{"id":18777,"date":"2018-05-16T06:14:53","date_gmt":"2018-05-16T06:14:53","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/herway.net\/?p=18777"},"modified":"2022-05-04T11:08:19","modified_gmt":"2022-05-04T11:08:19","slug":"ecco-perche-la-fedelta-e-cosi-importante-in-una-relazione","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/ecco-perche-la-fedelta-e-cosi-importante-in-una-relazione\/","title":{"rendered":"Ecco perch\u00e9 la fedelt\u00e0 \u00e8 cos\u00ec importante in un rapporto di coppia"},"content":{"rendered":"

La fedelt\u00e0 \u00e8 diventata qualcosa di simile a un lusso. Le persone hanno relazioni aperte in cui accettano di andare a letto con altre persone, costringendo i loro partner ad accettare la cosa. Nessuno capisce veramente cosa sia la fedelt\u00e0 perch\u00e9 it’s more than not sleeping around<\/a>. La lealt\u00e0 \u00e8 una parte sacra della relazione. La lealt\u00e0 vi d\u00e0 la possibilit\u00e0 di essere completamente voi stessi, perch\u00e9 potete fidarvi del fatto che il vostro partner sia presente per voi, perch\u00e9 ama il vero voi.<\/p>\n

Perch\u00e9 la fedelt\u00e0 \u00e8 importante?<\/a> Why can’t people just go around texting whoever they want, sleeping around and never committing to one person fully?<\/strong><\/p>\n

I have a story about a man who didn’t know that he would destroy me with his games and his costante bisogno di rassicurazione<\/a> e attenzioni da parte di altre donne.<\/p>\n

Sono sempre stato un monogamo serio.<\/strong> If I fall in love with you, it’s all or nothing and it can’t be anyone else in my life but you. But what he did to me was unbelievable. Of course I sat him down to talk with him about how loyalty really is important to me and that I don’t want to be in a relationship with someone who doesn’t take me seriously.<\/p>\n

Vedevo il modo in cui guardava le altre ragazze, dicendomi sempre che non era nulla di grave e che il problema era che ero troppo sensibile. Ai suoi occhi, non ero altro che una donna con una bassa autostima, senza mai pensare che avrei voluto che lui mi dimostrasse che mi rispettava abbastanza da lasciarsi andare a flirt e a micro-cheating<\/a>.<\/p>\n

I giorni passavano e nulla cambiava.<\/strong> I, as someone who really did love herself and would always respect my own wants and needs, started to doubt the thoughts that were going through my head. I started to believe that I was paranoid and that my mind wasn’t open enough for this modern type of dating.<\/p>\n

Cominciai davvero a pensare che non fosse nulla.<\/strong> Volevo che rimanesse nella mia vita perch\u00e9 lo amavo e volevo che il nostro amore fosse libero. Ma da quel giorno non avrebbe pi\u00f9 dormito al mio fianco.<\/p>\n

Parlare di questo mi fa un male cane.<\/strong> Just imagine how I have must felt. I thought of myself as stupid because I wasn’t able to express my needs in a way to keep everyone who doesn’t want to follow them out of my life. I decided not to let my standards down for a man, ever again.<\/p>\n

If you want to be with me, you have to be loyal and show me that you only want me in your life. If for some reason loyalty isn’t that important to you, than move on. Don’t even start flirting with me. Don’t call me on dates. Bye.<\/strong><\/p>\n

I know that this may seem extreme, but the importance of loyalty is seen in the aftermath that remains after the person has left you for another woman. The pain that remains afterwards, the self-doubt and the constant thoughts that keep on telling that you are not enough and that you can’t be loved the way you are, simply make me believe that there is nothing that can break a woman more than a cheating man.<\/p>\n

L'importanza della lealt\u00e0 si vede nel modo in cui non sono in grado di fidarmi di nuovo di nessuno.<\/strong> Quando un uomo mi dice che mi ama e mi vuole, sento solo le parole di un traditore. Ogni volta che un uomo \u00e8 gentile con me, immagino la sua ragazza che aspetta che torni a casa.<\/p>\n

You see, that’s why loyalty is so important.<\/p>\n

You have to know what you’re doing to the person you’re cheating on! They will ask themselves for the rest of their lives why weren’t they good enough for you and what could they have done better to make you happy and to make you love them more.<\/strong><\/p>\n

Don’t ever cheat on your partner. Loyalty really is the most important quality a person can have. Amare un traditore ti spezza<\/a> come nient'altro.<\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

Loyalty has become something like a luxury. People are in open relationships where they agree to sleep around with other people, forcing their partners to be OK with it. No one truly understands what loyalty is really about because it’s more than not sleeping around. Loyalty is a sacred part of the relationship. Loyalty gives…<\/p>","protected":false},"author":25,"featured_media":18778,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29621],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-18777","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-healthy-relationship"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29621,"label":"healthy relationship"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/05\/justin-groep-662275-unsplash.jpg",800,533,false],"author_info":{"display_name":"Amy Nicholson","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/author\/amy\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29621,"name":"healthy relationship","slug":"healthy-relationship","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29621,"taxonomy":"category","description":"Explore this part of our site to learn how to recognize and nourish healthy patterns in your relationships and let go of the negative ones with ease.","parent":29620,"count":254,"filter":"raw","cat_ID":29621,"category_count":254,"category_description":"Explore this part of our site to learn how to recognize and nourish healthy patterns in your relationships and let go of the negative ones with ease.","cat_name":"healthy relationship","category_nicename":"healthy-relationship","category_parent":29620}],"tag_info":false,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/18777","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/25"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=18777"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/18777\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/18778"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=18777"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=18777"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=18777"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}