{"id":18406,"date":"2020-06-07T12:29:55","date_gmt":"2020-06-07T12:29:55","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/herway.net\/?p=18406"},"modified":"2021-08-12T07:54:50","modified_gmt":"2021-08-12T07:54:50","slug":"e-il-momento-di-accettare-che-se-ne-sia-andato-e-che-non-tornera","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/e-il-momento-di-accettare-che-se-ne-sia-andato-e-che-non-tornera\/","title":{"rendered":"\u00c8 ora di accettare che se n'\u00e8 andato e non torner\u00e0 pi\u00f9"},"content":{"rendered":"

So che c'\u00e8 un ragazzo che amate ma che non fa pi\u00f9 parte della vostra vita. Voi e lui avete vissuto momenti speciali e avete creato bellissimi ricordi. <\/p>\n

Eravate convinti che fosse l'amore della vostra vita, la vostra anima gemella e la persona per sempre. Pensavate che la vostra relazione fosse speciale e che valesse la pena di lottare per essa. <\/p>\n

E soprattutto, lo amavate pi\u00f9 di chiunque altro al mondo. Ed eravate certi che lui provasse lo stesso sentimento.<\/p>\n

Actually, you still love him more than anything. But it appears that he doesn\u2019t feel the same way about you. Otherwise, he wouldn\u2019t have left you.<\/p>\n

Ever since he walked away from you, you\u2019ve been spending your days in attesa di lui<\/a> di tornare da voi, come se non fosse successo nulla. <\/p>\n

You\u2019ve spent all this time stuck in one spot, holding on to your past relationship like it is the only good thing in your life.<\/p>\n

\"ragazza<\/p>\n

You simply can\u2019t face the reality and you refuse to accept that he has left you because you think that this realization would kill you spiritually.<\/p>\n

Cos\u00ec il vostro subconscio ha sviluppato questo meccanismo di difesa e, nel profondo, non siete nemmeno consapevoli che lui non c'\u00e8 pi\u00f9. <\/p>\n

In fondo, vedete la sua partenza come un'interruzione della vostra relazione e come qualcosa di temporaneo. <\/p>\n

You\u2019ve put your life on hold and you pressed pause, because you expect him to come back to you every second of the day.<\/p>\n

For your entire life, you\u2019ve been listening to people telling you that you have to think positively if you want good things to happen to you. <\/p>\n

Quindi eccovi qui, pi\u00f9 ottimisti che mai. Siete qui, sicuri che l'amore della vostra vita torner\u00e0 da voi.<\/p>\n

\"giovane<\/p>\n

And with time, you lost touch with reality. You started living this parallel life in your dreams and in your head. You\u2019ve been pretending all along that this man is still yours and you feel like you are going crazy because that isn\u2019t happening. <\/p>\n

E ogni volta che pensi che potrebbe non tornare da te, ti vengono in mente tutti i bei ricordi che avete condiviso e ti convinci che ti ama ancora <\/a>e che ha solo bisogno di tempo per capirlo. <\/p>\n

Ricordate tutte le volte che vi ha giurato amore eterno e ci tornate sopra, sperando che la vostra situazione cambi.<\/p>\n

Well, let me tell you the last thing you want to hear. Let me tell you something that everyone around you kept telling you for months but you just wouldn\u2019t listen. <\/b><\/p>\n

Let me tell you something that will cause you more emotional pain than this guy\u2019s departure did.  <\/b>Let me tell you the truth, no matter how harsh it is and no matter how much you don\u2019t want to hear it.<\/b><\/p>\n

Let me break your heart, for your own good. This man is gone and he doesn\u2019t have any intention of coming back. And it\u2019s about time you accept this.<\/b><\/p>\n

\"Donna<\/p>\n

It\u2019s time you finally face the harsh reality and admit to yourself that your hopes have been in vain.<\/b><\/p>\n

So che \u00e8 una cosa da cui siete sempre scappati e sono molto consapevole che questa consapevolezza vi far\u00e0 a pezzi. <\/p>\n

Ma \u00e8 qualcosa che dovete accettare e capire. Perch\u00e9 \u00e8 l'unica verit\u00e0.<\/p>\n

Perch\u00e9 \u00e8 l'unico modo per continuare a vivere la vostra vita e per allontanarvi da quest'uomo che vi ha fatto tanto male.<\/p>\n

You need to realize that you\u2019ve spent months waiting for something that will never happen. <\/b>You need to understand that you haven\u2019t been living your life all this time<\/b>\u2014<\/b>la vita ti \u00e8 passata davanti.<\/b><\/p>\n

\"donna<\/p>\n

You need to understand that this guy will win if you continue doing this to yourself because he has continued being a part of you, even though he isn\u2019t physically by your side.<\/b><\/p>\n

I know that this is not an easy thing to admit and to accept. And I don\u2019t expect you to do it overnight. But you need to force yourself to at least begin with your progress.<\/p>\n

Ogni volta che si pensa a come sarebbe stato se lui era tornato strisciando<\/a> o cosa sarebbe successo se fosse rimasto o ogni volta che iniziate a sperare che vi ami ancora, costringetevi a pensare ad altro. <\/p>\n

Costringetevi a pensare a tutte le cose brutte che vi ha fatto, se questo vi pu\u00f2 aiutare. Devi solo riprogrammare il tuo cervello in modo che pensi in modo diverso. <\/p>\n

E con il tempo, fidatevi di me<\/b>\u2014<\/b>you\u2019ll succeed and you will leave this guy in the past, where he belongs.<\/b> <\/p>\n

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