{"id":17841,"date":"2020-07-19T08:37:14","date_gmt":"2020-07-19T08:37:14","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/herway.net\/?p=17841"},"modified":"2021-08-12T10:31:07","modified_gmt":"2021-08-12T10:31:07","slug":"alluomo-che-continua-a-lasciarmi-e-a-tornare-da-me-ne-ho-abbastanza","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/alluomo-che-continua-a-lasciarmi-e-a-tornare-da-me-ne-ho-abbastanza\/","title":{"rendered":"Al ragazzo che continua a lasciarmi e a tornare da me: ne ho abbastanza"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>Non ho mai saputo quale fosse la mia posizione nei tuoi confronti. La nostra relazione era una montagna russa di emozioni e non in senso positivo.<\/p>\n<p>Non \u00e8 che avessimo una sorta di quasi relazione. No, non hai avuto problemi a dare un'etichetta alle cose. Non hai mai avuto problemi a chiamarmi la tua ragazza o a dire che avevamo una relazione.<\/p>\n<p>You never had a problem with theory\u2014it was the practice that was hard for you to accomplish.<\/p>\n<p>Il tuo problema era restare. Non sapr\u00f2 mai se stavi scappando da me fin dall'inizio o se in realt\u00e0 stavi scappando da te stesso per tutto questo tempo.<\/p>\n<p>In ogni caso, il punto \u00e8 fondamentalmente lo stesso. Tu eri sempre quello che correva e io ero sempre quello che ti inseguiva.<\/p>\n<p>E non mi hai mai detto il tuo <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/relationship\/ti-sto-dicendo-il-mio-ultimo-addio\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\">addio definitivo<\/a>. Because you always knew you had someone to come back to if you weren\u2019t happy wherever you went.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-103258\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/04\/worried-woman-in-deep-thoughts.jpg\" alt=\"donna preoccupata e pensierosa\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/04\/worried-woman-in-deep-thoughts.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/04\/worried-woman-in-deep-thoughts-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/04\/worried-woman-in-deep-thoughts-768x513.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/04\/worried-woman-in-deep-thoughts-150x100.jpg 150w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/04\/worried-woman-in-deep-thoughts-720x481.jpg 720w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>E questo era vero. Avevi sempre me da cui tornare. Avevi sempre il tuo rifugio, una casa accogliente che ti aspettava, nonostante tutto quello che facevi mentre eri via.<\/p>\n<p>Col tempo, questa \u00e8 diventata una tua abitudine. Ogni volta che ti stancavi di avere una relazione, ogni volta che ti stancavi di me, ti limitavi a <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/relationship\/alluomo-che-mi-ha-lasciato-senza-dire-una-parola\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\">lasciarmi senza dire una parola<\/a>.<\/p>\n<p>A volte sei stato via per settimane o mesi. E ho trascorso tutto quel tempo aspettando pazientemente il tuo ritorno.<\/p>\n<p>Even when I was petrified that this was your last time leaving me, deep down I always knew you\u2019d be back. And I was always right.<\/p>\n<p><strong>E ogni volta che tornavi, ti amavo ancora di pi\u00f9.<\/strong> You always promised me that you\u2019d change, telling me that you had finally realized how much you loved me and that you would never leave my side again.<\/p>\n<p>Mi dichiaravi il tuo amore eterno per me e questo bastava a rendermi felice e sereno.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-103259\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/04\/woman-with-closed-eyes-standing-outdoor.jpg\" alt=\"donna con occhi chiusi in piedi all&#039;aperto\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/04\/woman-with-closed-eyes-standing-outdoor.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/04\/woman-with-closed-eyes-standing-outdoor-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/04\/woman-with-closed-eyes-standing-outdoor-768x513.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/04\/woman-with-closed-eyes-standing-outdoor-150x100.jpg 150w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/04\/woman-with-closed-eyes-standing-outdoor-720x481.jpg 720w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>And I believed you. I didn\u2019t believe all of this because I thought it was true\u2014I believed in it because I wanted it so badly to be true.<\/p>\n<p>E perch\u00e9 questi erano gli unici momenti in cui sentivo il tuo amore. Questi erano i momenti a cui mi aggrappavo ogni volta che te ne andavi.<\/p>\n<p>I kept telling myself that you wouldn\u2019t be coming back to me every time if you didn\u2019t love me. And this was the only thing keeping me sane and keeping me alive.<\/p>\n<p>Dopo questo periodo di reciproca beatitudine e felicit\u00e0, tornavo ad avere paura.<\/p>\n<p>I was always terrified that you\u2019d leave me, because deep down I knew it was just a matter of time before that would happen.<\/p>\n<p>Aspettavo costantemente che te ne andassi, anche se era l'ultima cosa che volevo.<\/p>\n<p>Se ci penso bene, ho trascorso la maggior parte della nostra relazione con la paura. E quella paura mi ha paralizzato completamente.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-103260\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/04\/sad-woman-sitting-in-the-living-room.jpg\" alt=\"donna triste seduta in salotto\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/04\/sad-woman-sitting-in-the-living-room.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/04\/sad-woman-sitting-in-the-living-room-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/04\/sad-woman-sitting-in-the-living-room-768x513.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/04\/sad-woman-sitting-in-the-living-room-150x100.jpg 150w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/04\/sad-woman-sitting-in-the-living-room-720x481.jpg 720w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>D'altra parte, non hai mai avuto paura. Sapevi che ti avrei sempre aspettato a braccia aperte.