{"id":18587,"date":"2020-07-10T12:32:00","date_gmt":"2020-07-10T12:32:00","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/herway.net\/?p=18587"},"modified":"2021-08-12T11:48:35","modified_gmt":"2021-08-12T11:48:35","slug":"se-il-tuo-uomo-fa-queste-8-cose-e-uno-psicopatico-emotivo","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/se-il-tuo-uomo-fa-queste-8-cose-e-uno-psicopatico-emotivo\/","title":{"rendered":"Se il vostro uomo fa queste 8 cose, \u00e8 uno psicopatico emotivo"},"content":{"rendered":"

My husband was an emotional sneaky bastard\u2014uno psicopatico completo<\/a>. Era fisicamente, sessualmente e soprattutto emotivamente violento.<\/p>\r\n

Let me tell you just one thing\u2014le parole fanno male, cazzo!<\/strong><\/em> Lo sapeva e questa era la sua arma pi\u00f9 forte!<\/p>\r\n

When we split, after 12 years of marriage, it hit me\u2014a sudden realization, a summing up if you will, of those horrible 12 years of hell.<\/p>\r\n

Ha lentamente introdotto il suo io psicotico nella mia vita, ha mi ha maltrattato emotivamente<\/a> and I didn\u2019t even notice it. I knew that something was not right, but I didn\u2019t know what\u2014not until we split (and dear God, thank you for that).<\/p>\r\n

These psychotic people have a special skill\u2014you won\u2019t be aware you\u2019re being abused emotionally.<\/strong><\/p>\r\n

Leggete gli indizi e imparate dalla mia esperienza e forse riuscirete a salvarvi (come ho fatto io).<\/p>\r\n

Vi fa credere di essere responsabili di tutto<\/span><\/h2>\r\n

\"uomo<\/p>\r\n

Emotional psychopaths aren\u2019t always mean. They can charm you with their words until the cows come home. They have the power of convincing and they never get bored.<\/p>\r\n

 <\/p>\r\n

One minute you\u2019re fighting and the other he\u2019s telling you: \u201cIt is ok babe. It\u2019s not your fault you\u2019re emotional. You can\u2019t help yourself\u201d.<\/p>\r\n

In realt\u00e0 si finisce per credere di essere l'unica responsabile del litigio e che lui sia l\u00ec per te per farti sentire meglio.<\/p>\r\n

He\u2019s gaslighting you<\/span><\/h2>\r\n

\"uomo<\/p>\r\n

Il gaslighting \u00e8 una forma di abuso psicologico in cui l'abusante utilizza informazioni false e le presenta alla vittima, facendo in modo che la stessa si trovi in difficolt\u00e0. vittima<\/a> doubt his or her own sanity\u2014an emotional abuser\u2019s favorite tactic.<\/p>\r\n

Un giorno ho visto per caso alcune e-mail che mio marito aveva sbadatamente lasciato aperte e ho capito che mi stava tradendo. Quando l'ho affrontato, ha iniziato a urlarmi contro.<\/p>\r\n

He was saying he can\u2019t believe I can think of something like that, that I\u2019m insane, that I don\u2019t trust him\u2026this went on for a few days.<\/p>\r\n

Ben presto cominciai a dubitare di me stessa. Ho iniziato a pensare che forse aveva ragione. Forse sono io la pazza. Forse ho interpretato male l'intera faccenda.<\/p>\r\n

When your psychotic partner doesn\u2019t have an excuse, he\u2019ll create one and he will make you feel like you\u2019re the \u2018crazy one\u2019.<\/p>\r\n

Ti incolpa di tutto<\/span><\/h2>\r\n

\"uomo<\/p>\r\n

This may look similar to the first one, but it\u2019s not. Every time he has a problem, he\u2019ll find a way to blame you for that.<\/p>\r\n

If he has problems at work, he will make you think you\u2019re the one to blame because you are stressing him out at home.<\/p>\r\n

If he gets a speeding ticket, it\u2019s your fault because you got him so angry he blew off steam by driving too fast.<\/p>\r\n

Il punto \u00e8 che, comunque la si guardi, \u00e8 sempre colpa vostra perch\u00e9 gli psicopatici emotivi hanno sempre ragione.<\/p>\r\n

Vi distrugge<\/span><\/h2>\r\n

\"donna<\/p>\r\n

Emotional psychopaths are wusses who don\u2019t have anything better to do in their lives than to control you.<\/p>\r\n

They feed you with toxic thoughts to prevent you from thinking you\u2019re a smart, beautiful and strong person.<\/p>\r\n

Il loro obiettivo \u00e8 farvi credere che siete stupidi e inutili e ci riusciranno.<\/p>\r\n

