{"id":18656,"date":"2020-08-14T09:58:49","date_gmt":"2020-08-14T09:58:49","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/herway.net\/?p=18656"},"modified":"2021-08-11T12:34:12","modified_gmt":"2021-08-11T12:34:12","slug":"5-giochi-mentali-che-gli-uomini-fanno-alle-donne-prima-di-una-rottura-e-come-affrontarli","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/5-giochi-mentali-che-gli-uomini-fanno-alle-donne-prima-di-una-rottura-e-come-affrontarli\/","title":{"rendered":"5 giochi mentali che i ragazzi fanno con le donne prima di una rottura (e come affrontarli)"},"content":{"rendered":"

Quando un uomo ti lascia, tutto il tuo mondo va in frantumi. Ti senti rifiutata e sola.<\/p>\n

We\u2019ve all experienced that dreadful feeling and the healing process that comes after it.<\/p>\n

Ma cosa succederebbe se poteste essere un passo avanti rispetto al ragazzo che sta per spezzarvi il cuore?<\/p>\n

Cosa succederebbe se poteste prevedere che lui vi lascer\u00e0?<\/p>\n

Non ci sarebbe nessun colpo di fulmine, nemmeno se lo amaste davvero. Perch\u00e9, a un certo punto, vi accorgereste che sta facendo dei giochi mentali con voi per trovare una scusa per la rottura.<\/p>\n

Probabilmente \u00e8 un debole codardo che non \u00e8 abbastanza uomo da ingoiare il rospo e dirti in faccia che vuole uscire dalla relazione.<\/p>\n

So, he reaches out for the most disgusting and the most cowardly means of getting out of the \u2018mess\u2019 he found himself in\u2014he plays games with your mind, trying to convince you that you were the problem all along, so he can walk out clean-handed and not guilty.<\/p>\n

What happens is that most women don\u2019t even realize they were being abused in their relationship until it\u2019s all over.<\/p>\n

\"donna<\/p>\n

Poi riavvolgono tutto quello che \u00e8 successo e si rendono conto che non \u00e8 mai stata colpa loro per nessuna delle cose che stavano accadendo.<\/p>\n

They were so in love with the man who used and abused them that they failed to see something wasn\u2019t quite right. They failed to see that things shouldn\u2019t have been the way they were.<\/strong><\/p>\n

Even if they noticed something was wrong, they wouldn\u2019t admit it to themselves because the perfect bubble they were living in would burst.<\/p>\n

Sometimes it\u2019s easier just to ignore the truth than to face it and receive all the blows that were to come.<\/p>\n

That\u2019s why it\u2019s important to look at your love life objectively. Set aside that you\u2019re in love because love will blind you and you won\u2019t be able to see things for what they are.<\/p>\n

Maybe because you don\u2019t want to, or you just can\u2019t.<\/p>\n

Ci sono molti modi diversi in cui gli uomini fanno giochi mentali con le donne. Poich\u00e9 siamo tutti diversi, lo sono anche le nostre azioni. Le cose che ci colpiscono sono diverse, le cose che ci feriscono sono diverse.<\/p>\n

Psicopatici emotivi<\/a> e gli uomini che fanno ogni tipo di gioco con tutte le persone come se fossero oggetti e non esseri umani sono abbastanza intelligenti da conoscere il modo esatto per arrivare a noi, per colpire dove si soffre di pi\u00f9.<\/p>\n

These men do it because they want to break up with you and they want to stage it like it\u2019s all your fault.<\/p>\n

Ecco alcuni dei giochi mentali che utilizzano per ottenere ci\u00f2 che vogliono e lasciare la relazione con un inizio pulito.<\/p>\n

Flirta con altre donne<\/h2>\n

\"coppia<\/p>\n

There could be a lot of reasons why he is doing this. But, the most common ones are that he just wants your attention and wants you to be jealous\u2014which is also not that healthy.<\/p>\n

Yet there is even one bigger reason why he\u2019s doing that.<\/p>\n

Sta cercando di mandarvi un sottile indizio che presto abbandoner\u00e0 voi e la vostra relazione.<\/p>\n

But the thing is if you ask him why he\u2019s doing that, he won\u2019t tell you straight up of course. He will probably lie and make himself the victim, so you feel sorry for him and leave him alone.<\/p>\n

He\u2019ll tell you that you don\u2019t care for him, that he is feeling lonely, when the truth is, he\u2019s had enough and will leave you any time soon.<\/p>\n

And when he leaves you, you will feel like shit because you\u2019ll think it was all your fault, that you should have loved him more.<\/p>\n

