{"id":18840,"date":"2018-05-17T10:32:14","date_gmt":"2018-05-17T10:32:14","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/herway.net\/?p=18840"},"modified":"2021-08-12T08:34:35","modified_gmt":"2021-08-12T08:34:35","slug":"7-modi-per-gestire-la-tensione-sessuale-tra-amici","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/7-modi-per-gestire-la-tensione-sessuale-tra-amici\/","title":{"rendered":"7 modi per gestire la tensione sessuale tra amici"},"content":{"rendered":"

Once you cross the line which separates friends from lovers there is no going back. It\u2019s almost impossible to be friends again after you have seen somebody without their clothes on. That\u2019s one of the main reasons why a lot of people try to handle their tensione sessuale.<\/a><\/p>\n

Friendship is too valuable and a lot of people decide to put their romantic feelings aside for the sake of it. And who could blame them as good friends are hard to find and if they know each other well and assume that things won\u2019t work in the long run, why risk it?<\/p>\n

However, sexual tension is hard to ignore. It consumes both of you and it doesn\u2019t leave you be. You keep attracting each other like magnets and it\u2019s hard to play it cool. Sometimes it\u2019s even obvious to the people around you and they leave you with random comments to think about.<\/p>\n

Cosa fare quando si vuole gestire la tensione sessuale tra amici?<\/p>\n

1. Remember why it\u2019s not a good idea<\/span><\/strong><\/h1>\n

If you were to make a list of things of why you guys wouldn\u2019t make it if you made your fantasies a reality, the con section would be a mile long. Think about that every time you are close to your hot friend. Whatever the reason for holding back might be, you decided it was a bad idea. Remember why that is so and things will get a bit easier.<\/p>\n

2. Praticare l'autocontrollo<\/span><\/strong><\/h1>\n

This is the hardest thing to do but if you made a promise to yourself never to do it then stick to it. Don\u2019t let yourself down. Make a firm decision to ignore all the chimica<\/a> che state vivendo con il vostro amico. Consideratelo come qualcosa di temporaneo che passer\u00e0. Avete la capacit\u00e0 di controllare la vostra mente e anche la sensazione di formicolio nel vostro corpo passer\u00e0.<\/p>\n

3. Prendere le distanze per un po' di tempo<\/span><\/strong><\/h1>\n

Take a pause. Every time they ask you if you want to hang out, act busy and reschedule. You can\u2019t ignore them for long but sometimes making some space between you is a good idea. Distance will give you perspective and a chance to cool off. If he is constantly on your radar, it will be so much harder to ignore the tension you are experiencing. Take a break from each other for a while.<\/p>\n

4. Smettere di flirtare<\/span><\/strong><\/h1>\n

Quando la tensione sessuale \u00e8 alle stelle, flirt<\/a> becomes the way to communicate. You do it without even being aware, words just come out of you. But flirting can be dangerous, it brings you one step closer to doing all the naughty things you said you wouldn\u2019t. So the next time a flirty remark that\u2019s only building up your sexual tension comes your way, choose to ignore it. Act like you haven\u2019t heard it or just smile and change the topic. Flirting only fires your imagination and you don\u2019t need it if you are determined to keep your sexual tension locked.<\/p>\n

5. Trascorrere il tempo tra amici comuni piuttosto che insieme da soli<\/span><\/strong><\/h1>\n

It\u2019s so much easier to control your instincts and not rip each other\u2019s clothes off when other people are around. So that\u2019s exactly where you need to be\u2014among friends. Nevertheless, it won\u2019t be easy but while you are spending time with other people, your attention won\u2019t be solely focused on your attractive friend but instead divided among other people who seek your attention too. It\u2019s not a permanent solution but it\u2019s better than you two spending quality time alone.<\/p>\n

6. Evitare il contatto ravvicinato<\/span><\/strong><\/h1>\n

Gently touching each other\u2019s arms while you talk, hugs that last way too long, prolonged eye contact, etc., are things you do on a regular basis and that behavior is common among friends. However, when you are looking at your friend as the object of your desire, by sharing touches or any kind of innocent physical contact it can deepen your desires. Not to mention that you will have this immense desire for those touches to be anything but innocent.<\/p>\n

7. Distrarsi<\/span><\/strong><\/h1>\n

In other words, start going out on dates, start noticing other attractive people around you. Your mind is driven by your tension and it is making you think that there is no one out there worthy of your attention. But what if there is and you are missing out because you are hooked on your forbidden love? Anyway, it\u2019s worth a try.<\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

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