{"id":17336,"date":"2020-04-05T12:58:33","date_gmt":"2020-04-05T12:58:33","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/herway.net\/?p=17336"},"modified":"2021-08-12T12:19:01","modified_gmt":"2021-08-12T12:19:01","slug":"5-cose-da-fare-quando-un-uomo-emotivamente-non-disponibile-continua-a-tornare","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/5-cose-da-fare-quando-un-uomo-emotivamente-non-disponibile-continua-a-tornare\/","title":{"rendered":"5 cose da fare quando un uomo emotivamente non disponibile continua a tornare"},"content":{"rendered":"

Superare un uomo emotivamente non disponibile \u00e8 difficile. Soprattutto quando quell'uomo emotivamente non disponibile continua a tornare.<\/p>\n

Let\u2019s be real here. When you start a new relationship, you don\u2019t expect it to end.<\/p>\n

You always hope that he is going to be the one for you, that he\u2019s going to show you that love is worth fighting for.<\/p>\n

And then, he shows you that he\u2019s just another fucktard you fell hopelessly in love with.<\/b><\/p>\n

How do you move on from that? You know that he\u2019s not the one, you know that he screwed you over and over again, but hope is what breaks you every single time you think of him.<\/p>\n

Ricordate ancora quanto fosse straordinario quando vi siete incontrati la prima volta, sentite ancora il sapore delle sue labbra sulle vostre e sperate ancora che torni.<\/p>\n

Ma il fatto \u00e8 che gli uomini emotivamente non disponibili devono prendere questa decisione da soli.<\/p>\n

No one can force them to change and grow up. No one can make them change except themselves. And that\u2019s the sucky part.<\/p>\n

E adesso? Come si fa ad andare avanti in modo corretto da una relazione in cui ci si sentiva l'unica ad amare, in cui ci si sentiva come se si stesse urlando contro un muro di mattoni senza che accadesse nulla?<\/p>\n

Diavolo, credete persino che il muro abbia pi\u00f9 emozioni del vostro ex.<\/b><\/p>\n

Come si fa a uscire da una relazione in cui si \u00e8 dato il massimo e si \u00e8 ottenuto in cambio solo dolore e frustrazione?<\/p>\n

Let\u2019s break it into a few parts. Firstly, we need to know what the hell he is going to do.<\/p>\n

Far\u00e0 la vittima, vi far\u00e0 ingelosire, vi sbatter\u00e0 tutto in faccia o vi consegner\u00e0 il pacchetto completo?<\/p>\n

Then, it\u2019s important to know how to react and what to do. Spoiler alert: it involves the no contact rule.<\/p>\n

Ecco 5 cose che fanno gli uomini emotivamente non disponibili dopo una rottura:<\/b><\/em><\/span><\/p>\n

Fare la vittima<\/h2>\n

\"colleghi<\/p>\n

He will go around telling the story of how you\u2019re the bad guy and he did nothing except love you the best way he knew.<\/p>\n

He will tell that story to anyone with a set of ears and tits. Poor lad, he did nothing wrong and you ended it out of the blue. He\u2019s simply doing this so he can keep his reputation.<\/p>\n

In this case, he has no intention of winning you back, instead he\u2019s trying to make you snap and confirm his story.<\/p>\n

The best thing you can do here is ignoring all of it. You and your friends know the truth and that\u2019s all that matters.<\/p>\n

Sapete che avete fatto del vostro meglio e non \u00e8 successo nulla. Sapete che ci avete provato, ma lui si \u00e8 rifiutato di fare lo stesso.<\/p>\n

So, don\u2019t give him the pleasure of winning once more. Ignore his lying ass and let those poor girls find out the truth the hard way. They won\u2019t believe you anyway, even if you told them, he\u2019s that good at his games.<\/p>\n

Ti fa impazzire di gelosia<\/h2>\n

\"donna<\/p>\n

Vi sbatter\u00e0 in faccia la sua nuova ragazza finch\u00e9 non inizier\u00e0 a farvi impazzire e quando gli manderete un messaggio per chiedere spiegazioni, vi informer\u00e0 con calma che la vostra relazione \u00e8 finita.<\/p>\n

