{"id":18255,"date":"2018-05-03T10:58:39","date_gmt":"2018-05-03T10:58:39","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/herway.net\/?p=18255"},"modified":"2022-02-21T01:07:13","modified_gmt":"2022-02-21T01:07:13","slug":"5-tipi-di-relazioni-distruttive-da-evitare-a-tutti-i-costi","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/5-tipi-di-relazioni-distruttive-da-evitare-a-tutti-i-costi\/","title":{"rendered":"5 tipi di relazioni distruttive da evitare a tutti i costi"},"content":{"rendered":"

Le relazioni sono difficili. Ci sono quelle false, quelle tossiche, quelle unilaterali e quelle distruttive. Sembra quasi che essere single sia l'opzione migliore, ma per il semplice fatto che sappiamo che l'amore vale la pena, ci proviamo.<\/span><\/p>\n

Destructive relationships are not easily spotted. They are filled with negative energy, so much rage and so much blame on the inside, but on the outside, it\u2019s all sprinkles and smiles. They\u2019re perfect looking until the very end, where either one snaps or one leaves. And it\u2019s never a pretty ending.<\/b><\/p>\n

Aiutare qualcuno in un relazione distruttiva<\/a> is hard, but if you\u2019re the one who is stuck in such a relationship, run for your life! There\u2019s no point in saving it. There\u2019s no point in staying in it. End it before it ends you!<\/span><\/p>\n

Emotivo<\/i><\/b><\/p>\n

Abuso emotivo e mentale<\/span><\/a> is the probably one of the worst kinds. This abuse is taking a toll on your mental health, on your confidence and even your sanity. It can vary from undermining your skills, belittling you and your efforts, to manipulations so bad that you no longer know what\u2019s reality and what\u2019s happened in your head.<\/span><\/p>\n

Pu\u00f2 criticarvi al punto da farvi sentire inutili e fortunate ad averlo accanto, il che vi fa legare a lui. Pu\u00f2 manipolarvi fino all'oblio e isolarvi da tutti i vostri amici e familiari. In questo caso, sar\u00e0 l'unico su cui potrete contare.<\/span> Lo scopo di questo abuso \u00e8 che lui ha potere su di voi, sulle vostre emozioni e sulla vostra vita.<\/b><\/p>\n

Se notate una di queste cose nella vostra relazione, provate a parlarne con lui. Se vi incolpa o arriva a farvi sentire in colpa anche solo per averne parlato con lui (cosa che accade spesso quando si tratta di questo tipo di abusi), scappate! La situazione non potr\u00e0 che peggiorare.<\/span><\/p>\n

Verbale<\/i><\/b><\/p>\n

Abuse is abuse, even if it\u2019s unintentional. If your partner\u2019s words are hurting you, you need to tell him that. Communication is the key and if it\u2019s something he did accidentally, he will make sure never to do it again. On the other hand, if he blames it on you or he tries to make you feel crazy for feeling hurt, ditch him. <\/span>Avete a che fare con un abusante che usa parole e giochi <\/b>al posto dei pugni.<\/b> E come ho detto, un abuso \u00e8 un abuso, indipendentemente dalla tecnica.<\/span><\/p>\n

Finanziario<\/i><\/b><\/p>\n

The whole idea of abuse is to have control over someone and some abusers find the easiest way to gain that control is financial abuse. Examples of financial abuse are someone taking control over all of the household money or stopping their partner from getting a job so they could have money of their own. The abuser can even take away the access to your bank accounts and credit cards, just so you won\u2019t be able to leave him.<\/span><\/p>\n

When you have no money, you cannot leave. And that\u2019s perfect way for him to keep you around.<\/b> And there is even possibility of him making debts on your cards and in your name, which makes it harder for you to get a job later. It\u2019s the perfect way of him screwing up your life, just so he could have control over it. If you notice that there is something off about his demands about money or your working career, be careful! You could be stuck with a financial abuser.<\/span><\/p>\n

Fisico<\/i><\/b><\/p>\n

When someone mentions the word \u2018abuse\u2019, this is the first thought that crosses your mind \u2013 <\/span>abuso fisico<\/span><\/a>. Even if it\u2019s most obvious one, it\u2019s still deeper than just using strength on someone weaker. It\u2019s about intimidating someone with one\u2019s size and power. When a man corners a much smaller woman, he takes away any chance of her getting away and implants fear in her mind.<\/span><\/p>\n

Nel momento in cui qualcuno alza le mani su di voi o su qualcuno a cui tenete, lasciatelo e chiamatelo. Nessuno merita di andarsene con la paura del prossimo colpo. <\/span>E non c'\u00e8 niente di pi\u00f9 doloroso che vedere qualcuno che si ama indietreggiare quando si cerca di abbracciarlo perch\u00e9 si aspetta che lo si colpisca. <\/b>It destroys the victim of such a relationship and all people around them. You are seeing them hurt and you can\u2019t do anything about it, except give them your love and time.<\/span><\/p>\n

Sessuale<\/i><\/b><\/p>\n

No means no. No always means no. Regardless if you\u2019re saying it to some dude at the bar, to your date or to your husband. It\u2019s a no. Countries all around the world are making laws to protect women at home because sexual abuse can happen even if you\u2019re married. It\u2019s your right to decide when to have sex and when to not, not anyone else\u2019s. It\u2019s your body, your choice and your mind. Don\u2019t ever let anyone take it away from you!<\/span><\/p>\n

Unfortunately, not every country in the world is able to protect victims like they deserve to be protected. If you notice that your partner has no respect towards your body or your wishes and desires, he won\u2019t have respect towards your choices either. <\/span>Lasciate una relazione di questo tipo il prima possibile, perch\u00e9 in questo caso l'unico che pu\u00f2 proteggervi siete voi.<\/b><\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

Relationships are tough. There are fake ones, toxic ones, one-sided ones and then there are destructive ones. It seems almost like being single is the best option, but because of the simple fact we know that love is worth it, we give it a try. Destructive relationships are not easily spotted. They are filled with…<\/p>","protected":false},"author":20,"featured_media":18256,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29625],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-18255","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-toxic-relationship"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29625,"label":"toxic relationship"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/05\/verne-ho-23882-unsplash.jpg",800,533,false],"author_info":{"display_name":"Christine Keller","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/author\/christine\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29625,"name":"toxic relationship","slug":"toxic-relationship","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29625,"taxonomy":"category","description":"Are you in a toxic relationship without even knowing it? What should you do if you find yourself in one? Here's all you need to know!","parent":29620,"count":228,"filter":"raw","cat_ID":29625,"category_count":228,"category_description":"Are you in a toxic relationship without even knowing it? What should you do if you find yourself in one? Here's all you need to know!","cat_name":"toxic relationship","category_nicename":"toxic-relationship","category_parent":29620}],"tag_info":false,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/18255","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/20"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=18255"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/18255\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/18256"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=18255"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=18255"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=18255"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}