{"id":17373,"date":"2020-09-26T08:21:03","date_gmt":"2020-09-26T08:21:03","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/herway.net\/?p=17373"},"modified":"2021-08-11T13:33:21","modified_gmt":"2021-08-11T13:33:21","slug":"non-credo-nelle-anime-gemelle-ma-voglio-credere-in-noi","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/non-credo-nelle-anime-gemelle-ma-voglio-credere-in-noi\/","title":{"rendered":"Non credo nelle anime gemelle, ma voglio credere in noi"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><strong>Si dice che l'amore possa vincere tutto, ma la vita mi ha dimostrato il contrario troppe volte.<\/strong> Love can\u2019t conquer the feeling of betrayal that lingers when your loved one cheats on you.<\/p>\n<p>Love can\u2019t wash away the bitter taste of pain that heartbreak leaves in your mind.<\/p>\n<p>And love can\u2019t restore solid ground under your feet once you lose it. Only I can do that. My will to live, my determination and the choices I make.<\/p>\n<p><em>Ma perch\u00e9 mi fai sentire come se tutto fosse possibile? Perch\u00e9 mi fai sentire come se l'amore potesse davvero vincere tutto?<\/em><\/p>\n<p><strong>They say that it\u2019s destiny and faith that brings you together with your other half but I never believed it.<\/strong> Non esiste una cosa come la fede o<a href=\"https:\/\/www.psychologytoday.com\/us\/blog\/love-and-gratitude\/201603\/6-science-based-tips-lifelong-love\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\"> amore per tutta la vita<\/a>.<\/p>\n<p>Il lieto fine e l'anima gemella non esistono. Almeno io non l'ho mai visto.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-112037\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/04\/young-sad-woman-sitting-on-the-floor.jpg\" alt=\"giovane donna triste seduta sul pavimento\" width=\"1600\" height=\"1068\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/04\/young-sad-woman-sitting-on-the-floor.jpg 1600w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/04\/young-sad-woman-sitting-on-the-floor-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/04\/young-sad-woman-sitting-on-the-floor-1024x684.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/04\/young-sad-woman-sitting-on-the-floor-768x513.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/04\/young-sad-woman-sitting-on-the-floor-1536x1025.jpg 1536w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/04\/young-sad-woman-sitting-on-the-floor-150x100.jpg 150w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/04\/young-sad-woman-sitting-on-the-floor-720x481.jpg 720w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/04\/young-sad-woman-sitting-on-the-floor-1280x854.jpg 1280w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1600px) 100vw, 1600px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Ho visto solo manipolazioni e amore tossico. Tutto ci\u00f2 che ho provato \u00e8 stato il dolore di non essere mai all'altezza e il dolore di vedere la persona amata uscire dalla porta.<\/p>\n<p>Cos\u00ec ho deciso di non vederlo mai pi\u00f9. Ho deciso di costruire muri cos\u00ec alti da non farmi mai pi\u00f9 sentire il dolore.<\/p>\n<p><em>But what\u2019s so special about you that makes them tumble down? What\u2019s so special about you that makes me believe in love again?<\/em><\/p>\n<p>Si dice che l'amore bussa alla nostra porta quando meno ce lo aspettiamo.<\/p>\n<p>Dicono che questo tipo di amore straordinario sia quello che fa tremare il mondo fino al midollo e ti fa perdere la testa. E questa volta avevano ragione.<\/p>\n<p>This time I believed what they said because you proved to me that I can. You proved to me that it\u2019s true. I never wanted to love again.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-112038\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/04\/young-couple-having-pillow-fight.jpg\" alt=\"giovane coppia che lotta con i cuscini\" width=\"1600\" height=\"1068\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/04\/young-couple-having-pillow-fight.jpg 1600w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/04\/young-couple-having-pillow-fight-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/04\/young-couple-having-pillow-fight-1024x684.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/04\/young-couple-having-pillow-fight-768x513.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/04\/young-couple-having-pillow-fight-1536x1025.jpg 1536w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/04\/young-couple-having-pillow-fight-150x100.jpg 150w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/04\/young-couple-having-pillow-fight-720x481.jpg 720w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/04\/young-couple-having-pillow-fight-1280x854.jpg 1280w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1600px) 100vw, 1600px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Non ho mai voluto dare a qualcuno la possibilit\u00e0 di distruggermi come ero stata distrutta prima. Non avrei mai voluto far entrare qualcuno, solo per vedere che quel qualcuno saccheggiava il mio cuore e portava via ci\u00f2 che gli piaceva.