{"id":18103,"date":"2020-05-27T06:39:45","date_gmt":"2020-05-27T06:39:45","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/herway.net\/?p=18103"},"modified":"2021-10-28T13:45:59","modified_gmt":"2021-10-28T13:45:59","slug":"questo-e-cio-che-devi-fare-quando-lui-sceglie-unaltra-donna","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/questo-e-cio-che-devi-fare-quando-lui-sceglie-unaltra-donna\/","title":{"rendered":"Ecco cosa devi fare quando lui sceglie un'altra donna"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>Eravate l\u00ec, all'apice della vostra vita, pienamente vivi. Eravate innamorati e pensavate che nulla avrebbe potuto separarvi, giusto?<\/p>\n<p>Non c'\u00e8 mai stato bisogno di gelosia, perch\u00e9 la gelosia \u00e8 un segno di insicurezza e voi eravate cos\u00ec sicuri che nessuno avrebbe mai potuto spezzare l'amore che provavate per voi stessi.<\/p>\n<p>Ma in qualche modo, il vostro amore per lui era pi\u00f9 forte. Era ipnotico e meraviglioso.<\/p>\n<p><strong>Finch\u00e9 non ha scelto un'altra donna.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>Questo \u00e8 il momento in cui si iniziano a fare domande come: Sono mai stato abbastanza bravo? Non valgo nulla?<\/p>\n<p>Is she better than I am? Why? But you won&#8217;t get the answers to these questions because none of these things matter anymore\u2014he&#8217;s gone and you need to move on.<\/p>\n<p><strong>Quando lui sceglie un'altra donna, voi avete la piena libert\u00e0 di piangere.<\/strong> Cry it out. You will feel much better afterward, when you know that you haven&#8217;t been holding it inside you for too long.<\/p>\n<p>Just make sure that he doesn&#8217;t see your tears. He isn&#8217;t worthy of looking at those wonderful, sparkly eyes ever again and he doesn&#8217;t deserve to know that he inflicted pain on the only woman who wanted to make him happy.<\/p>\n<p><strong>Quando sceglie un'altra donna, perdona te stessa.<\/strong> It&#8217;s not your fault.<\/p>\n<p>I know that it&#8217;s hard to believe that it wasn&#8217;t something you did that drove him away but rather that he wasn&#8217;t the right man for you.<\/p>\n<p>He wasn&#8217;t worthy of you in the first place, so why do you need to take the blame for it? Don&#8217;t. Forgive yourself, if you have anything to forgive.<\/p>\n<p><strong>Quando sceglie un'altra donna, perdonatelo.<\/strong> He probably didn&#8217;t know better than this.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-86280\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/04\/woman-leaning-on-her-hand-and-looking-at-man-in-cafe.jpg\" alt=\"donna che si appoggia alla mano e guarda l&#039;uomo in un caff\u00e8\" width=\"800\" height=\"533\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/04\/woman-leaning-on-her-hand-and-looking-at-man-in-cafe.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/04\/woman-leaning-on-her-hand-and-looking-at-man-in-cafe-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/04\/woman-leaning-on-her-hand-and-looking-at-man-in-cafe-768x512.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p><a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/relationship\/il-ragazzo-delle-lettere-si-e-reso-conto-di-aver-perso-in-ritardo\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\">He didn&#8217;t realize what he was losing<\/a> in quel particolare momento in cui l'aveva scelta e, anche se cos\u00ec fosse, serbare rancore sarebbe inutile.<\/p>\n<p>Una volta ho letto che essere arrabbiati con qualcuno \u00e8 come bere del veleno ma aspettarsi che l'altra persona muoia.<\/p>\n<p><strong>Quando sceglie un'altra donna, ama te stessa.<\/strong> Avete bisogno di amare sempre voi stessi, ma questo \u00e8 il momento in cui ne avete pi\u00f9 bisogno.<\/p>\n<p>Love yourself unconditionally and don&#8217;t depend on other people to love you.<\/p>\n<p>You don&#8217;t need a man in your life to feel loved and appreciated, you only need yourself. You really are your own hero in these situations.<\/p>\n<p><strong>When he chooses another woman, don&#8217;t blame her.<\/strong> Love doesn&#8217;t choose its victims, love just loves. If those two fell in love then holding grudges against her won&#8217;t help you heal.<\/p>\n<p>In this case, they&#8217;re better off together because you finally know who the people you can count on are and who the people who will stab you in the back when they see the opportunity are.<\/p>\n<p><strong>Quando lui sceglie un'altra donna, concentrati su di te.<\/strong> Concentratevi sui vostri sogni e su tutto ci\u00f2 che ne consegue.