{"id":1819,"date":"2019-04-27T08:12:43","date_gmt":"2019-04-27T08:12:43","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=1819"},"modified":"2021-08-12T08:05:31","modified_gmt":"2021-08-12T08:05:31","slug":"come-si-perde","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/come-si-perde\/","title":{"rendered":"Ecco come la perderai"},"content":{"rendered":"

Come puoi non vedere che sei tutto ci\u00f2 che ha sempre voluto? <\/span><\/p>\n

Dio solo sa quante ragazze ci sono l\u00e0 fuori, come lei, che fissano il telefono in attesa di un tuo messaggio di risposta. Ma non c'\u00e8 risposta.<\/span><\/p>\n

Tutti quei social media, e per cosa? Per poterla ignorare in 10 modi diversi?<\/span><\/p>\n

Siete stanchi di stare su un piedistallo? Perfetto, perch\u00e9 lei vi toglier\u00e0 presto da l\u00ec. <\/span><\/p>\n

You see, she\u2019s not a quitter. She is a fighter. She is a go-getter. She has everything in her life figured out. Everything but you.<\/span><\/p>\n

You\u2019re the only enigma she\u2019s struggling with. She\u2019s ready to give you all the love she has and to let you in her life, but it takes two to dance the tango.<\/span><\/p>\n

The journey of life awaits you; the only thing you need to do is get on board. And you\u2019re still standing there frozen.<\/span><\/p>\n

You were (and you probably still are) her first option, the only option she sees and yet you go out there playing games\u2014hard to get and playing with her feelings. <\/span><\/p>\n

Perch\u00e9 sai di poterlo fare. Hai tutto questo potere su di lei. Ti ha dato quel potere perch\u00e9 le hai promesso le stelle. Quello che ha ottenuto finora \u00e8 stata solo polvere.<\/span><\/p>\n

She needs you to let her know you\u2019re there. To show her you care. <\/span><\/p>\n

What she appreciates the most is the effort you make for her. An effort to see her, to let her know you\u2019re thinking of her. <\/span><\/p>\n

And she\u2019s ready to hold onto you until you\u2019re ready for as long as you need. But if you show her that you will never be ready, she will walk away. <\/span><\/p>\n

\"<\/span>You don\u2019t have to <\/span><\/i>barare<\/i><\/b> di perdere la vostra ragazza o la vostra donna. Potete perderla a causa della mancanza di comunicazione, di attenzione e di mancanza di rispetto. <\/span><\/i><\/p>\n

It\u2019s not all about what you do, sometimes it\u2019s about what you DON\u2019T do.\u201d <\/span><\/i>– Chris Sain Jr.<\/span><\/p>\n

Blowing hot and cold may make you feel supreme, but it will backfire. You\u2019ve done your best to feed her demons and insecurities. She keeps reaching for you, but you pretend not to see her. <\/span><\/p>\n

Ogni sguardo che rivolge a voi ha una storia da raccontare. Sei illetterato? O sei solo nervoso?<\/span><\/p>\n

She would\u2019ve been gone a long time ago, but you keep doing the same thing over and over again\u2014when you see her pulling away, you show up and it\u2019s all rainbows and butterflies for a while. <\/span><\/p>\n

The pattern is always the same: you come back, make a promise you\u2019ll be there, kiss and hug and then you\u2019re out again.<\/span><\/p>\n

Nevertheless, she\u2019s still there. She\u2019s still hoping the two of you are meant to be. But, it won\u2019t be long before si rende conto del suo valore e decide di prendervi a calci<\/a> fuori dalla sua testa. <\/span><\/p>\n

What you fail to realize is that she\u2019ll get tired eventually. <\/span><\/p>\n

And then\u2026<\/span><\/p>\n

Non ci sar\u00e0 pi\u00f9 nessuno a lottare per la vostra attenzione. Non ci sar\u00e0 pi\u00f9 nessuno a lottare per voi. Non ci saranno risposte rapide ai vostri messaggi (se\/quando deciderete di inviarne uno).<\/span><\/p>\n

Her giving up doesn\u2019t mean her stopping to care for you. It\u2019s just that there is a certain amount of yourself you can give in vain, and she already gave herself all in.<\/span><\/p>\n

Don\u2019t wait until you\u2019ve lost her to realize what she means to you.<\/span><\/p>\n

You know she\u2019s the right one\u2014but you are not fighting for her. <\/span><\/p>\n

It\u2019s like you enjoy the game that you\u2019re playing. The only problem is that you\u2019re oblivious of her strength. <\/span><\/p>\n

As much as she\u2019s strong enough to love you unconditionally, that is how much she is capable of leaving you.<\/span><\/p>\n

Just because she didn\u2019t do it yet, it doesn\u2019t mean she won\u2019t do it at all.<\/span><\/p>\n

There is someone out there who\u2019s gonna give her the love she deserves.\"Ecco <\/span><\/p>\n

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How can you not see you are all she ever wanted? God knows how many girls are out there, like her, staring at their phones waiting for your text back. But there is no reply. All that social media, and for what? So you could ignore her in 10 different ways? Are you tired of…<\/p>","protected":false},"author":40,"featured_media":38357,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29618],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-1819","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-moving-on"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29618,"label":"moving on"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/06\/shutterstock_129470225.jpg",800,532,false],"author_info":{"display_name":"Tara Brown","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/author\/tara-brown\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29618,"name":"moving on","slug":"moving-on","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29618,"taxonomy":"category","description":"When nothing else works - inspiring stories about moving on are bound to help you let go of people and situations you never thought you could live without.\r\n","parent":38,"count":200,"filter":"raw","cat_ID":29618,"category_count":200,"category_description":"When nothing else works - inspiring stories about moving on are bound to help you let go of people and situations you never thought you could live without.\r\n","cat_name":"moving on","category_nicename":"moving-on","category_parent":38}],"tag_info":false,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/1819","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/40"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=1819"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/1819\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/38357"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=1819"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=1819"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=1819"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}