{"id":18896,"date":"2018-05-18T07:51:40","date_gmt":"2018-05-18T07:51:40","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/herway.net\/?p=18896"},"modified":"2021-08-12T08:32:44","modified_gmt":"2021-08-12T08:32:44","slug":"la-gentilezza-non-era-la-sua-debolezza-ma-la-sua-forza","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/la-gentilezza-non-era-la-sua-debolezza-ma-la-sua-forza\/","title":{"rendered":"La gentilezza non era la sua debolezza, era la sua forza"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>L'avete scelta perch\u00e9 aveva successo, era socievole ed empatica per natura. Lo stesso livello di altruismo che mostrava verso gli altri era lo stesso che lei aveva per te. Sapevate che era speciale, sapevate che era unica, eppure avete scelto di approfittare della sua natura di nutrice.<\/p>\n<p>Your perception of her compassion and kindness as some sort of personality flaw or deficit drove you to pass up on what could have been the \u2018real deal\u2019. Instead, you settled for much less.<\/p>\n<p>Quando sarete nel vostro letto, da soli, sarete <strong>infestato<\/strong> by the innumerable acts of kindness bestowed upon you. Those \u2018no-strings-attached\u2019 acts of kindness will <strong>eco<\/strong> nel vostro cervello e vi tormentano la mente.<\/p>\n<p>\u00b7 You will remember SHE was the kind of girl who gave of herself endlessly and who expected nothing in return.<\/p>\n<p>\u00b7 You will remember <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/relationship\/un-giorno-ti-accorgerai-che-uno-e-sempre\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">Lei era l\u00ec per te<\/a> quando avevi bisogno di una spalla su cui piangere.<\/p>\n<p>\u00b7 You will remember SHE was the girl who nursed you back to health when you were sick.<\/p>\n<p>\u00b7 You will remember SHE was the girl who gave you late-night back rubs because she knew you needed them.<\/p>\n<p>\u00b7 You will remember SHE was your number one cheerleader, who constantly motivated you with her fiery spirit.<\/p>\n<p>\u00b7 You will remember even after working long hours and after taking care of others, SHE always made sure dinner was ready for you when you walked in the door.<\/p>\n<p>\u00b7 You will remember the time SHE purchased Mother\u2019s Day flowers for your mother because you could not be bothered.<\/p>\n<p>\u00b7 You will remember those sweet letters SHE hid in your suitcase when you traveled on business.<\/p>\n<p>\u00b7 You will remember HER inspiring words and speeches she shared with you prior to your job interviews.<\/p>\n<p>\u00b7 You will remember how SHE listened to your every word and how she would try to understand your outlandish behavior\u2014never being judgmental but instead gracious and understanding.<\/p>\n<p>\u00b7 You will remember SHE knew her kindness was rare in this world of selfishness\u2014she was selfless.<\/p>\n<p>\u00b7 You will remember how SHE told you how handsome you were and you responded by telling her she wore too much make-up.<\/p>\n<p>\u00b7 You will remember the many nights SHE spent crying on the bathroom floor out of frustration for you. Frustration that you could not understand what it meant to be kind.<\/p>\n<p>\u00b7 You will remember SHE knew that in order to make relationships work, kindness, a simple act of humanity, should be practiced daily.<\/p>\n<p>\u00b7 You will remember SHE was kind because she loved you.<\/p>\n<p>\u00b7 You will remember how <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/relationship\/ti-pentirai-di-aver-approfittato-della-ragazza-amata\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">ti sei approfittato di lei<\/a> gentilezza e l'ha trattata come uno zerbino.<\/p>\n<p>\u00b7 You will remember SHE encouraged you to show kindness to others.<\/p>\n<p>\u00b7 You will remember her face when she told you she loved you and you said nothing in return.<\/p>\n<p>\u00b7 You will remember what healing powers come from kindness.<\/p>\n<p>\u00b7 You will remember after a long day at work you were happy to see her face and hear those words of encouragement.<\/p>\n<p>\u00b7 You will remember SHE was never disrespectful when responding to your negativity.<\/p>\n<p>\u00b7 You will remember that you are so misguided for seeing <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/love\/non-prendete-la-gentilezza-come-una-debolezza\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">la sua gentilezza come una debolezza<\/a>.<\/p>\n<p>Succeder\u00e0 quando la incrocerete per strada e lei vi sorrider\u00e0. Vi ricorderete che non siete altro che un pietoso spreco di spazio per aver trovato piacere nel mettere in difficolt\u00e0 una persona genuina come lei. Vi accorgerete di non essere altro che una scusa pietosa per un essere umano. Lei, invece, sar\u00e0 pi\u00f9 comprensiva e vi vedr\u00e0 come qualcuno che ha ancora un potenziale di bont\u00e0.<\/p>\n<p>Ricordate che non troverete mai un'altra come lei. \u00c8 una razza rara in questo mondo egoista in cui viviamo oggi. Le persone come lei mostrano forza, grazia e compassione. Le persone come lei meritano il MEGLIO in una partnership paritaria. Le persone come voi che vedono la sua gentilezza e la sua compassione come debolezze non hanno assolutamente il diritto di far parte della sua vita.<\/p>\n<blockquote><p>\u201cKindness is a language which the deaf can hear and the blind can see\u201d- Mark Twain.<\/p><\/blockquote>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>You chose her because she was successful, gregarious and empathetic by nature. That same level of altruism she showed toward others was the same level she had for you. You knew she was special, you knew she was unique, yet you chose to take advantage of her nurturing nature. Your perception of her compassion and&#8230;<\/p>","protected":false},"author":40,"featured_media":18897,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29619],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-18896","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-stories-love"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29619,"label":"stories"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/05\/dan-7kidz-634317-unsplash.jpg",800,531,false],"author_info":{"display_name":"Tara Brown","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/author\/tara-brown\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29619,"name":"stories","slug":"stories-love","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29619,"taxonomy":"category","description":"To all the souls struggling with complicated love experiences: These heartfelt stories about love, heartbreak, and moving on will be your voice of wisdom.","parent":38,"count":424,"filter":"raw","cat_ID":29619,"category_count":424,"category_description":"To all the souls struggling with complicated love experiences: These heartfelt stories about love, heartbreak, and moving on will be your voice of wisdom.","cat_name":"stories","category_nicename":"stories-love","category_parent":38}],"tag_info":false,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/18896","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/40"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=18896"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/18896\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/18897"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=18896"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=18896"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=18896"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}