{"id":17976,"date":"2020-05-23T12:57:03","date_gmt":"2020-05-23T12:57:03","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/herway.net\/?p=17976"},"modified":"2021-08-12T10:49:48","modified_gmt":"2021-08-12T10:49:48","slug":"se-la-ami-smetti-di-romperla","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/se-la-ami-smetti-di-romperla\/","title":{"rendered":"Se la ami, smetti di romperla"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>Forse non lo fai apposta. Forse sei solo ignaro delle cose che le fai.<\/p>\n<p>Perhaps nobody ever cared to teach you how you treat a girl properly. Perhaps that\u2019s not what you want to do, but you are&#8230; breaking her.<\/p>\n<p>With your actions, with all the things you do and choose not to do, you\u2019re breaking her heart piece by piece.<\/p>\n<p><b>La spezzi ogni volta, poco a poco, quando scegli altri al posto suo. <\/b><\/p>\n<p>When you show her that others come before her all the time, when you put other people\u2019s feelings in front of hers, when you rush to save others but leave her heart unattended, that\u2019s what hurts like the sharpest dagger stabbed right in her heart.<\/p>\n<p><b>La spezzi poco a poco ogni volta che <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/relationship\/10-segnali-di-allarme-per-gli-sms-che-non-dovreste-mai-ignorare\/\">ignorare<\/a> lei. <\/b><\/p>\n<p>Each time you leave her on read, each time her messages get no answer, each time you\u2019re with your friends or out and you don\u2019t pick up the phone when she calls you, be it on purpose or accidentally, you make her feel like she\u2019s not that important to you.<\/p>\n<p><b>Ogni volta che la trascurate, la spezzate a poco a poco. <\/b><\/p>\n<p>See, when you don\u2019t take care of her, when you ignore her feelings, when her love and her caring for you goes unnoticed, when you don\u2019t reciprocate what she gives you, when you don\u2019t listen when she\u2019s talking to you, her soul wilts slowly.<\/p>\n<p><b>La spezzi poco a poco, ogni volta che le fai mettere in dubbio il suo valore.<\/b><\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-96815\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/11\/sad-woman-looking-at-camera-1.jpg\" alt=\"donna triste che guarda la telecamera\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/11\/sad-woman-looking-at-camera-1.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/11\/sad-woman-looking-at-camera-1-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/11\/sad-woman-looking-at-camera-1-768x513.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/11\/sad-woman-looking-at-camera-1-150x100.jpg 150w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/11\/sad-woman-looking-at-camera-1-720x481.jpg 720w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>When you don\u2019t notice how pretty she\u2019s dressed up just for you, when you tell her she doesn\u2019t know what she\u2019s talking about, when you yawn at something she\u2019s trying to tell you with fire in her eyes, when you make her feel like she\u2019s only flaws and mistakes, you tear her confidence completely down.<\/p>\n<p><b>La spezzi poco a poco ogni volta che <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/relationship\/11-segni-che-stai-uscendo-con-un-fobico-dellimpegno\/\">rifiutare di impegnarsi<\/a> a lei.<\/b><\/p>\n<p>Still texting other girls and sliding in their DM\u2019s isn\u2019t commitment. Seeing other people while you\u2019re \u2018with\u2019 her isn\u2019t commitment.<\/p>\n<p>Going away and coming back is not commitment. Having active profile on various dating sites isn\u2019t commitment.<\/p>\n<p>Holding her hand in front of everyone and telling her that she\u2019s the only one for you and then acting accordingly <i> \u00e8 <\/i> impegno.<\/p>\n<p>Non avere un piano di riserva <i> \u00e8 <\/i> impegno. Promettendole un futuro <i> \u00e8 <\/i> impegno. Tutto il resto sono solo scuse.<\/p>\n<p><b>La spezzi a poco a poco quando dici di amarla ma non fai nulla per dimostrarlo. <\/b><\/p>\n<p>When all she gets are words followed by zero actions, when you only talk about your feelings towards her but show her none of them, when you say how you love her and how you couldn\u2019t imagine your life without her and then you constantly leave her alone and prove to her everything the opposite of what you said, you just make a mess in her head that\u2019s really hard to fix.<\/p>\n<p><b><i>Se la ami, smetti di spezzarle il cuore.<\/i><\/b><\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-96820\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/11\/sad-woman-drawing-heart-on-the-window-glass.jpg\" alt=\"donna triste che disegna un cuore sul vetro della finestra\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/11\/sad-woman-drawing-heart-on-the-window-glass.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/11\/sad-woman-drawing-heart-on-the-window-glass-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/11\/sad-woman-drawing-heart-on-the-window-glass-768x513.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/11\/sad-woman-drawing-heart-on-the-window-glass-150x100.jpg 150w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/11\/sad-woman-drawing-heart-on-the-window-glass-720x481.jpg 720w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p><b>Don\u2019t make her leave when all she wants to do is stay.<\/b><\/p>\n<p>Vuole stare accanto a te. Vuole che siate felici insieme. Non c'\u00e8 nulla che desideri di pi\u00f9 nella sua vita che amarvi ed essere amata da voi.<\/p>\n<p>God, this girl isn\u2019t asking for much. She isn\u2019t asking for stars. She\u2019s just asking you to treat her like a girl in love deserves to be treated.<\/p>\n<p><b><i>Don\u2019t push her away with your actions. She wants to stay. But she won\u2019t stay unless you stop breaking her heart.<\/i><\/b><\/p>\n<p><b>Don\u2019t break her because she will never be able to love again. <\/b><\/p>\n<p>She\u2019s had enough. She\u2019s been through hell already. She\u2019s been broken so many times before and despite it all, she decided to trust you.<\/p>\n<p>She decided to try with you, to give you a shot. She refused to cage her heart or build walls up. Please, don\u2019t show her she made a mistake.<\/p>\n<p><b><i>Se la ami, amala nel modo giusto. Smetti di spezzarle il cuore. <\/i><\/b><\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-96809\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/11\/If-You-Love-Her-Stop-Breaking-Her-pinterest.jpg\" alt=\"Se la ami, smetti di romperla\" width=\"735\" height=\"1102\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/11\/If-You-Love-Her-Stop-Breaking-Her-pinterest.jpg 735w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/11\/If-You-Love-Her-Stop-Breaking-Her-pinterest-200x300.jpg 200w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/11\/If-You-Love-Her-Stop-Breaking-Her-pinterest-683x1024.jpg 683w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/11\/If-You-Love-Her-Stop-Breaking-Her-pinterest-150x225.jpg 150w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 735px) 100vw, 735px\" \/><\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Perhaps you\u2019re not doing it on purpose. Perhaps you\u2019re just oblivious to the things you do to her. Perhaps nobody ever cared to teach you how you treat a girl properly. Perhaps that\u2019s not what you want to do, but you are&#8230; breaking her. With your actions, with all the things you do and choose&#8230;<\/p>","protected":false},"author":39,"featured_media":96822,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29641],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-17976","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-dating-tips-for-him"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29641,"label":"dating tips for him"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/11\/If-You-Love-Her-Stop-Breaking-Her.jpg",800,534,false],"author_info":{"display_name":"Owen Scott","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/author\/hase\/"},"comment_info":1,"category_info":[{"term_id":29641,"name":"dating tips for him","slug":"dating-tips-for-him","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29641,"taxonomy":"category","description":"These are not just any dating tips. 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