<\/p>\n<p>I know that it might seem like you&#8217;re running away from reality but you&#8217;re actually creating a new one.<\/p>\n<p>State creando una vita che <a href=\"https:\/\/www.huffingtonpost.com\/tom-casano\/15-simple-ways-to-live-a-_b_7699516.html\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\">siete felici di vivere<\/a>. Viaggiare, conoscere nuove persone, finire quel progetto. Siete una donna forte e indipendente. Abbracciatela!<\/p>\n<p><strong>When he chooses another woman, don&#8217;t get even.<\/strong> La miglior vendetta \u00e8 andare avanti.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-86279\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/04\/happy-young-woman-lying-in-living-room-and-relaxing.jpg\" alt=\"giovane donna felice sdraiata in salotto e rilassata\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/04\/happy-young-woman-lying-in-living-room-and-relaxing.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/04\/happy-young-woman-lying-in-living-room-and-relaxing-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/04\/happy-young-woman-lying-in-living-room-and-relaxing-768x513.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>He will only see that you still care too much about him and he doesn&#8217;t deserve to see you angry because of him.<\/p>\n<p>Lasciatelo in pace e andate avanti. In seguito vi sentirete in pace.<\/p>\n<p><strong>Quando sceglie un'altra donna, lasciatelo andare.<\/strong> Let go of everything that doesn&#8217;t serve you anymore.<\/p>\n<p>Keep the good memories and the lessons you&#8217;ve learned because they will make you stronger but you don&#8217;t have to hold on to him and the feelings you had.<\/p>\n<p>Lasciate andare e liberatevi di tutto quello che \u00e8 successo. Vi farete un enorme favore.<\/p>\n<p><strong>Don&#8217;t dwell and don&#8217;t fall apart again. He chose her and that was his decision. You have nothing to do with it. <\/strong><\/p>\n<p><strong>You are lovable and you are worthy of love and appreciation, it&#8217;s just that he wasn&#8217;t able to give you what you deserved.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter wp-image-86293 size-large\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/05\/This-Is-What-You-Need-To-Do-When-He-Chooses-Another-Woman-Pinterest-724x1024.jpg\" alt=\"Ecco cosa devi fare quando lui sceglie un&#039;altra donna \" width=\"724\" height=\"1024\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/05\/This-Is-What-You-Need-To-Do-When-He-Chooses-Another-Woman-Pinterest-724x1024.jpg 724w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/05\/This-Is-What-You-Need-To-Do-When-He-Chooses-Another-Woman-Pinterest-212x300.jpg 212w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/05\/This-Is-What-You-Need-To-Do-When-He-Chooses-Another-Woman-Pinterest-768x1086.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/05\/This-Is-What-You-Need-To-Do-When-He-Chooses-Another-Woman-Pinterest-1086x1536.jpg 1086w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/05\/This-Is-What-You-Need-To-Do-When-He-Chooses-Another-Woman-Pinterest-1448x2048.jpg 1448w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/05\/This-Is-What-You-Need-To-Do-When-He-Chooses-Another-Woman-Pinterest.jpg 1587w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 724px) 100vw, 724px\" \/><\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>There you were, at the top of your life, fully alive. You were in love and you thought that nothing could break you apart, right? There was never any need for jealousy, because jealousy is a sign of insecurity and you were so confident that no one could ever break the love you felt for&#8230;<\/p>","protected":false},"author":13,"featured_media":86292,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29628],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-18103","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-dealing-with-breakup"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29628,"label":"dealing with breakup"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/05\/This-Is-What-You-Need-To-Do-When-He-Chooses-Another-Woman-Pinterest.jpeg",800,534,false],"author_info":{"display_name":"April Callaghan","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/author\/april\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29628,"name":"dealing with breakup","slug":"dealing-with-breakup","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29628,"taxonomy":"category","description":"Breakups are painful but worry not; you don't need to go through all of it alone. 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