{"id":18052,"date":"2020-04-26T06:29:10","date_gmt":"2020-04-26T06:29:10","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/herway.net\/?p=18052"},"modified":"2021-08-12T07:40:38","modified_gmt":"2021-08-12T07:40:38","slug":"ecco-6-cose-che-dovreste-sapere-prima-di-diventare-il-suo-fidanzato","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/ecco-6-cose-che-dovreste-sapere-prima-di-diventare-il-suo-fidanzato\/","title":{"rendered":"Ecco 6 cose che dovresti sapere prima di diventare il suo fidanzato"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>Avete conosciuto una ragazza. E pensate che sia uguale a tutte le altre ragazze che avete incontrato nella vostra vita. Ma credetemi: vi sbagliate di grosso.<\/p>\n<p>Questa ragazza \u00e8 unica nel suo genere e di questo dovete essere consapevoli prima di pensare di diventare il suo fidanzato.<\/p>\n<h2><span style=\"font-size: 18pt;\">1. She\u2019s been through a lot<\/span><\/h2>\n<p>La prima cosa che dovete sapere prima di pensare di uscire con questa ragazza \u00e8 che <a href=\"https:\/\/www.theodysseyonline.com\/letter-from-the-girl-whos-been-through-lot\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\">she\u2019s been through a lot<\/a> nel suo passato. Non te lo dico per spaventarti, ma \u00e8 qualcosa che devi sapere prima di iniziare una relazione con lei.<\/p>\n<p>Men in her past betrayed her, hurt her feelings and did everything in their power to cause her pain. She\u2019s been used and taken advantage of more times than she can count.<\/p>\n<p>Questa ragazza \u00e8 sempre stata data per scontata e non \u00e8 mai stata apprezzata abbastanza. Le \u00e8 stato spezzato il cuore pi\u00f9 di una volta e questo \u00e8 un problema che dovrete affrontare se volete essere il suo ragazzo.<\/p>\n<p>Non sto dicendo che dovrai pagare per tutto quello che questi ragazzi le hanno fatto, ma ti sto solo dicendo di non essere uguale a tutti gli altri.<\/p>\n<h2><span style=\"font-size: 18pt;\">2. \u00c8 insicura<\/span><\/h2>\n<p>All of the things that she\u2019s been through changed the essence of who she is and made her a different person. All of these men made her wonder why she wasn\u2019t enough and tried to convince her that everything that was wrong in their relationship was exclusively her fault.<\/p>\n<p>They made her question all of her values and beliefs and shook her confidence. Instead of boosting her self-esteem, all of these guys manipulated her into thinking she wasn\u2019t worthy enough and fed her insecurities because that made her a better victim for their abuse.<\/p>\n<p>Questo le ha fatto mettere in dubbio non solo il suo valore, ma anche le intenzioni di tutti coloro che le si avvicinano. Tutto ci\u00f2 le ha causato gravi problemi di fiducia e l'ha portata a pensare male di se stessa.<\/p>\n<h2><span style=\"font-size: 18pt;\">3. But it doesn\u2019t mean she is weak<\/span><\/h2>\n<p>But all of this didn\u2019t make her weak. These men <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/life\/mi-hai-spezzato-il-cuore-ma-non-mi-hai-spezzato\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\">broke her heart but they didn\u2019t manage to break her<\/a> and that is her biggest success. Although she doesn\u2019t know it, everything that she\u2019s been through actually made her stronger than she ever was.<\/p>\n<p>She survived some things she thought she could never overcome. And although all of the men in her life changed her, they didn\u2019t kill her spirit. Instead, she saw how powerful and strong she really is and she realized that there doesn\u2019t exist anyone who could destroy her completely.<\/p>\n<p>Now, she is ready to face all of life\u2019s difficulties stronger than ever. That means that you shouldn\u2019t even try to put her down or to abuse her in any way because trust me, that is something she won\u2019t put up with.<\/p>\n<h2><span style=\"font-size: 18pt;\">4. She doesn\u2019t ask for much<\/span><\/h2>\n<p>Another thing you need to know about this woman before you become her boyfriend is that she doesn\u2019t ask for much. She doesn\u2019t need anything material and she won\u2019t expect expensive gifts and fancy dinners.<\/p>\n<p>She won\u2019t be possessive and will never try to control you nor will she try to invade your personal space or integrity. Instead, the only things she will ask for are your love and attention and she is not ready to settle for less than that.<\/p>\n<p>And if you think that this is something you can\u2019t give to her, maybe it\u2019s time to walk away this instant.<\/p>\n<h2><span style=\"font-size: 18pt;\">5. Ha bisogno di pazienza<\/span><\/h2>\n<p>But just because she doesn\u2019t ask for much, it doesn\u2019t mean that you\u2019ll have it easy with her. As you already know, she\u2019s been through a lot and she lost trust in the people around her.<\/p>\n<p>It means that you\u2019ll have to be extremely patient to tear down the thick and high walls she\u2019s been building for years. I won\u2019t lie to you\u2014it will take you a lot of energy, time and effort to get to this girl.<\/p>\n<p>E sono qui per dirvi che sar\u00e0 difficile da gestire e impegnativa da affrontare. Ma \u00e8 questo che la distingue da tutte le altre ragazze ed \u00e8 questo che la rende speciale e unica.<\/p>\n<h2><span style=\"font-size: 18pt;\">6. Vi dar\u00e0 tutto il suo<\/span><\/h2>\n<p>After everything you\u2019ve found out, you probably think that this girl is too much for you to handle and that she is <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/love\/mi-dispiace-se-la-mia-ansia-mi-rende-difficile-da-amare\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\">difficile da amare<\/a>. E non sono qui per cercare di dimostrare che ti sbagli.<\/p>\n<p>Yes, you will need to invest a lot of your time, energy and patience if you want to be with this girl. But trust me on one thing\u2014she will definitely be worthy of everything.<\/p>\n<p>If you treat her right, this girl will give you all of her. If you love and respect her enough, you will get even more in return. This woman will love you unconditionally, and you\u2019ll see that she is more than worthy.&nbsp;<!--\/codes_iframe--> <!--codes_iframe--> <!--\/codes_iframe--><\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>You\u2019ve met a girl. And you assume that she is the same as every other girl you\u2019ve met in your life. But trust me\u2014you are more than wrong. This girl is one of a kind and this is something you need to be aware of before you think of becoming her boyfriend. 1. She\u2019s been&#8230;<\/p>","protected":false},"author":56,"featured_media":18053,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29639],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-18052","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-understanding-women"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29639,"label":"understanding women"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/04\/raj-eiamworakul-570109-unsplash.jpg",800,533,false],"author_info":{"display_name":"Katie Burns","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/author\/katie\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29639,"name":"understanding women","slug":"understanding-women","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29639,"taxonomy":"category","description":"Women are not that complicated once you learn to understand them, seduce them and treat them the way they deserve. 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