever loved has brought you nothing but pain. They have used you, taken advantage of you and manipulated you. Every one of them has put you through hell. They\u2019ve made you feel insecure and unlovable.<\/p>\n

Your friends have betrayed you multiple times. All of them expected you to be by their sides all the time, but when you needed them\u2014you were always alone.<\/p>\n

And you ask yourself what you\u2019ve done to deserve all of that. You\u2019d like to change, but you just don\u2019t know how. You are simply too sensitive and you don\u2019t know how to say \u201cNO\u201d to someone in need.<\/p>\n

Tutto questo vi ha fatto sentire stressati e ansiosi. Vi ha reso depressi, come se non ci fosse luce alla fine del tunnel.<\/p>\n

You want to believe in the good in people, but you are simply scared. You feel like things will stay like this forever, like you\u2019ll feel like this for the rest of your life.<\/p>\n

\"donna<\/p>\n

But, I am here to tell you that you can\u2019t be more wr<\/b>ong.<\/b><\/p>\n

You know, life is not a fairy-tale. And it won\u2019t ever be.<\/b> You\u2019ll always have problems and dark periods. And that is something you won\u2019t have much impact on.<\/p>\n

Semplicemente, ci sono circostanze della vita che sono fuori dalla vostra portata. Ma quello che pu\u00f2 <\/i> do is choose how to let those circumstances affect you. I know you think it is impossible now, but trust me\u2014with time, you\u2019ll learn to stay indifferent to some things and people.<\/p>\n

You\u2019ll learn not to trust everyone that comes in your life. But, that won\u2019t make you a bitter and negative person. It will just make you understand that sometimes, you can only rely on yourself.<\/p>\n

And that won\u2019t cause you to be lonely or desperate. Instead, it will create a stronger you, much stronger than everything that\u2019s bringing you down.<\/p>\n

With time, you\u2019ll learn to recognize who is worthy of your time and energy and who is not. You\u2019ll learn who the people who deserve the place in your life are and who are the ones you need to kick out immediately.<\/p>\n

You\u2019ll learn per eliminare le persone tossiche dalla vostra vita <\/a> , no matter how important you think they are. And no\u2014you won\u2019t feel guilty for doing so because you\u2019ll know it\u2019s for your own good.<\/p>\n

You\u2019ll learn to recognize the guys who deserve your presence and those who don\u2019t. The guys who are loyal and players. Of course, that won\u2019t happen overnight.<\/p>\n

\"giovane<\/p>\n

Nel corso degli anni, incontrerete diversi tipi di ragazzi. Alcuni di loro vi faranno soffrire, altri vi renderanno felici.<\/p>\n

Some will make you feel you\u2019ve hit the stars and some of them will make you feel like the saddest person alive.<\/p>\n

But, eventually you\u2019ll know to differentiate the right ones from the wrong ones. And you\u2019ll realize that even the wrong ones were just tough lessons.<\/p>\n

You\u2019ll grow to understand that there are some people who are simply not meant to be in your life. And that sometimes love is just not enough, no matter how hard you want it to be. You\u2019ll have to learn to let go, even when you don\u2019t want to.<\/p>\n

But, most importantly, you\u2019ll learn to be your own biggest priority. You\u2019ll learn that nobody is worthy of you feeling bad about yourself and that nobody is worthy of your emotional pain.<\/p>\n

You\u2019ll learn not to get upset about other people\u2019s opinions. You\u2019ll learn to value yourself over everyone else. And you\u2019ll grow to be your own best friend.<\/p>\n

Don\u2019t get me wrong\u2014this doesn\u2019t mean you\u2019ll become a selfish person who doesn\u2019t believe in love and who doesn\u2019t trust anyone.<\/p>\n

No, you\u2019ll always keep the piece of your old self deep inside you. But, you\u2019ll learn to fight for that girl which you were. You\u2019ll become stronger than you thought you\u2019d ever be.<\/p>\n

Because you\u2019ll learn that you are the only one that can make yourself happy.<\/b><\/p>\n

So, trust me\u2014 tutto andr\u00e0 bene<\/b> . I know you don\u2019t think this way now and you probably think that everything you\u2019ve just read is a bunch of clich\u00e9s and empty phrases. But, just be patient and hold tight.<\/p>\n

Dovrei saperlo. Io ero te, ricordi?<\/b> <\/p>\n

\"Lettera<\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

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