{"id":17792,"date":"2018-04-18T12:41:09","date_gmt":"2018-04-18T12:41:09","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/herway.net\/?p=17792"},"modified":"2021-08-12T10:09:27","modified_gmt":"2021-08-12T10:09:27","slug":"non-ha-perso-il-tuo-amore-ha-solo-capito-di-non-averlo-mai-avuto","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/non-ha-perso-il-tuo-amore-ha-solo-capito-di-non-averlo-mai-avuto\/","title":{"rendered":"Non ha perso il vostro amore, ha solo capito che non l'ha mai avuto."},"content":{"rendered":"

Per quanto sperasse che voi due ce l'avreste fatta, in realt\u00e0 non era destino. Non importa quanto ci abbia provato, quanto abbia dato o quanto abbia pregato, \u00e8 stato tutto inutile perch\u00e9 tu eri incapace di amare. Lo sei ancora, credo.<\/span><\/p>\n

Tutte le volte che ha creduto che tu l'amassi, l'hai solo presa in giro.<\/b> You know what you have to do in order to get what you want. You knew all the right words to say and all the right moves to make so that she would fall for you. To make her believe that you\u2019re honest, while that word doesn\u2019t even exist in your vocabulary. She fell in love with you without even thinking about it, because it felt good. It felt right.<\/span><\/p>\n

And she genuinely believed that you meant what you said. There was no reason for her to doubt your promises and all the vows you made her. There was no reason for her to go to bed wondering if maybe you\u2019re not telling the truth. And that\u2019s why it broke her even harder when you left.<\/span><\/p>\n

Tutte le volte che ha creduto di potersi fidare di te, tu hai usato la sua fiducia contro di lei.<\/b> Ti ha affidato il suo cuore e la sua vita. Ti ha lasciato entrare, anche se le persone l'hanno usata prima. Ti ha dato tutto, anche se prima aveva perso tutto. Ma si \u00e8 fidata di te. Lei era l'unico rischio che era felice di correre perch\u00e9 credeva che questa volta sarebbe stato diverso.<\/span><\/p>\n

Credeva che non avreste giocato la sua fiducia, quindi ve l'ha data facilmente. Credeva che l'avreste protetta quando la vita l'avrebbe attaccata, cos\u00ec <\/span>ti ha dato il suo cuore<\/span><\/a>. Credeva a tante cose e nessuna si \u00e8 rivelata vera. Neanche una.<\/span><\/p>\n

Tutte le volte che ha ascoltato le tue parole come se fossero la Sacra Bibbia, l'hai inebriata con esse.<\/b> All'inizio si trattava di risatine e risate mescolate a espressioni d'amore e complimenti. Con il tempo, i complimenti si sono trasformati in manipolazioni. Le tue espressioni d'amore si sono trasformate in condizioni. Ma lei ti amava ancora. Credeva ancora in te. Credeva ancora nell'amore che vi univa. O almeno credeva che lo faceste.<\/span><\/p>\n

Tutte le volte che ti ha dato una seconda possibilit\u00e0, tu l'hai sfruttata per spezzarla ancora una volta.<\/b> She tried to escape; she tried to walk away. You were like a boomerang she couldn\u2019t run away from. And every time you would bounce back, you would break her more. You would take away one more piece of her, until nothing was left.<\/span><\/p>\n

E ora che \u00e8 scappata <\/b>fuori dalle possibilit\u00e0<\/b><\/a> e l'amore, \u00e8 finalmente libera.<\/b> Finalmente potr\u00e0 vedere che non sei stato altro che un errore che le \u00e8 costato molto. Pu\u00f2 finalmente vedere che non \u00e8 mai stata lei a non essere amabile, ma \u00e8 stata la tua incapacit\u00e0 di amare a scacciarti. Sono stati il tuo egoismo e il tuo cuore tossico a distruggerla.<\/span><\/p>\n

She was so afraid of letting you down, so afraid of facing a day without you, that she held on for you like she was holding on for her life. But she found her courage, she found a way to be brave, because it\u2019s better to face every day alone than with you by her side. It\u2019s better to fall asleep alone than to fall asleep in your lying hands.<\/span><\/p>\n

She finally sees that she never lost your love because you can\u2019t lose something you never had.<\/b> For too long, she blamed herself for all the downfalls of your relationship because you made her believe that it was all her fault. For too long, she hated parts of herself, thinking that they\u2019re the reason why you left. For too long, she refused to love herself because you didn\u2019t love her. You made her believe that she\u2019s the unlovable one and screw you for that!<\/span><\/p>\n

You took the most amazing woman with the biggest and greatest heart the world has seen and you broke her. You took her trust and stomped on it. You took her love and set it on fire so she\u2019ll burn in it. But she still managed to see through your lies and manipulations. She still managed to see the truth and to finally see that she deserves more than you. More than what you can even dream about giving to someone.<\/span><\/p>\n

You can\u2019t lose something you never had, but it still doesn\u2019t mean it hurts less. She never had your love, but losing you still hurt.<\/b> The fact that she loved someone who never loved her back. The fact that she gave herself to someone who only took the  parts he liked. That\u2019s not love, for God\u2019s sake. Love is accepting and loving each other the way you are. But I guess that\u2019s science fiction for you.<\/span><\/p>\n

But she\u2019s getting there. She\u2019s learning to love herself the way you never knew how to love her. She\u2019s learning to put herself first, something you never even considered. And she\u2019s accepting the truth that it was never her fault you left because you weren\u2019t there in the first place. Not for her, not for your relationship. And not for love.<\/span><\/span><\/i><\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

No matter how much she hoped that you two would make it, it was never meant to be, really. No matter how much she tried, how much she gave or how much she prayed, it was all in vain because you were incapable of loving. You still are, I guess. All the times she believed…<\/p>","protected":false},"author":40,"featured_media":17794,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29617],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-17792","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-heartbreak"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29617,"label":"heartbreak"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/04\/soragrit-wongsa-599087-unsplash-2.jpg",800,533,false],"author_info":{"display_name":"Tara Brown","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/author\/tara-brown\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29617,"name":"heartbreak","slug":"heartbreak","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29617,"taxonomy":"category","description":"Recovering after having your heart broken is tough. That's why I've decided to collect different stories of heartbreak - to help everyone going through the same.","parent":38,"count":146,"filter":"raw","cat_ID":29617,"category_count":146,"category_description":"Recovering after having your heart broken is tough. That's why I've decided to collect different stories of heartbreak - to help everyone going through the same.","cat_name":"heartbreak","category_nicename":"heartbreak","category_parent":38}],"tag_info":false,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/17792","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/40"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=17792"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/17792\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/17794"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=17792"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=17792"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=17792"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}