You two have nothing to talk about, you moved on and so did he. He will make you wonder what the hell is the truth and what\u2019s not.<\/p>\n

Let me tell you, happy, grown-up people don\u2019t fuck over their exes.<\/p>\n

They don\u2019t play games and parade around with their new arm candy. And you know that he\u2019s doing exactly that.<\/p>\n

Give yourself a break and let him play all the games he wants. You\u2019re better off without him anyway. Embrace your single life and this new opportunity life gave you.<\/p>\n

Rimbalzi<\/h2>\n

\"coppia<\/p>\n

Passare alla prossima serie di organi necessari per aumentare il suo piccolo ego non \u00e8 altro che un bisogno per lui.<\/p>\n

You see, if he doesn\u2019t find someone soon enough to boost his confidence, he needs to face the hell he put you through and actually think about his actions for a second. And that\u2019s something he\u2019s not familiar with. Thus, rebounding.<\/p>\n

Se a questo si aggiungono i giochi di gelosia, si ha un vincitore! Un uomo emotivamente immaturo che potrebbe far vergognare Barney Stinson.<\/p>\n

Consider yourself lucky here, you dodged a bullet in a way. It doesn\u2019t mean it hurts less but it means that life gave you lemons for you to make a whiskey sour.<\/p>\n

Disclaimer: Alcohol is not the answer but it sure as hell helps to solve some of life\u2019s mysteries. Or create new ones. It\u2019s fun, either way.<\/p>\n

Amici con benefici<\/h2>\n

\"fotografia<\/p>\n

Sapete cosa vuole quando vi chiede di rimanere amici. Vuole tutti i vantaggi della relazione senza l'impegno. Tesoro, tu meriti di pi\u00f9.<\/p>\n

You deserve more than being someone\u2019s backup plan and safety net. And you deserve more than to be his late-night booty call.<\/p>\n

Questo dipende solo da voi. Se potete essere amici con lui, senza tutte queste cose benefiche, fatelo.<\/p>\n

Non tutti sono uguali e non tutti hanno bisogno degli stessi passi per guarire.<\/p>\n

Maybe you need to be close to him to remind yourself every day that you\u2019re better off without him.<\/p>\n

Oppure avete bisogno che scompaia dalla faccia della terra. Ma qualsiasi cosa facciate, ricordatevi di mettere voi stesse e i vostri bisogni al primo posto. Anche voi meritate di essere felici.<\/p>\n

Mettersi in mostra<\/h2>\n

\"uomo<\/p>\n

He goes off the radar for a while and all of a sudden he\u2019s traveling the world, starting a successful business and he\u2019s Instagramming the shit out of it all.<\/p>\n

I mean, if he wasn\u2019t that much into social media before, think a bit about the reason behind this new-found social media love.<\/p>\n

I think you already know the answer. The reason behind all of this is to show you that he\u2019s so much better than you are.<\/p>\n

Maybe what he did to you and the way he hurt you affected his ego and shook his world for a bit but have no fear\u2014he\u2019s back on his feet again.<\/p>\n

Deve essere il migliore l\u00e0 fuori, deve avere le ragazze migliori intorno a s\u00e9, la macchina migliore e sbatterti tutto in faccia.<\/p>\n

It\u2019s his way of telling you that he has moved on and there\u2019s no chance in hell you will ever get back together.<\/p>\n

La soluzione a questo problema? La regola del non contatto. Bloccatelo su tutti i social media, cancellate le sue foto dal telefono e fate del vostro meglio per ignorarlo.<\/p>\n

But don\u2019t forget to remind yourself every single day that you are amazing and worthy and the fiercest human being out there. You swam oceans of your sadness and you conquered hell. He\u2019s nothing compared to that.<\/p>\n

Tenete presente che un uomo emotivamente non disponibile non torner\u00e0 mai strisciando da voi. <\/b><\/em><\/p>\n

\u00c8 un maestro della manipolazione e vi far\u00e0 venire da lui, con tutti questi giochi di gelosia, di ostentazione, di ripicca e di rimanere amici con voi.<\/b><\/em><\/p>\n

