{"id":18488,"date":"2019-11-09T10:40:31","date_gmt":"2019-11-09T10:40:31","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/herway.net\/?p=18488"},"modified":"2021-08-11T09:55:12","modified_gmt":"2021-08-11T09:55:12","slug":"mentre-tu-eri-troppo-impegnato-a-fregartene-lei-si-e-arresa-con-te","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/mentre-tu-eri-troppo-impegnato-a-fregartene-lei-si-e-arresa-con-te\/","title":{"rendered":"Mentre tu eri troppo impegnato a fregartene, lei ha rinunciato a te"},"content":{"rendered":"

Il suo corpo e la sua mente urlavano che non ce la faceva pi\u00f9, ma tu non lo sentivi perch\u00e9 semplicemente non te ne fregava un cazzo. <\/span><\/p>\n

You were just too busy being selfish and only looking out for your best interests. You didn\u2019t care one bit about her and her feelings\u2014what she really needed because ignoring isn\u2019t one of those things.  <\/span><\/p>\n

L'avete trascurata in tutti i sensi possibili.<\/span> L'hai data per scontata<\/span><\/a> e l'hai persa nel frattempo. <\/span><\/p>\n

She suffered silently in agony, hoping that you\u2019ll change and really see her, but you didn\u2019t. That\u2019s why she gave up on you.<\/i><\/b><\/p>\n

Se ti fossi accorto di lei e di quanto ti amava, di quanto si sacrificava per te e di come si faceva in quattro per compiacerti, sarebbe rimasta. <\/span><\/p>\n

But instead, you chose to ignore her and do whatever you wanted. You chose to choose yourself before her. That\u2019s why she gave up on you.<\/span><\/p>\n

Si \u00e8 arresa con te<\/i><\/b> perch\u00e9 non hai mai avuto tempo per lei. Anche quando aveva bisogno del tuo aiuto e ti chiedeva di essere presente per lei, dicevi che l'avresti fatto e te ne dimenticavi. <\/span><\/p>\n

Eravate troppo occupati ad affrontare i vostri problemi, cos\u00ec l'avete ignorata completamente. Dopo qualche tempo, lei si \u00e8 arresa. <\/span><\/p>\n

She stopped asking for your help and frankly, she didn\u2019t expect you would either.<\/span><\/p>\n

Si \u00e8 arresa con te<\/b> because she couldn\u2019t trust you anymore. She didn\u2019t feel safe in your arms because she knew that if the time comes, you wouldn\u2019t protect her. <\/span><\/p>\n

Si proteggerebbe da solo.<\/span><\/p>\n

Si \u00e8 arresa con te<\/i><\/b> because you were not the same person she met and fell in love with. You\u2019ve changed, but for the worse. Or maybe you just showed your true face. <\/span><\/p>\n

Anyhow, you grew apart from her and she felt like she didn\u2019t know you anymore, like you were a complete stranger. <\/span><\/p>\n

Si \u00e8 arresa con te<\/i><\/b> because she couldn\u2019t handle being alone anymore. She couldn\u2019t handle dealing with all of her shit all by herself. <\/span><\/p>\n

She couldn\u2019t handle seeing you smiling while she cried her eyes out. She couldn\u2019t handle any more quiet sobbing while you were lying next to her sound asleep. <\/span><\/p>\n

Non avevi idea di quanto fosse triste. Non avevi idea che stesse piangendo proprio accanto a te. <\/span><\/p>\n

Si \u00e8 arresa con te<\/i><\/b> perch\u00e9 era infelice. Ha dimenticato cos'\u00e8 la felicit\u00e0 e la colpa \u00e8 vostra.<\/span><\/p>\n

Si \u00e8 arresa con te<\/i><\/b> because you never tried to make her a better person. She was falling apart by your side and you didn\u2019t even notice. <\/span><\/p>\n

You didn\u2019t challenge her to become the best version of herself but you expected her to do that for you. Well, darling, <\/span>L'amore non \u00e8 una strada a senso unico<\/span><\/a>. <\/span><\/p>\n

