{"id":18011,"date":"2020-06-24T13:00:38","date_gmt":"2020-06-24T13:00:38","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/herway.net\/?p=18011"},"modified":"2021-08-11T12:15:30","modified_gmt":"2021-08-11T12:15:30","slug":"rimanere-single-finche-non-si-incontra-la-persona-che-fa-ridere-cosi-tanto-da-far-male-allo-stomaco","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/rimanere-single-finche-non-si-incontra-la-persona-che-fa-ridere-cosi-tanto-da-far-male-allo-stomaco\/","title":{"rendered":"Rimani single finch\u00e9 non incontri la persona che ti fa ridere cos\u00ec tanto da farti venire il mal di stomaco"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>In qualche modo, crescendo, abbiamo imparato che \u00e8 diventato normale piangere nella nostra relazione.<\/p>\n<p>Ci siamo resi conto che non siamo in grado di resistere, perch\u00e9 ci facciamo male, anche solo un po', di tanto in tanto. Ci lasciamo soli con i nostri pensieri e piangiamo.<\/p>\n<p>Abbiamo pianto fino ad addormentarci troppe volte perch\u00e9 abbiamo dimenticato che abbiamo bisogno di una relazione per la felicit\u00e0 che porta, non per il dolore e l'infelicit\u00e0. L'ho capito al momento giusto, perch\u00e9 <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/love\/il-prossimo-ama-la-persona-giusta\/\">la persona giusta<\/a> \u00e8 entrato nella mia vita.<\/p>\n<p>La prima volta che l'ho visto, mi ha fatto sorridere senza un motivo particolare. Solo il suo sguardo mi rendeva felice.<\/p>\n<p>But it&#8217;s not because he was so handsome or that he was funny looking\u2014no. He was just a spark of sunlight that came into my life that day without any announcement.<\/p>\n<p>When we would go out in a group, he wouldn&#8217;t talk too much, so I thought that he was very serious.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-95959\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/04\/happy-young-friends-having-conversation-at-cafe-1.jpg\" alt=\"Giovani amici felici che conversano in un caff\u00e8\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/04\/happy-young-friends-having-conversation-at-cafe-1.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/04\/happy-young-friends-having-conversation-at-cafe-1-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/04\/happy-young-friends-having-conversation-at-cafe-1-768x513.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>A quel tempo studiava all'universit\u00e0 e lavorava; era ambizioso. Quindi, non avrei mai pensato che mi avrebbe fatto piangere lacrime di gioia cos\u00ec tante volte.<\/p>\n<p>But I was wrong, because he was fun and he wasn&#8217;t serious about life at all. All he wanted was to be happy.<\/p>\n<p>Parlavamo delle nostre infanzie e di argomenti profondi che non avevo mai affrontato con nessun altro, ma anche se le cose di cui parlavamo erano a volte tristi, lui si fermava un attimo e mi diceva che ci eravamo trovati e in quel momento mi faceva sorridere.<\/p>\n<p>Per tutta la durata della relazione, si esibiva sempre in scene che mi facevano venire il mal di pancia dalle risate. Raccontava barzellette e si presentava alla mia porta vestito in modo sciocco.<\/p>\n<p>It&#8217;s not that he had nothing better to do but he wanted to make my day better by making me laugh.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-95960\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/04\/smiling-couple-watching-TV-on-a-sofa-at-home.jpg\" alt=\"coppia sorridente che guarda la TV su un divano di casa\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/04\/smiling-couple-watching-TV-on-a-sofa-at-home.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/04\/smiling-couple-watching-TV-on-a-sofa-at-home-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/04\/smiling-couple-watching-TV-on-a-sofa-at-home-768x513.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p><b>Voleva solo che fossimo entrambi completamente felici e ancora oggi vive secondo questa filosofia.<\/b><\/p>\n<p>That\u2019s when I realized that we settle for giggles and cute nicknames and we forget about passionate laughing and the way it feels when our partner makes our stomach hurt with laughter.<\/p>\n<p>Ci accontentiamo di lacrime e paura, <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/life\/preferisco-rimanere-single-piuttosto-che-accontentarmi-di-poco\/\">ci accontentiamo di poco <\/a>anche quando potremmo stare con qualcuno che ci rende felici e ci fa sentire amati e apprezzati.<\/p>\n<p><b>To every woman out there, I say: find yourself a man who makes you laugh, because he&#8217;s the one who will always make you a priority, because he will do his best to make you happy.