{"id":18605,"date":"2018-05-11T13:10:02","date_gmt":"2018-05-11T13:10:02","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/herway.net\/?p=18605"},"modified":"2021-08-12T08:50:28","modified_gmt":"2021-08-12T08:50:28","slug":"non-posso-continuare-a-farti-entrare-nella-mia-vita-perche-finisce-sempre-con-una-delusione","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/non-posso-continuare-a-farti-entrare-nella-mia-vita-perche-finisce-sempre-con-una-delusione\/","title":{"rendered":"Non posso continuare a farti entrare nella mia vita perch\u00e9 finisce sempre con una delusione"},"content":{"rendered":"

To be honest, I never believed in second chances and I never believed that people could change. I was always convinced that someone who screwed you over once will do it again. And that was my attitude toward all people in my life and especially men. It doesn\u2019t mean I didn\u2019t treat them right<\/span>\u2014<\/span>I simply wasn\u2019t ready to allow anyone to walk all over me, to take me for granted and especially to feel that he could do whatever he wanted while keeping me in his life. This was one of my most important deal-breakers:<\/span> Who hurt me once will do it again and I wasn\u2019t ready to give him that chance.<\/b><\/p>\n

I have to admit I kind of felt sorry for the people who couldn\u2019t seem to learn their lesson. I felt sorry for the women who kept forgiving their partners their mistakes over and over again. How could they think they would change? Weren\u2019t they aware that they were only giving them the opportunity to keep screwing them over? I secretly ridiculed the couples who <\/span>continuavano a tornare l'uno dall'altro<\/span><\/a> even though they knew things wouldn\u2019t work out and I couldn\u2019t understand how come they allowed their hearts to lead them into something they knew wasn\u2019t right.<\/span><\/p>\n

Finch\u00e9 non sono diventato una di quelle persone. <\/span>E finch\u00e9 non sei entrata nella mia vita.<\/b><\/p>\n

Da quando le nostre strade si sono incrociate, ho fatto molte cose che avevo giurato di non fare mai. Ho tradito molti dei miei principi e dei miei punti fermi. <\/span>Ma lasciarti costantemente rientrare e darti infinite seconde possibilit\u00e0 \u00e8 la cosa che odio di pi\u00f9 di me stesso.<\/b><\/p>\n

Perch\u00e9 ora capisco tutte quelle persone che guardavo dall'alto in basso. Per anni ho pensato che saresti cambiato, anche se la possibilit\u00e0 che ci\u00f2 accadesse era inesistente. Per anni ho continuato a perdonarti per aver ripetuto tutte le cose che avevi promesso di non fare mai. Per anni ti ho permesso di allontanarti da me e di tornare a tuo piacimento. Per anni ho continuato a <\/span>going back to you, knowing I shouldn\u2019t<\/span><\/a>. E questo \u00e8 stato il mio pi\u00f9 grande errore e la mia pi\u00f9 grande sconfitta.<\/span><\/p>\n

Now I know this. I also know that I was doing it because I loved you. And I still love you. But it doesn\u2019t mean I\u2019ll continue letting you in.<\/span><\/p>\n

Because I know it would be the same even if I did. Now I know that you will never change and that there is nothing I could do to change you. Now I know that I was the one who allowed you to treat me this way and that now it\u2019s too late for me to change my attitude toward you.<\/span><\/p>\n

Every time you come back to me, I hope that this time it will be different. I hope that this will be the time when you will realize that I am the girl you should be with and that you\u2019ll realize you love me the same way I love you. I hope that this will be the time you\u2019ll finally understand I am the only one you need and that all of those other girls meant nothing to you. I hope that you\u2019ll finally come to your senses and that you\u2019ll realize that we are meant to be together.<\/span><\/p>\n

Cos\u00ec ho sempre <\/span>darvi una seconda possibilit\u00e0<\/span><\/a> you beg me for. Because whenever you want me to take you back, you turn into the kindest, most loving man in the world. You tell me everything I need and want to hear and you promise me that this is the last time you have done something stupid. You keep telling me that you can\u2019t imagine living your life without me and that you are ready to do whatever it takes just to get another chance.<\/span><\/p>\n

Let\u2019s get one thing straight<\/span>\u2014<\/span>my reason has always been telling me that I am foolish. There has always existed this tiny voice in my head that kept warning me that I would get hurt once more. But with time, I\u2019ve learned to ignore that voice and I\u2019ve learn to pretend it doesn\u2019t exist.<\/span><\/p>\n

But finally, after all this time and after everything you\u2019ve put me through, <\/span>la mia voce della ragione ha prevalso.<\/b> \u00c8 diventato pi\u00f9 forte che mai e mi ha aiutato a vedere la vera te per la prima volta. Mi ha aiutato a rinunciare a te. Mi ha aiutato a perdere la speranza che tu possa mai essere diverso. <\/span><\/p>\n

Because you and I both know that you will always stay the same. We both know that you will always end up hurting me and disappointing me, despite all the promises you\u2019ve been making. We both know that we have no future together and that it is about time to put an end to this charade.<\/span><\/p>\n

So please, let me walk away for good because that is the least I deserve. Please let me find my peace and don\u2019t come looking for me once you realize what you\u2019ve lost. Because trust me, sooner or later, you will understand everything. But it will be too late.<\/span> <\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

To be honest, I never believed in second chances and I never believed that people could change. I was always convinced that someone who screwed you over once will do it again. And that was my attitude toward all people in my life and especially men. It doesn\u2019t mean I didn\u2019t treat them right\u2014I simply…<\/p>","protected":false},"author":40,"featured_media":18606,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29619],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-18605","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-stories-love"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29619,"label":"stories"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/05\/meiying-ng-71590-unsplash.jpg",800,531,false],"author_info":{"display_name":"Tara Brown","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/author\/tara-brown\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29619,"name":"stories","slug":"stories-love","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29619,"taxonomy":"category","description":"To all the souls struggling with complicated love experiences: These heartfelt stories about love, heartbreak, and moving on will be your voice of wisdom.","parent":38,"count":424,"filter":"raw","cat_ID":29619,"category_count":424,"category_description":"To all the souls struggling with complicated love experiences: These heartfelt stories about love, heartbreak, and moving on will be your voice of wisdom.","cat_name":"stories","category_nicename":"stories-love","category_parent":38}],"tag_info":false,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/18605","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/40"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=18605"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/18605\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/18606"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=18605"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=18605"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=18605"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}