No, I\u2019m not weak if I let my friend cry on my shoulder at 2 AM. No, I\u2019m not weak if I give my seat to an elderly person. No, I\u2019m not weak if I treat and respect waiters the way I respect my boss.<\/p>\n
I always try to go through bad times with a smile on my face. I try to express my opinions without hurting anyone\u2019s feelings. It\u2019s just who I am.<\/p>\n
I\u2019m not saying I\u2019m perfect, because nobody is. I have made so many mistakes in life, just like everyone else has. I have a bunch of flaws.<\/p>\n
If you\u2019d meet me more often, you\u2019d know me better. I can be so insecure and exhausted sometimes, but that definitely doesn\u2019t mean I\u2019m weak.<\/p>\n
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Le brave ragazze sono molto pi\u00f9 forti di quanto la societ\u00e0 pensi. Ci vuole molto coraggio per trovare la forza di essere buone con le persone tossiche. Non importa quanto le persone cerchino di buttarmi gi\u00f9, io briller\u00f2 di pi\u00f9. Trover\u00f2 sempre la forza in me.<\/p>\n
I try to live my life to the fullest. I have goals and plans, and I\u2019m keen about pursuing them.<\/p>\n
Being nice doesn\u2019t mean I will let you take advantage of me. Growing up, I learnt my lesson. I decided that I won\u2019t let anyone be mean to me just because I\u2019m nice. I will definitely fight back.<\/p>\n
Just because I\u2019m sweet, it doesn\u2019t mean I will be quietly putting up with your bullsh*t.<\/p>\n
Listen, I\u2019m not foolish. It took me all of my life to stand up for myself. I realized that I must love and accept myself in order to be respected by others. I\u2019m still learning to say \u201cNO\u201d and to stop feeling bad after I say it out loud. I have my flaws and weaknesses, just like everyone else.<\/p>\n
Maybe this is wrong, but I tend to judge people based on their behavior towards others. I don\u2019t like being in a company of people who seek a better position simply by walking over others.<\/p>\n
I don\u2019t want to be surrounded by people who are bothered with my kindness. I have no plans to change for anyone\u2019s sake!<\/p>\n
We need to stop treating niceness as some kind of disorder. I\u2019m so tired of everyone\u2019s misunderstanding.<\/p>\n
I believe being nice doesn\u2019t mean you let yourself be degraded. I assure you\u2014I\u2019m not the one who will guard your back if you repeatedly disrespect me. I have my limits. I\u2019m nice, but not stupid.<\/p>\n
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