{"id":18635,"date":"2018-05-14T07:09:34","date_gmt":"2018-05-14T07:09:34","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/herway.net\/?p=18635"},"modified":"2022-10-17T15:55:11","modified_gmt":"2022-10-17T15:55:11","slug":"come-lasciare-un-narcisista-tutto-intero","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/come-lasciare-un-narcisista-tutto-intero\/","title":{"rendered":"Come lasciare un narcisista... tutto d'un pezzo"},"content":{"rendered":"

Porre fine a una relazione con un compagno narcisista pu\u00f2 essere molto pi\u00f9 impegnativo che non chiamarsi fuori e rifiutarsi di rispondere al telefono. Ai narcisisti non piace perdere. E non amano perdere il partner.<\/p>\n

To understand the difficulty, one must first understand how a narcissist\u2019s mind operates, and the best way to sum it up is \u2013 egocentrismo esteso.<\/strong> Whereas it\u2019s human nature to consider our own needs first (whether we like to admit it or not), a narcissist takes this self-centeredness to the extreme. So much so, in fact, that other people are considered merely estensioni di s\u00e9<\/strong> che servono a far sentire questa persona completa e a facilitare i suoi progetti.<\/p>\n

In other words, everyone in the narcissist\u2019s world lives only to serve the needs of the narcissist. If, at any time, these le persone diventano compiacenti<\/a>, unwilling, or unable to do so, they will be quickly discarded. This means, an individual with this behavioral disorder may cheat, lie, steal, commit fraud, use substances \u2013 and will likely do all of the above \u2013 and it must be tolerated.<\/p>\n

So, what happens if it\u2019s not?<\/em><\/p>\n

Se non siete sicuri che l'altra persona che vi sta facendo del male sia un narcisista<\/a>provare a lasciarli. Vedete cosa succede. Vi accorgerete subito che lo sono, se lo sono davvero. Questo perch\u00e9 i narcisisti non possono semplicemente lasciar perdere e andare avanti. Perdere voi significa perdere una parte utilizzabile di s\u00e9.<\/strong><\/p>\n

So, you can expect this partner to do a variety of underhanded things all meant for one ultimate purpose \u2013 to destroy you. If you try to leave, the narcissist will say and do anything and everything possible to convince you they are sorry for their faults and willing to change \u2013 just long enough for you to return. Then, they\u2019re able to scartare<\/strong> (anzich\u00e9 il contrario) in un ultimo atto finale destinato a garantirvi di rimanere senza nessuno o qualcosa di importante nella vostra vita.<\/p>\n

To accomplish this, the master-manipulator won\u2019t beg, cry, pout, and deliver flowers \u2013 at least, not for long. Instead, they will Hoover<\/strong><\/em> \u2013 ever so subtly interjecting themselves time and again into your life, poking and prodding, so as not to be forgotten.<\/p>\n

Narcissists can\u2019t be alone. Therefore, they may \u201cgo away\u201d for a period of time to focus on new prey \u2013 or, rather, old prey, since this individual was likely there all along. Then, just when you think you\u2019re rid of them, they will return and try to get you to give in, so they can complete their gioco sadico.<\/strong><\/p>\n

Inoltre, mentre vi corteggiano e corteggiano un'altra persona, impiegano una viziosa campagna diffamatoria<\/strong> alle vostre spalle per non lasciarvi nulla. Ci\u00f2 significa che saranno impegnati a contattare segretamente tutti i membri della vostra cerchia e a convincerli a schierarsi con loro. Diranno e faranno di tutto per convincere le persone pi\u00f9 vicine a voi a credergli.<\/p>\n

Not only will the narcissist try to make all of your friends and family turn against you, but this person will try to get you to lose your job, your home, your finances, and any thread of stability you have left. This won\u2019t be too difficult, actually, since chances are, your partner began stripping these things away from you long ago. Narcissists work tirelessly toward having their mates be entirely dependent on their support right from the beginning.<\/p>\n

Mind you, this is all happening while your former partner is also trying to convince you, straight-faced, you are the best thing that\u2019s ever happened to them and they absolutely can\u2019t live without you. If you give in to the lies and return, vi scarteranno.<\/strong> E, dato che erano davvero l'unica cosa che vi era rimasta, non vi rimarr\u00e0 assolutamente nulla. Il gioco \u00e8 finito.<\/p>\n

Quindi, come si fa a lasciare un narcisista<\/a>? Quietly, quickly, and without even saying goodbye. There may be a million things you want to call this person out on, but it\u2019s simply not worth it. The best thing you can do for your own sanity and well-being is to leave and go entirely no contact to the best of your ability. Refuse any further advances, cut ties with all the mutual acquaintances you can, Rimanete forti e non guardate mai indietro.<\/strong><\/p>\n

The sobering reality is, once you have entered into a partnership with a narcissist, you will forever be in this partnership whether you want to be or not. But, you can minimize this pain by taking the steps to distance yourself as much as possible \u2013 a prescindere da tutto.<\/strong><\/p>\n

L'inferno non ha furia come una donna disprezzata? L'inferno non vede l'ira di un narcisista ferito.<\/strong><\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

Ending a relationship with a narcissistic mate can be much more challenging than just calling it quits and refusing to answer your phone. Narcissists don\u2019t like to lose. And, they don\u2019t like to lose partners. To understand the difficulty, one must first understand how a narcissist\u2019s mind operates, and the best way to sum it…<\/p>","protected":false},"author":21,"featured_media":18636,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29633],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-18635","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-narcissism"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29633,"label":"narcissism"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/05\/warren-wong-261814-unsplash.jpg",800,557,false],"author_info":{"display_name":"Maria Parker","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/author\/maria\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29633,"name":"narcissism","slug":"narcissism","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29633,"taxonomy":"category","description":"Mind games and manipulations are narcissist's favorite controlling tactics. Learn how their mind operates so that you can protect yourself. ","parent":22911,"count":232,"filter":"raw","cat_ID":29633,"category_count":232,"category_description":"Mind games and manipulations are narcissist's favorite controlling tactics. Learn how their mind operates so that you can protect yourself. ","cat_name":"narcissism","category_nicename":"narcissism","category_parent":22911}],"tag_info":false,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/18635","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/21"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=18635"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/18635\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/18636"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=18635"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=18635"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=18635"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}