{"id":18409,"date":"2020-10-07T12:38:10","date_gmt":"2020-10-07T12:38:10","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/herway.net\/?p=18409"},"modified":"2021-08-24T12:29:42","modified_gmt":"2021-08-24T12:29:42","slug":"non-si-e-mai-troppo-rotti-per-essere-riparati","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/non-si-e-mai-troppo-rotti-per-essere-riparati\/","title":{"rendered":"Non si \u00e8 mai troppo rotti per essere riparati"},"content":{"rendered":"

Ultimamente avete pensato molto a voi stessi e alla situazione in cui si trova la vostra vita in questo momento. E tutte le cose che avete concluso finora non vi fanno bene.<\/p>\n

Molte persone nella vostra vita, soprattutto uomini, vi hanno fatto del male. Alcuni di loro hanno abusato emotivamente di voi, altri hanno cercato di manipolarvi, altri hanno mentito e altri ancora hanno tradito. Ma la cosa fondamentale \u00e8 che tutti si sono approfittati di voi e vi hanno usato in un modo o nell'altro.<\/p>\n

D'altra parte, le uniche cose che davate loro erano il vostro amore e la vostra attenzione. Qualunque relazione si sia intrapresa, si \u00e8 entrati con il cuore aperto. Eravate sempre voi a fare tutti gli sforzi e sempre voi a fare la parte di chi si \u00e8 data completamente senza ricevere nulla in cambio <\/a> .<\/p>\n

And with time, you got tired. You got tired of letting the wrong people be a part of your life and allowing them to impact you this much. You decided it was time to give up on trying to save everyone around you, because you couldn\u2019t even save yourself in the first place. It\u2019s simple \u2014 you\u2019ve had your heart broken too many times and you\u2019ve simply had enough.<\/p>\n

But that is something you can forgive them for. What you can\u2019t forgive or forget are the ways all of them broke you completely. Simply put, you are nowhere near the woman you used to be. They changed you and left scars and wounds on your heart and soul.<\/p>\n

E quelle cicatrici non potranno mai essere rimosse. Quelle ferite non potranno mai essere riparate. Ti hanno spezzato fino a farti sentire emotivamente danneggiato <\/a> e al punto da essere certi che nessuno e niente potr\u00e0 mai guarirvi.<\/p>\n

You\u2019ve lost faith in people and most importantly, you\u2019ve lost faith in yourself. You\u2019ve stopped believing in the good in everyone and you\u2019ve stopped believing in yourself.<\/p>\n

\"una<\/p>\n

You\u2019ve stopped believing in love and you\u2019ve decided you won\u2019t open your heart to anyone else in your life. And you are sure there is nothing anyone can do to change any of this.<\/p>\n

Consequently, you\u2019ve become everything you always swore you wouldn\u2019t become.<\/b> And you don’t like the woman you have become.<\/p>\n

Anche se la vecchia te era molto pi\u00f9 vulnerabile e sensibile, aveva un cuore tenero e questa era la cosa che ti piaceva di pi\u00f9 di lei.<\/p>\n

But you are convinced that this girl doesn\u2019t have a chance of coming back. You are sure that all the bad people around you have killed this girl. That all the pain you\u2019ve been through has left a mark on your heart which can never be removed.<\/p>\n

So with time, you\u2019ve accepted this new self you\u2019ve become. And you\u2019ve lost hope of ever healing and of ever feeling better.<\/b><\/p>\n

Well, let me tell you one thing. It is true that you are broken. And you also might be emotionally damaged. But it doesn\u2019t mean you can\u2019t be saved.<\/b> Because trust me \u2014 you certainly can. I know you don\u2019t believe this now but you will be better. You just need to wish for that to happen.<\/p>\n

\"una<\/p>\n

E voi siete gli unici che possono farlo accadere. Sei l'unico che pu\u00f2 salvarti. Siete gli unici a potervi curare e aggiustare, gli unici a potervi aiutare. E ci riuscirete se riuscirete a uscire dallo stato in cui vi trovate ora e se lo vorrete veramente.<\/b><\/p>\n

Of course, love can help you through this process. A real man will hold your hand on this journey and he will help you overcome everything you\u2019ve been through in life.<\/p>\n

Vi mostrer\u00e0 che non tutte le persone sono uguali e che ci sono uomini che meritano la vostra energia, il vostro tempo e i vostri sforzi. Vi coprir\u00e0 le spalle e sar\u00e0 l\u00ec a prendervi se cadrete.<\/p>\n

Ma siete voi a dover fare quasi tutto il lavoro. Come ho gi\u00e0 detto, l'amore vi aiuter\u00e0 in questo processo, ma il tipo di amore pi\u00f9 importante \u00e8 quello verso voi stessi. Finch\u00e9 non imparare ad amare se stessi <\/a> per quello che siete, non guarirete mai completamente.<\/p>\n

\"Non <\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

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