{"id":18229,"date":"2020-08-03T06:58:48","date_gmt":"2020-08-03T06:58:48","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/herway.net\/?p=18229"},"modified":"2022-05-04T11:42:49","modified_gmt":"2022-05-04T11:42:49","slug":"i-veri-uomini-proteggono-le-loro-donne-non-le-maltrattano","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/i-veri-uomini-proteggono-le-loro-donne-non-le-maltrattano\/","title":{"rendered":"I veri uomini proteggono le loro donne, non ne abusano"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>I have no idea what they told you while you were growing up but let\u2019s get one thing straight from the beginning\u2014<a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/alla-ragazza-che-ha-confuso-labuso-con-lamore\/\">L'abuso non \u00e8 amore<\/a>.<\/p>\n<p>Pensateci, quante donne sarebbero risparmiate dalla tortura se solo smettessimo di romanzare gli abusi?<\/p>\n<p><strong>No, love shouldn\u2019t be hard. It does require a lot of effort but it should never require for you to bend over backward to receive it. <\/strong><strong>No, love shouldn\u2019t hurt.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>Longing for someone, missing them when they\u2019re away, aching for their embrace and touch are all normal things but this is all considered as sweet suffering.<\/p>\n<p>True love never questions your worth, never makes you wonder if you\u2019re good enough or makes you feel like your heart is being shattered into a million pieces day after day.<\/p>\n<p><strong>See, we all need to stick one thing in our head\u2014real men don\u2019t make love feel hard, they make it feel like it\u2019s the easiest thing there is. <\/strong><\/p>\n<p><strong>Real men don\u2019t hurt their women, they protect them. Everything else is just a lie we tell ourself in fear of letting go of our toxic partner.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-97036\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/11\/couple-hugging-while-looking-each-other.jpg\" alt=\"coppia che si abbraccia mentre si guarda\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/11\/couple-hugging-while-looking-each-other.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/11\/couple-hugging-while-looking-each-other-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/11\/couple-hugging-while-looking-each-other-768x513.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/11\/couple-hugging-while-looking-each-other-150x100.jpg 150w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/11\/couple-hugging-while-looking-each-other-720x481.jpg 720w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>La verit\u00e0 \u00e8 che un vero uomo non farebbe mai qualcosa per ferire deliberatamente la donna che ama.<\/p>\n<p>He\u2019d never do anything to make his <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/cosa-rende-una-donna-insicura-in-una-relazione-di-coppia-2\/\">la donna si sente insicura<\/a> o minacciato o fatto qualcosa che potesse spezzarle il cuore.<\/p>\n<p>Esiste un elenco di <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/relationship\/45-cose-che-i-veri-uomini\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\">cose da veri uomini<\/a> e abusare delle donne non \u00e8 mai una di queste.<\/p>\n<p><strong>Men who abuse women are nothing but cowards hiding behind their manhood. But they\u2019re not real men. <\/strong><\/p>\n<p><strong>They\u2019re just the mere shape of men but there is nothing but rotten souls on the inside.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>If you told a kid to draw someone who abuses women either physically or emotionally, do you know what they\u2019d draw? A monster, and that\u2019s exactly what they are.<\/p>\n<p><strong>Il fatto \u00e8 che un vero uomo si rispetta abbastanza da non dire mai bugie, da non fare giochetti, da non spezzare mai una persona che gli ha dato il suo cuore. \u00c8 cos\u00ec semplice.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p><strong>I veri uomini hanno a cuore le loro donne.<\/strong> They know that whatever you give to a woman, she returns it double. If you give her your heart, she\u2019s gonna give you all of her love.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-97037\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/11\/man-catching-woman-in-hug-1.jpg\" alt=\"uomo che abbraccia una donna\" width=\"800\" height=\"530\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/11\/man-catching-woman-in-hug-1.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/11\/man-catching-woman-in-hug-1-300x199.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/11\/man-catching-woman-in-hug-1-768x509.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/11\/man-catching-woman-in-hug-1-150x99.jpg 150w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>If you give her a house, she\u2019s gonna give you a home. If you give her your love, she\u2019s gonna make you feel like the only man in this world. What more could you possibly ask for?<\/p>\n<p><strong>I veri uomini proteggono le loro donne.<\/strong> But they don\u2019t just pretend to do it in public and then abuse them when they\u2019re home and nobody is watching.<\/p>\n<p>Proteggono le loro donne anche da se stessi. Le fanno sentire al sicuro e non permettono mai che qualcosa di brutto le colpisca.<\/p>\n<p>The catch is that real men are aware of women\u2019s strength, they don\u2019t consider them the weaker sex at all but they\u2019re there for them in the moments when life knocks them down.<\/p>\n<p><strong>I veri uomini odiano vedere donne distrutte in ginocchio, che implorano amore o piet\u00e0.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>That just makes their stomachs turn. That\u2019s just something a sadist is turned by on.<\/p>\n<p>Ci\u00f2 che eccita un vero uomo \u00e8 vedere la propria donna a testa alta, felice e sicura di s\u00e9. Per i veri uomini non c'\u00e8 niente di pi\u00f9 eccitante di questo.