<\/b><\/p>\n<p>Diamo sempre la colpa a qualcun altro, ma l'unico che dovremmo incolpare \u00e8 noi stessi. Siamo noi che abbiamo permesso a quelle persone negative, tossiche e manipolatrici di entrare nella nostra vita.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-95961\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/04\/Portrait-of-a-beautiful-girl-with-flying-hair-in-the-wind.jpg\" alt=\"Ritratto di una bella ragazza con i capelli che volano nel vento\" width=\"800\" height=\"536\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/04\/Portrait-of-a-beautiful-girl-with-flying-hair-in-the-wind.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/04\/Portrait-of-a-beautiful-girl-with-flying-hair-in-the-wind-300x201.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/04\/Portrait-of-a-beautiful-girl-with-flying-hair-in-the-wind-768x515.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>We are the ones who allow these things to happen because we think that falling for someone who loves to make us laugh is way too easy. But it&#8217;s become<a href=\"https:\/\/thoughtcatalog.com\/g00\/hok-leahcim\/2014\/03\/28-people-share-the-hardest-thing-theyve-faced-in-life\/?i10c.encReferrer=aHR0cHM6Ly93d3cuZ29vZ2xlLmJhLw%3D%3D&amp;i10c.ua=1&amp;i10c.dv=14\" rel=\"noopener\"> la cosa pi\u00f9 difficile in assoluto.<\/a><\/p>\n<p><b>Quando un uomo pone la vostra felicit\u00e0 come priorit\u00e0, significa che la vostra felicit\u00e0, a un certo punto, \u00e8 diventata la sua felicit\u00e0. <\/b><\/p>\n<p><b>Significa che non c'\u00e8 niente di pi\u00f9 importante nella sua vita che non vederti mai versare lacrime nella tua vita.<\/b><\/p>\n<p><b>Even if you do feel sad, he&#8217;ll be there for you, he&#8217;ll understand you and cheer you up.<\/b><\/p>\n<p>A man who makes you laugh, a man who makes you happy, is a man every woman needs in her life. To make sure she knows what a real man looks like, because it&#8217;s more than muscles and a cold heart.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter wp-image-95958 size-large\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/04\/Stay-Single-Until-You-Meet-The-Person-Who-Makes-You-Laugh-So-Hard-Your-Stomach-Hurts-Pinterest-724x1024.jpg\" alt=\"Rimani single finch\u00e9 non incontri la persona che ti fa ridere cos\u00ec tanto da farti venire il mal di stomaco\" width=\"724\" height=\"1024\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/04\/Stay-Single-Until-You-Meet-The-Person-Who-Makes-You-Laugh-So-Hard-Your-Stomach-Hurts-Pinterest-724x1024.jpg 724w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/04\/Stay-Single-Until-You-Meet-The-Person-Who-Makes-You-Laugh-So-Hard-Your-Stomach-Hurts-Pinterest-212x300.jpg 212w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/04\/Stay-Single-Until-You-Meet-The-Person-Who-Makes-You-Laugh-So-Hard-Your-Stomach-Hurts-Pinterest-768x1086.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/04\/Stay-Single-Until-You-Meet-The-Person-Who-Makes-You-Laugh-So-Hard-Your-Stomach-Hurts-Pinterest-1086x1536.jpg 1086w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/04\/Stay-Single-Until-You-Meet-The-Person-Who-Makes-You-Laugh-So-Hard-Your-Stomach-Hurts-Pinterest-1448x2048.jpg 1448w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/04\/Stay-Single-Until-You-Meet-The-Person-Who-Makes-You-Laugh-So-Hard-Your-Stomach-Hurts-Pinterest.jpg 1587w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 724px) 100vw, 724px\" \/><\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Somehow, along the way of growing up, we learned that it has become normal to cry in our relationship. We have come to realize that we really are unable to resist it, because we get hurt, even a little bit from time to time. We get left alone with our thoughts and we cry. We&#8230;<\/p>","protected":false},"author":22,"featured_media":95957,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29645],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-18011","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-being-single"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29645,"label":"being single"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/04\/Stay-Single-Until-You-Meet-The-Person-Who-Makes-You-Laugh-So-Hard-Your-Stomach-Hurts.jpg",800,534,false],"author_info":{"display_name":"Tina Navarro","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/author\/tatiana\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29645,"name":"being single","slug":"being-single","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29645,"taxonomy":"category","description":"How to rock being single? 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