<\/p>\n<p>E io ti ho sempre riabbracciato, come se non fosse successo nulla. Ti ho sempre permesso di comportarti come se non te ne fossi mai andata e abbiamo sempre ripreso le cose da dove le avevamo lasciate.<\/p>\n<p><strong>But the time has come for me to say I am done and to tell you I\u2019ve had more than enough.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>Mi hai lasciato. Di nuovo. Hai fatto tutto quello che stavi facendo in questi anni.<\/p>\n<p><strong>Non \u00e8 cambiato nulla.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p><strong>Tranne che per me.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>I don\u2019t know why this time it is different but what I do know is that I can\u2019t wait for you any longer.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-103261\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/04\/sad-woman-sitting-in-the-field.jpg\" alt=\"donna triste seduta nel campo\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/04\/sad-woman-sitting-in-the-field.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/04\/sad-woman-sitting-in-the-field-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/04\/sad-woman-sitting-in-the-field-768x513.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/04\/sad-woman-sitting-in-the-field-150x100.jpg 150w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/04\/sad-woman-sitting-in-the-field-720x481.jpg 720w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>And I don\u2019t want to. I spent years of my life waiting for you. And it\u2019s time for me to finally move on from you for good.<\/p>\n<p>I\u2019ve had enough of being your backup plan, your last resort and your safety net. I\u2019m done being there for you when everyone else turns their backs on you.<\/p>\n<p>I\u2019m done putting my life on hold, while waiting for you to come to your senses.<\/p>\n<p>Perch\u00e9 ora so che non cambierai mai. E so che non sono pronta a passare il resto della mia vita in questo modo.<\/p>\n<p><strong>Non sono io a dirti che devi scegliere finalmente me. Non sono io che ti do un ultimatum e non sono io che ti chiedo di tornare da me se vuoi tenermi.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p><strong>Questo sono io che ti tolgo le opzioni. Sono io che ti dico che non c'\u00e8 niente che tu possa fare... <\/strong>pi\u00f9<strong> per farmi tornare indietro. <\/strong><\/p>\n<p><strong>Questo \u00e8 il mio allontanamento da te per la prima e l'ultima volta. E questo \u00e8 il mio non voltarmi mai indietro.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-103264\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/04\/To-The-Guy-Who-Keeps-Leaving-Me-And-Coming-Back-To-Me-Ive-Had-Enough-pinterest.jpg\" alt=\"Al ragazzo che continua a lasciarmi e a tornare da me: &quot;Ne ho abbastanza&quot;.\" width=\"1000\" height=\"1500\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/04\/To-The-Guy-Who-Keeps-Leaving-Me-And-Coming-Back-To-Me-Ive-Had-Enough-pinterest.jpg 1000w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/04\/To-The-Guy-Who-Keeps-Leaving-Me-And-Coming-Back-To-Me-Ive-Had-Enough-pinterest-200x300.jpg 200w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/04\/To-The-Guy-Who-Keeps-Leaving-Me-And-Coming-Back-To-Me-Ive-Had-Enough-pinterest-683x1024.jpg 683w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/04\/To-The-Guy-Who-Keeps-Leaving-Me-And-Coming-Back-To-Me-Ive-Had-Enough-pinterest-768x1152.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/04\/To-The-Guy-Who-Keeps-Leaving-Me-And-Coming-Back-To-Me-Ive-Had-Enough-pinterest-150x225.jpg 150w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1000px) 100vw, 1000px\" \/><\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>I never knew where I stood with you. Our relationship was an emotional roller coaster and not in a good way. It is not that we had a kind of almost relationship. No, you had no trouble labeling things. You never had a problem calling me your girlfriend or saying that we were in a&#8230;<\/p>","protected":false},"author":40,"featured_media":103262,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29618],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-17841","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-moving-on"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29618,"label":"moving on"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/04\/To-The-Guy-Who-Keeps-Leaving-Me-And-Coming-Back-To-Me-Ive-Had-Enough.jpg",800,534,false],"author_info":{"display_name":"Tara Brown","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/author\/tara-brown\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29618,"name":"moving on","slug":"moving-on","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29618,"taxonomy":"category","description":"When nothing else works - inspiring stories about moving on are bound to help you let go of people and situations you never thought you could live without.\r\n","parent":38,"count":200,"filter":"raw","cat_ID":29618,"category_count":200,"category_description":"When nothing else works - inspiring stories about moving on are bound to help you let go of people and situations you never thought you could live without.\r\n","cat_name":"moving on","category_nicename":"moving-on","category_parent":38}],"tag_info":false,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/17841","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/40"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=17841"}],"version-history":[{"count":1,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/17841\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":163550,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/17841\/revisions\/163550"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/103262"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=17841"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=17841"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=17841"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}