{"id":18786,"date":"2020-08-16T06:33:07","date_gmt":"2020-08-16T06:33:07","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/herway.net\/?p=18786"},"modified":"2022-02-27T02:46:12","modified_gmt":"2022-02-27T02:46:12","slug":"una-lettera-alla-ragazza-che-continua-a-cadere-a-pezzi","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/una-lettera-alla-ragazza-che-continua-a-cadere-a-pezzi\/","title":{"rendered":"Una lettera alla ragazza che continua a cadere a pezzi"},"content":{"rendered":"

Ehi, bellezza,<\/strong><\/em><\/p>\n

Come sei stato ultimamente?<\/strong><\/em> Anche se fate finta di stare bene, so che il tuo mondo sta cadendo a pezzi<\/a> e so anche che succede a causa di diversi problemi che arrivano senza invito nella vostra vita.<\/p>\n

So che stai cercando di fare bella figura davanti alla gente, ma quando guardo un po' pi\u00f9 a fondo nei tuoi occhi, posso vedere tutto il dolore che ti ha perseguitato per tutto questo tempo.<\/p>\n

I am not near enough to give you the warmest hug and kiss but that doesn’t mean I can’t comfort you with my words because even if we are miles apart, we are close in our pain.<\/strong><\/em> Voglio solo che tu sappia che passer\u00e0 e che devi tenere duro.<\/p>\n

You don’t need to do that because others can see how strong you are. You need to do that for yourself only. You need to accept that life is full of shit and that things like this will happen. And it doesn\u2019t get better when time passes. You just learn how to deal with it.<\/p>\n

Ci saranno momenti in cui vi sembrer\u00e0 di essere meno di quello che siete in realt\u00e0.<\/strong> <\/em><\/p>\n

Ci sar\u00e0 un momento in cui gli amici vi tradiranno e in cui la persona amata si riveler\u00e0 non quello giusto<\/a> in the end. And that is more than okay because how else could we learn to be strong if we don\u2019t go through various problems?<\/p>\n

\"un<\/p>\n

Things like this need to happen to make you stronger, to show you that you are so strong and that you will fight for yourself when you feel danger coming. So, don\u2019t be desperate.<\/p>\n

Don\u2019t cry and ask God why He is doing all that to you. Just remember that the teacher always remains silent during the test.<\/strong> <\/em><\/p>\n

Consideratela solo un'altra prova, un'esperienza che dovete affrontare per rendervi completi.<\/p>\n

Perch\u00e9 nessuno \u00e8 completo solo perch\u00e9 ha vissuto delle cose belle. Si \u00e8 completi quando si sperimentano sia le cose belle che quelle brutte e si rimane comunque saldamente in piedi.<\/p>\n

Si diventa completi quando ci si rifiuta di seguire la corrente e quando si lotta per i propri diritti, dicendo alle persone tutto ci\u00f2 che si ha in mente, indipendentemente dal fatto che lo accettino.<\/p>\n

Si diventa completi quando si \u00e8 fedeli a se stessi, ai propri sentimenti e alle proprie emozioni.<\/strong><\/em> Ed \u00e8 a questo che dovete tendere.<\/p>\n

Quindi, la prossima volta che vi fa del male, lasciatelo andare perch\u00e9 \u00e8 meglio capire in tempo che non \u00e8 quello giusto.<\/p>\n

When your friends betray you, don\u2019t fight with them, telling them that you are desperate and broken, but go outside into the world and find a new, real friend.<\/p>\n

\"una<\/p>\n

Quando le persone vi deludono, superatele, perch\u00e9 serbare rancore non fa per voi.<\/p>\n

Voi siete molto di pi\u00f9. Siete al di sopra dei vostri problemi e dovete solo crederci.<\/strong><\/em><\/p>\n

You just need to believe in yourself. So, I want you to do one things right now: Just put your hand on your heart\u2014what do you feel? Is it still beating?<\/p>\n

Hell yeah! Because that heart won\u2019t be broken simply like that. Your heart can endure so much more than un fidanzato di merda<\/a> e disonesti che vi circondano.<\/p>\n

So, baby, please don\u2019t fall apart because of someone who doesn\u2019t deserve that. And the one who deserves it will never do any harm to you.<\/p>\n

And when you feel that you can\u2019t take it anymore, do anything to release the stress. Scream. Cry. Get drunk. Destroy things. But let all the pain and anger go out.<\/strong> <\/em><\/p>\n

If you just keep your mouth shut to all the mocking and insulting, you will explode one day. You won\u2019t be able to take all that shit anymore and you will just break.<\/p>\n

So, please don\u2019t let that happen to you. Don\u2019t let be broken into pieces so small that they couldn\u2019t be glued together anymore. You have a choice, so choose smart. This is your life and you can affect most of the things that come to your life.<\/p>\n

\"donna<\/p>\n

Quindi, mai e poi mai arrendersi o crollare per qualcosa che pu\u00f2 essere risolto con un piccolo sforzo.<\/strong> <\/em>Don\u2019t give up on all the good things that life gives you just because you have been sad about those bad ones.<\/p>\n

Prima accetterete una vita cos\u00ec, sar\u00e0 pi\u00f9 facile per voi. Quindi, alza la testa, metti un sorriso sul viso e cammina con orgoglio in questo mondo. Perch\u00e9, tesoro, te lo meriti. E niente di meno!<\/p>\n

Amore,<\/p>\n

Colui che \u00e8 stato l\u00ec.<\/p>\n

\"Una<\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

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