{"id":17327,"date":"2020-07-05T11:51:57","date_gmt":"2020-07-05T11:51:57","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/herway.net\/?p=17327"},"modified":"2021-08-11T09:08:08","modified_gmt":"2021-08-11T09:08:08","slug":"il-vero-motivo-per-cui-ha-paura-di-innamorarsi-di-nuovo","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/il-vero-motivo-per-cui-ha-paura-di-innamorarsi-di-nuovo\/","title":{"rendered":"Il vero motivo per cui ha paura di innamorarsi di nuovo"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>She&#8217;s been broken. When you look at her, what do you see? A shell of a human being? No. No, you don&#8217;t.<\/p>\n<p>You see someone who wants to fight. You see someone who wants to stand up and be strong again but one fear won&#8217;t let her sleep at night. It doesn&#8217;t even let her stand on her own two feet again.<\/p>\n<p><b>She&#8217;s afraid to fall in love again.<\/b> Not because she might get broken again. She&#8217;s been through that and she survived.<\/p>\n<p>It made her stronger and it made her a warrior, so she knows that she is going to survive if it happens again. But it won&#8217;t. Her past has taught her how to choose a man wisely.<\/p>\n<p><b>She\u2019s not afraid that he&#8217;s going to leave her.<\/b> \u00c8 stata sola per troppo tempo. Anche quando aveva una relazione, a volte si sentiva sola. La solitudine \u00e8 sua amica.<\/p>\n<p>When she&#8217;s alone her mind is her best friend because she can find a solution to every problem and it only makes her stronger.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-106597\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/04\/worried-woman-thinking-in-bed.jpg\" alt=\"donna preoccupata che pensa a letto\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/04\/worried-woman-thinking-in-bed.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/04\/worried-woman-thinking-in-bed-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/04\/worried-woman-thinking-in-bed-768x513.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/04\/worried-woman-thinking-in-bed-150x100.jpg 150w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/04\/worried-woman-thinking-in-bed-720x481.jpg 720w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p><b>She&#8217;s not afraid of being taken advantage of.<\/b> Want to know why? Because there&#8217;s no one in this world who&#8217;s able to do that to her ever again.<\/p>\n<p>Ci sono forti limiti che lei ha stabilito e <a href=\"https:\/\/www.candymag.com\/features\/to-the-girl-who-builds-so-many-walls-around-herself\" rel=\"noopener\"> muri che ha costruito intorno a s\u00e9 <\/a> , to make sure she sends the clear message that unless you respect her, you can&#8217;t be with her.<\/p>\n<p><b>You might be wondering what she is afraid of? She&#8217;s afraid of losing herself again.<\/b><\/p>\n<p>She&#8217;s afraid of losing the only person who was always by her side and the only person who takes their time to listen to her: herself.<\/p>\n<p>After years and years of giving up everything she was to please a man who wasn&#8217;t able to cherish her hard work and dedication, getting herself back was the ultimate prize for <a href=\"https:\/\/howloveblossoms.com\/how-do-you-leave-a-man-you-loved-for-years\/\" rel=\"noopener\"> lasciare quell'uomo. <\/a><\/p>\n<p><b>She&#8217;s afraid of losing herself.<\/b><\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-106599\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/04\/sad-woman-holding-hand-on-forehead.jpg\" alt=\"donna triste che si tiene la mano sulla fronte\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/04\/sad-woman-holding-hand-on-forehead.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/04\/sad-woman-holding-hand-on-forehead-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/04\/sad-woman-holding-hand-on-forehead-768x513.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/04\/sad-woman-holding-hand-on-forehead-150x100.jpg 150w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/04\/sad-woman-holding-hand-on-forehead-720x481.jpg 720w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Giving up her hopes, dreams, morals and values all for a man makes her wonder if there&#8217;s anyone in this world who will love her for who she is and not for the woman she is able to become once she falls in love.<\/p>\n<p>No. There&#8217;s no way she&#8217;s going back to that time of pain and misery, where she didn&#8217;t even know who she actually was.<\/p>\n<p><b>That&#8217;s the real reason she&#8217;s afraid to fall in love again.