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-97038\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/11\/man-and-woman-looking-at-each-other-and-smiling.jpg\" alt=\"uomo e donna si guardano e sorridono\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/11\/man-and-woman-looking-at-each-other-and-smiling.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/11\/man-and-woman-looking-at-each-other-and-smiling-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/11\/man-and-woman-looking-at-each-other-and-smiling-768x513.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/11\/man-and-woman-looking-at-each-other-and-smiling-150x100.jpg 150w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/11\/man-and-woman-looking-at-each-other-and-smiling-720x481.jpg 720w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p><strong>Una donna felice \u00e8 la pi\u00f9 grande forza di un vero uomo. Solo i vigliacchi si divertono ad abusare e ad abbattere le donne che hanno scelto di donargli il proprio cuore.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p><strong>A volte, a causa delle circostanze in cui ci troviamo o della pressione della societ\u00e0, ci accontentiamo. E l'accontentarsi \u00e8 uno dei pi\u00f9 grandi amici dell'abuso.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>Iniziate a seguire la corrente. Iniziate a ignorare i vostri desideri e le vostre aspirazioni. Si dimentica il proprio valore e si pensa di meritare tutto il dolore che si riceve.<\/p>\n<p>But that\u2019s so wrong. So, please don\u2019t ever settle. Instead, love yourself to the point where solitude will be a better option than allowing someone to treat you with disrespect.<\/p>\n<p><strong>L'amore per se stessi \u00e8 la chiave per schivare il proiettile chiamato abuso. Se ci pensate, ha senso.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-97039\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/11\/Autumn-outdoor-portrait-of-beautiful-young-woman-lying-down.jpg\" alt=\"Ritratto autunnale all&#039;aperto di una bella giovane donna sdraiata\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/11\/Autumn-outdoor-portrait-of-beautiful-young-woman-lying-down.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/11\/Autumn-outdoor-portrait-of-beautiful-young-woman-lying-down-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/11\/Autumn-outdoor-portrait-of-beautiful-young-woman-lying-down-768x513.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/11\/Autumn-outdoor-portrait-of-beautiful-young-woman-lying-down-150x100.jpg 150w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/11\/Autumn-outdoor-portrait-of-beautiful-young-woman-lying-down-720x481.jpg 720w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p><strong>Perch\u00e9 se ti ami, sai cosa ti meriti.&nbsp; <\/strong><strong>Siete consapevoli del vostro valore e sapete come meritate di essere trattati. <\/strong><\/p>\n<p><strong>Quando amate voi stessi, aprite le porte anche agli altri per amarvi.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>So, whoever you are, whatever you stand for in this world, regardless of what you\u2019ve been through in your life or the amount of love you feel for a man, <strong>always know that real men protect their women, they don\u2019t abuse them.<\/strong> So, please, don\u2019t ever settle for an abuser.<\/p>\n<p>Know that the man who\u2019s worthy of you will make <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/love\/wait-man-whose-love-feels-like-home\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\">il suo amore si sente come a casa<\/a>.<\/p>\n<p>A real man will be there for you when times get ugly, he\u2019ll be your shoulder to lean on when things get tough and he\u2019ll do everything to protect you and to make you feel safe.<\/p>\n<p>Quindi, per favore, <strong>don\u2019t ever allow someone to make you feel threatened and don\u2019t call it love.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-97035\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/11\/Real-Men-Protect-Their-Women-They-Don\u2019t-Abuse-Them-Pinterest.png\" alt=\"I veri uomini proteggono le loro donne, non ne abusano\" width=\"724\" height=\"1024\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/11\/Real-Men-Protect-Their-Women-They-Don\u2019t-Abuse-Them-Pinterest.png 724w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/11\/Real-Men-Protect-Their-Women-They-Don\u2019t-Abuse-Them-Pinterest-212x300.png 212w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/11\/Real-Men-Protect-Their-Women-They-Don\u2019t-Abuse-Them-Pinterest-150x212.png 150w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 724px) 100vw, 724px\" \/><\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>I have no idea what they told you while you were growing up but let\u2019s get one thing straight from the beginning\u2014abuse is not love. Just think about it, how many women would be spared of torture if only we stopped romanticizing abuse? No, love shouldn\u2019t be hard. It does require a lot of effort&#8230;<\/p>","protected":false},"author":42,"featured_media":97034,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29646],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-18229","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-understanding-men"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29646,"label":"understanding men"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/11\/Real-Men-Protect-Their-Women-They-Don\u2019t-Abuse-Them-1.jpg",800,534,false],"author_info":{"display_name":"Selma June","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/author\/selmajune\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29646,"name":"understanding men","slug":"understanding-men","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29646,"taxonomy":"category","description":"Wondering about what's going on inside his head? 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