<\/p>\n<p><em>Ma ti ho lasciato entrare. Sei stata una scelta che sono stata felice di fare. L'unica scelta che mi ha reso eccitato e terrorizzato nello stesso momento. E per una volta \u00e8 stato bello. Per una volta, la paura \u00e8 stata fantastica.<\/em><\/p>\n<p><strong>Si dice che l'amore ti dia tutto ci\u00f2 di cui non sapevi di aver bisogno e ti mostri tutto ci\u00f2 che non credevi potesse accadere. E tu hai fatto lo stesso per me.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>Mi hai mostrato che qualcuno pu\u00f2 amarti senza spezzarti.<\/p>\n<p>You showed me that someone can spoil me with loyalty and honesty, when I gave up on it long ago. You showed me how it feels to be loved and how it feels to know that I\u2019m the only one for you.<\/p>\n<p>How it feels to go to bed knowing that I\u2019ll wake up next to you, without wondering whether you love me.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-112040\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/04\/man-kissing-woman-under-the-sheets.jpg\" alt=\"uomo che bacia donna sotto le lenzuola\" width=\"1600\" height=\"1068\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/04\/man-kissing-woman-under-the-sheets.jpg 1600w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/04\/man-kissing-woman-under-the-sheets-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/04\/man-kissing-woman-under-the-sheets-1024x684.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/04\/man-kissing-woman-under-the-sheets-768x513.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/04\/man-kissing-woman-under-the-sheets-1536x1025.jpg 1536w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/04\/man-kissing-woman-under-the-sheets-150x100.jpg 150w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/04\/man-kissing-woman-under-the-sheets-720x481.jpg 720w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/04\/man-kissing-woman-under-the-sheets-1280x854.jpg 1280w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1600px) 100vw, 1600px\" \/><\/p>\n<p><em>Mi hai mostrato che <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/love\/finalmente-capire-che-lamore-non-deve-distruggere\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\">L'amore non dovrebbe far male<\/a>. Yes, it\u2019s hard. It takes fucking effort to make it work. But we\u2019re fighting and trying together. We\u2019re loving and believing together.<\/em><\/p>\n<p><strong>Dicono che per l'amore bisogna essere in due e finalmente so come ci si sente. Finalmente ho l'amore di cui si parla tanto.<\/strong> Non \u00e8 l'amore dei film o quello di cui si scrive nei libri. Ma ho il nostro amore.<\/p>\n<p>Il nostro tipo di impegno e il nostro tipo di passione. Ho camicie che profumano di te, camicie in cui dormo.<\/p>\n<p>Ho le nostre foto e la felicit\u00e0 incorniciata che mi fa sorridere ogni volta che le guardo.<\/p>\n<p>I have memories and every single day we create new ones. And for once, I don\u2019t have to remember the times when we had it all, because we still do. And we always will.<\/p>\n<p><em>You showed me what it\u2019s like to get out of my comfort zone and that it\u2019s worth it. You are worth it.<\/em><\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-112041\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/04\/couple-laughing-and-hugging.jpg\" alt=\"coppia che ride e si abbraccia\" width=\"1600\" height=\"1068\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/04\/couple-laughing-and-hugging.jpg 1600w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/04\/couple-laughing-and-hugging-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/04\/couple-laughing-and-hugging-1024x684.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/04\/couple-laughing-and-hugging-768x513.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/04\/couple-laughing-and-hugging-1536x1025.jpg 1536w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/04\/couple-laughing-and-hugging-150x100.jpg 150w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/04\/couple-laughing-and-hugging-720x481.jpg 720w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/04\/couple-laughing-and-hugging-1280x854.jpg 1280w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1600px) 100vw, 1600px\" \/><\/p>\n<p><strong>Sono sempre stata una che ha corso dei rischi quando si trattava della mia carriera e della mia vita. Ma l'amore non \u00e8 mai stato uno di questi.