Si \u00e8 arresa con te<\/i><\/b> because you didn\u2019t love her anymore. Before, she was the only thing you saw. Before, she was the most beautiful girl to you wherever she walked in. <\/span><\/p>\n

She gave up on you because you didn\u2019t hold her hand anymore, you didn\u2019t kiss her as passionately as before. You discarded her, but there will be the time when you\u2019ll regret every wrong decision you made regarding her. <\/span><\/p>\n

Si \u00e8 arresa con te <\/i><\/b>perch\u00e9 l'hai fatta arrendere. L'hai fatta chiudere completamente. <\/span><\/p>\n

Quando voleva salvare voi due, quando era in bilico se dare tutta la sua forza per cercare di ottenere la tua attenzione o meno, tu hai reso la sua decisione molto pi\u00f9 facile. <\/span><\/p>\n

In realt\u00e0, <\/span>la vostra indecisione \u00e8 stata una decisione.<\/span><\/a><\/p>\n

Tutto quello che ha sempre voluto da te \u00e8 stato essere onesto. Voleva che tu la amassi come lei amava te. <\/i><\/b><\/p>\n

Voleva che foste presenti per lei come lei lo era per voi. Voleva che la abbracciaste e la amaste. <\/i><\/b><\/p>\n

Era chiedere troppo? Ma quello che le hai dato non era amore. Cos\u00ec lei ha rinunciato a te perch\u00e9 tu hai rinunciato prima a voi due.<\/i><\/b><\/p>\n

Si \u00e8 arresa con te <\/i><\/b>because you didn\u2019t respect her. You treated her like shit and she got used to those negative feelings around her. <\/span><\/p>\n

Si \u00e8 abituata a urlare, a gridare e a trascurare. Si \u00e8 abituata ad essere meno importante. Purtroppo, ha iniziato a crederci davvero. <\/span><\/p>\n

She really believed she wasn\u2019t worthy of anyone\u2019s love. She thought she was a terrible person and God gave her exactly what she deserved\u2014you.<\/span><\/p>\n

Si \u00e8 arresa con te<\/i><\/b> because after hitting rock bottom, after facing her fears and feeling like total shit, she found the light\u2014she found hope. <\/span><\/p>\n

Guard\u00f2 dentro di s\u00e9 e vide la donna spaventata che era un tempo, messa alle strette, che implorava di uscire. <\/span><\/p>\n

Cos\u00ec, l'ha lasciata andare. Si \u00e8 amata di nuovo. Era diventata libera. Sapeva di meritarlo. <\/span><\/p>\n

Sapeva di meritare un uomo migliore di te.<\/i><\/b><\/p>\n

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Her body and her mind were screaming that she can\u2019t take it anymore, but you didn\u2019t hear it because you simply didn\u2019t give a fuck. You were just too busy being selfish and only looking out for your best interests. You didn\u2019t care one bit about her and her feelings\u2014what she really needed because ignoring…<\/p>","protected":false},"author":39,"featured_media":18489,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29642],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-18488","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-guy-talk"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29642,"label":"guy talk"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/05\/brooke-winters-579062-unsplash-2.jpg",800,536,false],"author_info":{"display_name":"Owen Scott","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/author\/hase\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29642,"name":"guy talk","slug":"guy-talk","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29642,"taxonomy":"category","description":"Welcome to the land of juicy topics and lots of helpful tips on love and relationships. You can fully relax because fun and transparency are guaranteed. ","parent":29638,"count":69,"filter":"raw","cat_ID":29642,"category_count":69,"category_description":"Welcome to the land of juicy topics and lots of helpful tips on love and relationships. You can fully relax because fun and transparency are guaranteed. ","cat_name":"guy talk","category_nicename":"guy-talk","category_parent":29638}],"tag_info":false,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/18488","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/39"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=18488"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/18488\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/18489"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=18488"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=18488"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=18488"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}