The whole idea is that you see only the best of him, which is supposed to make you miss him like crazy. And the worst part? It actually works. When we\u2019re in love, we\u2019re not thinking clearly. And he knows it.<\/b><\/em><\/p>\n

Ecco quindi 5 cose da fare quando il vostro uomo emotivamente non disponibile continua a tornare:<\/b><\/em><\/span><\/p>\n

Rimanere fuori dalla portata<\/h2>\n

\"Donna <\/p>\n

Tell him that you\u2019re done and show him. Every time he calls you, show him you\u2019re not there for him.<\/p>\n

Every time he wants to make you jealous, show him that you don\u2019t care.<\/p>\n

Pretend that he\u2019s no longer there and when it\u2019s necessary to acknowledge his existence, give him an Academy Award-winning smile. Make sure that you are out of reach of him, from his games and toxic love.<\/p>\n

Ricorda che non sei mai stato tu<\/h2>\n

\"giovane<\/p>\n

Non \u00e8 mai stata colpa tua. La sua incapacit\u00e0 di impegnarsi e di rimanere fedele non ha nulla a che fare con voi.<\/p>\n

Hai dato il meglio di te, ti sei fatto in quattro per far funzionare questa relazione.<\/p>\n

And sometimes, it just doesn\u2019t. Because it takes two for love and you were the only one working on it.<\/p>\n

And every time he comes back to you, asking for a second chance or driving you crazy with his mind games, remind yourself that you\u2019re better than that. Remind yourself that his immature ass doesn\u2019t deserve your time.<\/p>\n

Ignorare gli aspetti positivi e credere a quelli negativi<\/h2>\n

\"donna<\/p>\n

I\u2019ve been there, where you are now. Always thinking about the good times we had together and all the times he made me feel like I was the most amazing woman out there. Like I was the only one for him and the world was at our feet.<\/p>\n

Ma il fatto \u00e8 che non \u00e8 mai stato cos\u00ec. Non sono mai stata l'unica per lui e non c'\u00e8 mai stato un futuro da condividere.<\/p>\n

And it wasn\u2019t until I realized the true nature of our relationship that I was able to move on.<\/p>\n

If you are sure you don\u2019t want him in your life anymore, focus on the negatives. Focus on all the times you stared at an empty screen, waiting for his message.<\/p>\n

Concentratevi su tutte le volte che vi ha illuso, le volte in cui vi ha promesso il mondo e non vi ha dato nulla. Vedetelo per quello che \u00e8, non per la persona che ha finto di essere.<\/p>\n

Don\u2019t put yourself at his beck and call and keep the no contact rule<\/h2>\n

\"donna<\/p>\n

When you\u2019re involved with an emotionally unavailable man, the thing is that you control your role.<\/p>\n

At first, you don\u2019t know who he is and you give him everything, because that\u2019s just how you love.<\/p>\n

But later on, once you see him for who he is, it\u2019s incredibly important for you to change that role.<\/p>\n

Cut him off and don\u2019t go running to him the moment he calls you. I get it, you still love him and you want to help him but you need to help yourself first!<\/p>\n

And that\u2019s exactly why keeping the no contact rule is essential for you to move on.<\/p>\n

It\u2019s the only way that you can show him loud and clear that you have moved on and you\u2019re no longer up for his games and manipulations. It\u2019s time for him to look for another victim because you ain\u2019t one.<\/p>\n

Diventate la donna che avete sempre ammirato<\/h2>\n

\"donna
\nQuella donna straordinaria e feroce che non permette a nessuno di toglierle il suo valore. La donna che si fa valere, a prescindere da ci\u00f2 che la vita le lancia. La donna che ha tutte le carte in mano e sa come usarle.<\/p>\n

Guess what? You are already that woman. Just because you fell, it doesn\u2019t mean you\u2019re no longer her.<\/p>\n

Just because you believed and hoped, it doesn\u2019t mean you\u2019re not badass and fierce.<\/p>\n

And just because you loved the wrong man, it doesn\u2019t mean you\u2019re less of a badass woman.<\/p>\n

You may lose your ground for a second but you know where you stand. Don\u2019t ever let anyone convince you otherwise!<\/p>\n

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