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>Questa era la lezione che avevo imparato a fatica e non avevo intenzione di ripeterla. Non avevo intenzione di rifare tutto da capo.<\/p>\n<p>Abbassare la guardia, dare via la mia fiducia per vederlo giocare. Dare delle possibilit\u00e0 a qualcuno che non me ne ha mai data una, tanto per cominciare.<\/p>\n<p>Sono sempre stato quello che non aveva problemi a rischiare tutto per un'avventura.<\/p>\n<p><strong>Ma tu sei stata un'avventura che non avrei mai immaginato.<\/strong> Un'avventura che mi ha messo a nudo e mi ha lasciato all'aperto perch\u00e9 tutti vedessero le mie ferite e le mie cicatrici.<\/p>\n<p>Ma li hai amati lo stesso. Li hai ancora baciati.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-112042\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/04\/couple-kissing-at-sunset.jpg\" alt=\"coppia che si bacia al tramonto\" width=\"1600\" height=\"1068\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/04\/couple-kissing-at-sunset.jpg 1600w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/04\/couple-kissing-at-sunset-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/04\/couple-kissing-at-sunset-1024x684.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/04\/couple-kissing-at-sunset-768x513.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/04\/couple-kissing-at-sunset-1536x1025.jpg 1536w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/04\/couple-kissing-at-sunset-150x100.jpg 150w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/04\/couple-kissing-at-sunset-720x481.jpg 720w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/04\/couple-kissing-at-sunset-1280x854.jpg 1280w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1600px) 100vw, 1600px\" \/><\/p>\n<p><em>I don\u2019t believe in soulmates and happily ever afters. I don\u2019t believe in fairytales and that movie kind of love. But I want to believe in us. I want to believe in you.<\/em><\/p>\n<p>Voglio credere che possiamo farcela. Voglio che tu sia l'unica scelta che far\u00f2 ogni mattina quando aprir\u00f2 gli occhi.<\/p>\n<p>I want your heartbeat to be the last thing I\u2019ll hear before I fall asleep. And I want your arms around my waist to be the only arms I\u2019ll ever feel on me again.<\/p>\n<p>E voglio che anche tu scelga me. Voglio essere tutto ci\u00f2 che hai sempre desiderato e di cui hai bisogno. Quindi, questa \u00e8 la mia promessa per te.<\/p>\n<p><strong>Forse non credo nell'amore e nelle anime gemelle, ma credo in noi. Credo in voi. E ci creder\u00f2 sempre.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-112045\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/04\/I-Dont-Believe-In-Soulmates-But-I-Want-To-Believe-In-Us-pinterest.jpg\" alt=\"Non credo nelle anime gemelle, ma voglio credere in noi\" width=\"1000\" height=\"1500\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/04\/I-Dont-Believe-In-Soulmates-But-I-Want-To-Believe-In-Us-pinterest.jpg 1000w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/04\/I-Dont-Believe-In-Soulmates-But-I-Want-To-Believe-In-Us-pinterest-200x300.jpg 200w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/04\/I-Dont-Believe-In-Soulmates-But-I-Want-To-Believe-In-Us-pinterest-683x1024.jpg 683w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/04\/I-Dont-Believe-In-Soulmates-But-I-Want-To-Believe-In-Us-pinterest-768x1152.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/04\/I-Dont-Believe-In-Soulmates-But-I-Want-To-Believe-In-Us-pinterest-150x225.jpg 150w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1000px) 100vw, 1000px\" \/><\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>They say that love can conquer it all, but life has proved me otherwise one too many times. Love can\u2019t conquer the feeling of betrayal that lingers when your loved one cheats on you. Love can\u2019t wash away the bitter taste of pain that heartbreak leaves in your mind. And love can\u2019t restore solid ground&#8230;<\/p>","protected":false},"author":53,"featured_media":112044,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29615],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-17373","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-soulmate-love"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29615,"label":"soulmate"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/04\/I-Dont-Believe-In-Soulmates-But-I-Want-To-Believe-In-Us-1024x684.jpg",1024,684,true],"author_info":{"display_name":"Ariel Quinn","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/author\/ariel\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29615,"name":"soulmate","slug":"soulmate-love","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29615,"taxonomy":"category","description":"Do you believe in twin flames - a person you're meant to have in your life no matter what? 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