Ti fa sentire in colpa<\/h2>\n

\"uomo<\/p>\n

Vi far\u00e0 sentire completamente inutili. Per quanto vi sforziate di far funzionare la vostra relazione, trover\u00e0 un modo per opporsi al vostro comportamento.<\/p>\n

Vi far\u00e0 sentire in colpa per tutto ci\u00f2 che va storto.<\/p>\n

Anche quando non siete di buon umore ma cercate di mantenervi uniti per il suo bene, lui vi punzecchia e vi provoca solo per farvi impazzire, cos\u00ec ancora una volta lui potrebbe essere la vittima e voi il cattivo.<\/p>\n

He will do this every day because either he wants to break up with you or he wants you to break up with him, so he doesn\u2019t have to be the one who pulls the plug on your relationship.<\/p>\n

La cosa migliore da fare in questa situazione \u00e8 quella di andare nessun contatto<\/a> con lui e lasciarlo.<\/p>\n

Even if it gives him the satisfaction of not breaking up with you but getting rid of you, it\u2019s not worthy of your emotional breakdown.<\/p>\n

Vi mentir\u00e0 in continuazione<\/h2>\n

\"giovane<\/p>\n

He\u2019s probably even having an affair which is so see-through. You simply know that he\u2019s cheating on you and that it is intentional.<\/p>\n

He wants you to know because he\u2019s preparing you for a breakup.<\/p>\n

But, the screwed up part is that although he wants you to know that he no longer loves you, he will lie to justify his actions because once again, he doesn\u2019t want to be the bad guy.<\/p>\n

He will lie about where he\u2019s been and with whom he\u2019s been\u2014even if you sense another woman\u2019s scent on him. He will deny everything.<\/p>\n

Don\u2019t stick around to see what happens. Don\u2019t give him another chance because he doesn\u2019t deserve it and probably doesn\u2019t want it either.<\/p>\n

Don\u2019t let him abuse you with his lying and making a complete fool out of you.<\/p>\n

Non fategli mai capire che queste bugie trasparenti vi stanno dando fastidio e chiudete la faccenda.<\/p>\n

And if he asks the reason, which a mind playing psychopath like he will, just say, \u201cbecause\u201d. Don\u2019t give him the satisfaction of seeing you hurt.<\/p>\n

Ti illuminer\u00e0 con la luce del gas<\/h2>\n

\"donna<\/p>\n

This is the gold mine of manipulations. It\u2019s the meanest and most effective mind playing there is.<\/p>\n

Illuminazione a gas<\/a> is a form of emotional abuse in which the abuser manipulates situations repeatedly to make you think you\u2019re going crazy.<\/p>\n

Sceglie una situazione, dice una cosa e ne fa un'altra.<\/p>\n

And afterward, he\u2019ll convince you that you\u2019ve got all of it wrong and that he never said what you think he said (or did what you think he did).<\/p>\n

Si pu\u00f2 uscire da questa situazione scrivendo le cose.<\/p>\n

You won\u2019t be able to write everything that happens in your life, but after some time, some situations are going to repeat themselves and when they do, write down what he said or promised and what he did in the end.<\/p>\n

You\u2019ll see that the problem is not you but him.<\/p>\n

Sta giocando con la tua mente in modo che, dopo averti lasciata, abbia la scusa che sei completamente pazza e che non aveva altra scelta se non quella di lasciarti.<\/p>\n

He\u2019s provoking you<\/h2>\n

\"uomo<\/p>\n

Ti far\u00e0 pressione per farti arrabbiare e poi user\u00e0 quella rabbia contro di te.<\/p>\n

Non importa quanto siate pazienti, dopo un continuo punzecchiamento verbale ed emotivo, cederete sotto la pressione e scoppierete.<\/p>\n

Questo \u00e8 ci\u00f2 che vuole fin dall'inizio. Dato che avete una relazione da tempo, sa esattamente cosa vi fa arrabbiare e lo user\u00e0 contro di voi.<\/p>\n

Una volta che lei impazzisce, lui fa la vittima e ribalta la situazione.<\/p>\n

Vedete, questa manipolazione \u00e8 la copertura perfetta per una rottura, perch\u00e9 siete voi a essere impossibili da frequentare.<\/p>\n

You\u2019re mad all the time and you scream constantly.<\/p>\n

When you look at it just from the surface, that\u2019s true, but when you dig in more deeply, you\u2019ll see that he planted that seed of mess and staged the whole situation to happen.<\/p>\n

And all that just because he didn\u2019t have enough courage to let you go like a man. He did it like an emotionally immature mama\u2019s boy<\/a>, un semplice codardo.<\/p>\n

You don\u2019t deserve a coward, you deserve a real man.<\/p>\n

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