Once you start believing in that crap, you cling on to him even closer because you\u2019re afraid he\u2019s the best you will ever have.<\/p>\r\n

Psicopatici emotivi<\/a> possono farvi credere tutto ci\u00f2 che vogliono.<\/p>\r\n

He \u2018wipes you out\u2019<\/span><\/h2>\r\n

\"uomo<\/p>\r\n

He simply isolates you from the rest of the world. He convinces you not to hang out with your friends because you don\u2019t really need them\u2014you have him.<\/p>\r\n

And what is really hiding behind this is\u2014he\u2019s afraid your friends might talk some sense into you and encourage you to leave him.<\/p>\r\n

He has spent so much time making you \u2018perfect\u2019 to let some friends of yours ruin you.<\/p>\r\n

Mente perfettamente<\/span><\/h2>\r\n

\"uomo<\/p>\r\n

\u00c8 nato cos\u00ec. Praticamente tutto quello che dice \u00e8 una bugia.<\/p>\r\n

Mente in modo cos\u00ec perfetto che non si potrebbe mai dubitare di lui ed \u00e8 coerente. Non si perde mai nella confusione di bugie che crea.<\/p>\r\n

Anche se lo cogliete a mentire, rimarr\u00e0 calmo e tutto d'un pezzo. E mentir\u00e0 anche per uscire da questa situazione.<\/p>\r\n

You\u2019re fighting with anxiety and you don\u2019t know why<\/span><\/h2>\r\n

\"donna<\/p>\r\n

You\u2019re anxious and you can\u2019t figure out why. Well, it\u2019s because la vostra relazione \u00e8 sbagliata<\/a>.<\/p>\r\n

He is wrong. It\u2019s because you don\u2019t feel good in your relationship and you feel he is being disrespectful and mean for no good reason.<\/p>\r\n

Pensi che tutto sia colpa tua e ti incolpi perch\u00e9 lui ti inganna.<\/p>\r\n

Si pensa di essere meno degni e si comincia a credere di essere fortunati ad avere una relazione.<\/p>\r\n

You\u2019re anxious because you overanalyze things which are so simple, only you can\u2019t see them yet.<\/p>\r\n

\u00c8 estremamente scortese con le persone a cui non \u00e8 interessato.<\/span><\/h2>\r\n

\"uomo<\/p>\r\n

\u00c8 stato gentile con te e si \u00e8 preoccupato solo di impressionarti.<\/p>\r\n

He doesn\u2019t care about other people and is never kind to anyone.<\/p>\r\n

Al contrario, \u00e8 estremamente scortese e sgradevole.<\/p>\r\n

That\u2019s because he doesn\u2019t need anything from those people, so he doesn\u2019t hide his real face and treats them like crap.<\/p>\r\n

When he actually needs someone\u2019s help, he turns on his full charm and of course gets what he wants.<\/p>\r\n

Afterwards, you\u2019re just another face in the crowd for him\u2014completely irrelevant and non-existent.<\/p>\r\n

Vi convincer\u00e0 che \u00e8 lui ad amarvi di pi\u00f9 e che \u00e8 l'unica persona di cui dovreste fidarvi.<\/strong><\/p>\r\n

Che bastardo subdolo!<\/strong><\/p>\r\n

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My husband was an emotional sneaky bastard\u2014a complete psycho. He was physically, sexually and most importantly, emotionally abusive. Let me tell you just one thing\u2014words f**king HURT! He knew that and that was his strongest weapon! When we split, after 12 years of marriage, it hit me\u2014a sudden realization, a summing up if you will,…<\/p>","protected":false},"author":21,"featured_media":101580,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29632],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-18587","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-abuse-and-trauma"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29632,"label":"abuse & trauma"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/05\/If-Your-Guy-Does-These-8-Things-Hes-An-Emotional-PSYCHOPATH.jpg",800,534,false],"author_info":{"display_name":"Maria Parker","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/author\/maria\/"},"comment_info":1,"category_info":[{"term_id":29632,"name":"abuse & trauma","slug":"abuse-and-trauma","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29632,"taxonomy":"category","description":"Learn the signs of emotional and physical abuse and how to protect yourself from toxic patterns in relationships with your partner, friends or family.","parent":22911,"count":138,"filter":"raw","cat_ID":29632,"category_count":138,"category_description":"Learn the signs of emotional and physical abuse and how to protect yourself from toxic patterns in relationships with your partner, friends or family.","cat_name":"abuse & trauma","category_nicename":"abuse-and-trauma","category_parent":22911}],"tag_info":false,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/18587","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/21"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=18587"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/18587\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/101580"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=18587"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=18587"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=18587"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}