{"id":17753,"date":"2020-03-18T07:11:50","date_gmt":"2020-03-18T07:11:50","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/herway.net\/?p=17753"},"modified":"2021-08-12T07:45:55","modified_gmt":"2021-08-12T07:45:55","slug":"non-avrebbe-problemi-di-fiducia-se-tu-non-avessi-avuto-problemi-di-bugie","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/non-avrebbe-problemi-di-fiducia-se-tu-non-avessi-avuto-problemi-di-bugie\/","title":{"rendered":"Non avrebbe avuto problemi di fiducia se voi non aveste avuto problemi di bugie"},"content":{"rendered":"

Ogni volta che vedete la vostra ragazza ultimamente, vedete solo dubbi nei suoi occhi. Pensate quindi che stia esagerando e che stia reagendo in modo eccessivo.<\/p>\n

You don\u2019t know what has gotten into her and why she doesn\u2019t trust a word you say. She obviously has strong trust issues and this has been impacting on your relationship in horrible ways.<\/p>\n

Vi chiedete dove sia sparita la ragazza felice e allegra che avete conosciuto.<\/strong> Ora si pu\u00f2 solo sentire il suo assillo e mettere in discussione ogni tua mossa.<\/p>\n

Non c'\u00e8 nulla che tu possa fare per dimostrare il tuo amore per lei. Pensi di fare del tuo meglio per essere un bravo ragazzo, per essere un fidanzato amorevole e solidale, ma niente sembra funzionare.<\/p>\n

Anche se spostaste il mondo per lei, avrebbe comunque dei dubbi sul vostro amore.<\/p>\n

And naturally, this is slowly starting to annoy you. You didn\u2019t picture your life like this.<\/p>\n

You don\u2019t need someone whose il sovrappensiero rovina la relazione<\/a> and someone who is constantly checking on every little thing you do. You don\u2019t want to feel like you are constantly being monitored and controlled.<\/p>\n

Secondo lei, tutto questo le \u00e8 sfuggito di mano. Lei \u00e8 troppo gelosa e cominciate a pensare che stia impazzendo.<\/p>\n

You feel like you just can\u2019t deal with her constant mood swings and with her behavior toward you in general.<\/p>\n

But what you don\u2019t know is that every relationship is a two-way street. Il suo comportamento \u00e8 solo una reazione alle vostre azioni e questa \u00e8 l'unica verit\u00e0. <\/strong><\/p>\n

Invece di accusarla di essere pazza, gelosa e troppo dispotica, avete mai pensato a tutte le cose che avete fatto e che hanno portato la vostra ragazza a essere cos\u00ec?<\/strong><\/p>\n

S\u00ec, \u00e8 ben consapevole di avere problemi di fiducia<\/a>. She doesn\u2019t believe a word you say and there is nothing that can convince her of your honesty.<\/p>\n

Yes, she sometimes acts like she is paranoid and there are times when she\u2019ll accuse you of things you didn\u2019t do.<\/p>\n

Ma avete mai pensato a ci\u00f2 che avete fatto che l'ha portata a comportarsi cos\u00ec? Avete mai messo in discussione voi stessi e tutto ci\u00f2 che avete fatto a lei per farla comportare in questo modo?<\/strong><\/p>\n

You know very well this girl wasn\u2019t like this when you met her. You know she was an innocent and caring girl who believed in love and who believed that there was something good in everything.<\/p>\n

But most of all, she believed that there was something good in you. Although people kept telling her that you were trouble and that you weren\u2019t the right man for her, she had faith in you.<\/p>\n

Aveva fede nel suo amore per te e credeva che l'enorme amore che provava per te ti avrebbe cambiato.<\/p>\n

Ma non ti ha mai cambiato. Invece l'hai cambiata.<\/strong> You showed her that she never should\u2019ve trusted you.<\/p>\n

Le hai dimostrato che tutti avevano ragione su di te e che lei era stata sciocca a crederti. L'hai delusa sempre di pi\u00f9 ogni volta che ti ha scoperto a mentire.<\/p>\n

Ha perso sempre pi\u00f9 fiducia in te ogni volta che ti ha sorpreso a nascondere il telefono, ogni volta che facevi telefonate misteriose e ogni volta che ti ha sorpreso a guardare un'altra ragazza.<\/p>\n

And then, she caught you cheating on her. You may think she forgave you. And maybe she did. But she didn\u2019t do it because she wanted to.<\/p>\n

She did it because she loved you, despite everything you did to her. She did it because she couldn\u2019t imagine not having you in her life, despite all the pain you caused her.<\/p>\n

And she did it because she kept hoping that you\u2019d eventually become a better man.<\/p>\n

But although she forgave you, she never forgot what you did to her. She tried really hard to put all of that behind her and she tried to turn over a new leaf. But she just couldn\u2019t.<\/p>\n

I sentimenti di tradimento e umiliazione che le hai fatto provare sono stati ancora pi\u00f9 forti dell'amore che provava per te.<\/p>\n

And above all, she still can\u2019t perdonare se stessa<\/a> for staying by your side. She can\u2019t stand living in this torture anymore.<\/p>\n

Ogni volta che ti guarda, vede un uomo che l'ha ferita nel modo pi\u00f9 orribile, vede un uomo che l'ha distrutta e cambiata per sempre.<\/p>\n

E non pu\u00f2 farci nulla.<\/p>\n

Quindi, ogni volta che vi infastidisce la sua mancanza di fiducia, ogni volta che pensate che vi stia maltrattando e ogni volta che pensate che sia pazza, ricordatevi che siete stati voi a renderla cos\u00ec. <\/strong><\/p>\n

Ricordate che tutto questo \u00e8 colpa vostra.<\/strong> And remember that she wouldn\u2019t have trust issues if you hadn\u2019t had lying issues.<\/p>\n

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