<\/b> Love takes away everything you are and love doesn&#8217;t know limits.<\/p>\n<p><a href=\"https:\/\/www.lovepanky.com\/men\/dating-women-tips-for-men\/signs-she-loves-you\" rel=\"noopener\"> Quando ama <\/a> someone, she loves them with her whole heart, like there&#8217;s nothing that could go wrong, like they are never going to leave and that&#8217;s when her fear gets worse.<\/p>\n<p>The last time she loved someone so unconditionally, when they left she didn&#8217;t have anything left but her shell. The shell of a human being that she tried to restore for far too long.<\/p>\n<p>Today she is over it, that&#8217;s why when you look at her you see more than that but at one point there was nothing beyond her tears.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-106600\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/04\/woman-crying-on-the-couch.jpg\" alt=\"donna che piange sul divano\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/04\/woman-crying-on-the-couch.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/04\/woman-crying-on-the-couch-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/04\/woman-crying-on-the-couch-768x513.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/04\/woman-crying-on-the-couch-150x100.jpg 150w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/04\/woman-crying-on-the-couch-720x481.jpg 720w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p><b>Passer\u00e0 un lungo periodo di tempo prima che si innamori di nuovo. <\/b> She needs to learn that loving someone doesn&#8217;t mean changing herself.<\/p>\n<p>Deve imparare che amare significa dare a qualcuno il proprio tempo e i propri sforzi e non tutto ci\u00f2 che si ha.<\/p>\n<p>But what&#8217;s left to do? Her heart doesn&#8217;t know anything else but to love with everything it is and until it gets to the point of breaking.<\/p>\n<p>But don&#8217;t judge her. She&#8217;s still willing to become stronger.<\/p>\n<p><b>She will love again. One day when she&#8217;s able to say that she will stay just the way she is even if she belongs to someone else.<\/b><\/p>\n<p><b>She will love again and she has faith that it won&#8217;t hurt her again.<\/b><\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-106609\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/04\/The-Real-Reason-Why-Shes-Afraid-To-Fall-In-Love-Again-pinterest.jpg\" alt=\"Il vero motivo per cui ha paura di innamorarsi di nuovo\" width=\"1000\" height=\"1500\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/04\/The-Real-Reason-Why-Shes-Afraid-To-Fall-In-Love-Again-pinterest.jpg 1000w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/04\/The-Real-Reason-Why-Shes-Afraid-To-Fall-In-Love-Again-pinterest-200x300.jpg 200w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/04\/The-Real-Reason-Why-Shes-Afraid-To-Fall-In-Love-Again-pinterest-683x1024.jpg 683w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/04\/The-Real-Reason-Why-Shes-Afraid-To-Fall-In-Love-Again-pinterest-768x1152.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/04\/The-Real-Reason-Why-Shes-Afraid-To-Fall-In-Love-Again-pinterest-150x225.jpg 150w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1000px) 100vw, 1000px\" \/><\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>She&#8217;s been broken. When you look at her, what do you see? A shell of a human being? No. No, you don&#8217;t. You see someone who wants to fight. You see someone who wants to stand up and be strong again but one fear won&#8217;t let her sleep at night. It doesn&#8217;t even let her&#8230;<\/p>","protected":false},"author":56,"featured_media":106608,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29639],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-17327","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-understanding-women"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29639,"label":"understanding women"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/04\/The-Real-Reason-Why-Shes-Afraid-To-Fall-In-Love-Again.jpg",800,535,false],"author_info":{"display_name":"Katie Burns","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/author\/katie\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29639,"name":"understanding women","slug":"understanding-women","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29639,"taxonomy":"category","description":"Women are not that complicated once you learn to understand them, seduce them and treat them the way they deserve. 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