{"id":18584,"date":"2018-05-11T13:06:33","date_gmt":"2018-05-11T13:06:33","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/herway.net\/?p=18584"},"modified":"2022-01-24T16:11:05","modified_gmt":"2022-01-24T16:11:05","slug":"se-gliene-fregasse-qualcosa-di-te-non-saresti-confusa","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/se-gliene-fregasse-qualcosa-di-te-non-saresti-confusa\/","title":{"rendered":"Se gliene fregasse qualcosa di te, non saresti confusa"},"content":{"rendered":"

Dal momento in cui hai incontrato questo ragazzo, non hai mai saputo a che punto eri con lui.<\/span>. Non voleva mai etichettare le cose e tu non eri mai sicura di cosa rappresentassi per lui. C'erano momenti in cui ti trattava come l'amore della sua vita, momenti in cui si comportava come se voi due non foste altro che buoni amici e a volte ti trattava come se non significassi nulla per lui.<\/b><\/p>\n

All of this time, you\u2019ve been trying to read him through and through. You\u2019ve been trying to make him take off his mask and you\u2019ve been trying to figure him out but you have never managed to do that. You keep wondering what is the meaning of all of the mixed signals he\u2019s been sending you but you simply feel like you can\u2019t get to him, like you can\u2019t reach him.<\/span><\/p>\n

All'inizio pensavate che stesse solo fingendo di essere un duro senza emozioni. Vi siete chieste se fosse stato ferito in passato e se qualche donna gli avesse procurato un dolore che lo avesse portato a comportarsi cos\u00ec. Pensavate che fosse <\/span>paura di impegnarsi<\/span><\/a> e che dovevate solo essere abbastanza pazienti perch\u00e9 lui vi mostrasse il suo vero io. Pensavate che avesse paura di aprirsi finch\u00e9 non fosse stato certo dei vostri sentimenti per lui. Cos\u00ec avete fatto tutto ci\u00f2 che era in vostro potere per dimostrargli il vostro amore. Avete fatto di tutto per dimostrargli che eravate qualcuno su cui poteva contare e che eravate degni della sua fiducia, perch\u00e9 volevate che l'uomo nascosto dentro di lui finalmente si manifestasse.<\/span><\/p>\n

Ma niente di tutto questo era sufficiente. <\/span>You could never get him to treat you the way you\u2019d been treating him and you could never make him put any effort into his relationship with you.<\/b><\/p>\n

There were times when you tried to walk away from him because you knew that was the only smart thing to do. But something always kept dragging you back to him. You would always hold on to the nice memories, to every moment when he acted like he loved you and to every time he behaved like he couldn\u2019t live without you. Each time you were ready to live with him, you would remember all of this and you would think it was worth giving him another chance. You kept convincing yourself that he really did love you but that he had some issues that prevented him from showing it to you in the right way.<\/span><\/p>\n

Well, let me tell you that these were all lies you kept telling yourself because you wanted them to be true. These were all excuses and now it\u2019s finally time you <\/span>smettere di giustificare quest'uomo<\/span><\/a>. So che questa \u00e8 l'ultima cosa che volete sentirvi dire, ma l'unica verit\u00e0 \u00e8 che quest'uomo non si \u00e8 mai interessato a te<\/a> abbastanza da fare di te la sua ragazza e da dimostrarti che eri la sua priorit\u00e0. Mi dispiace essere io a dirtelo, ma a questo ragazzo non \u00e8 mai importato nulla di te e non lo far\u00e0 mai, nonostante tutte le tue speranze e i tuoi sforzi.<\/span><\/p>\n

And this is something you need to accept before it\u2019s too late. <\/span>I know you love him deeply and you want him to feel the same way about you but that isn\u2019t going to happen. And his behavior shows you this.<\/b><\/p>\n

Because he would never treat you this way if he loved you. He would never leave you hanging and he would never allow you to doubt his emotions or to doubt your relationship. If this guy really loved you, he would show it to you. He wouldn\u2019t have trouble expressing his feelings and he wouldn\u2019t have any problem demonstrating his love for you.<\/span><\/p>\n

A prescindere da quello che ha cercato di farvi credere, quando un uomo<\/b> ti ama veramente<\/b><\/a>, he\u2019ll make it clear. He won\u2019t send you mixed signals and you will always know where you stand with him.<\/b><\/p>\n

Tutto il resto sono stronzate. Tutto il resto \u00e8 il suo ego, il suo desiderio di essere amato da qualcuno, la sua manipolazione emotiva e l'approfittarsi del fatto che lo ami.<\/b><\/p>\n

It is anything but love and it\u2019s something you need to accept, no matter how hard it is.<\/span> <\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

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