{"id":18919,"date":"2020-05-18T11:05:22","date_gmt":"2020-05-18T11:05:22","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/herway.net\/?p=18919"},"modified":"2022-08-10T07:09:18","modified_gmt":"2022-08-10T07:09:18","slug":"la-verita-e-che-si-puo-sentire-la-mancanza-di-qualcuno-che-non-si-e-mai-frequentato","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/la-verita-e-che-si-puo-sentire-la-mancanza-di-qualcuno-che-non-si-e-mai-frequentato\/","title":{"rendered":"La verit\u00e0 \u00e8 che si pu\u00f2 sentire la mancanza di qualcuno con cui non si \u00e8 mai usciti"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>Molte persone vi diranno che \u00e8 necessario avere dei ricordi reali con qualcuno per poterne sentire la mancanza.<\/p>\n<p>They will tell you that you need to share a life with someone so you can feel their absence and so you can suffer for them. They will tell you can\u2019t lose someone you never had.<\/p>\n<p><b>Ed eccoti qui, a soffrire per l'uomo con cui non hai mai avuto una relazione. <\/b><\/p>\n<p>Whether this is just someone you were madly in love or someone you had some kind of almost relationship with, no strings attached, or someone you were friends with benefits with\u2014the point is that you two were never exclusive and you never labeled things. But despite that, you know you miss him like hell.<\/p>\n<p>You feel like someone has ripped a part of your chest out and you feel like your heart has literally been broken. You can\u2019t breathe knowing that you never had him and that you never will and you can\u2019t sleep knowing that the next day will give you the same pain all over again.<\/p>\n<p>Allora ti chiedi se sei pazzo. Che cosa vi sta succedendo? <b>Com'\u00e8 possibile che vi manchi qualcuno che non avete mai avuto e che non \u00e8 mai stato vostro?<\/b><\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-94098\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/05\/thoughtful-young-woman-leaning-on-hand-at-home.jpg\" alt=\"giovane donna riflessiva che si appoggia alla mano in casa\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/05\/thoughtful-young-woman-leaning-on-hand-at-home.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/05\/thoughtful-young-woman-leaning-on-hand-at-home-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/05\/thoughtful-young-woman-leaning-on-hand-at-home-768x513.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>You keep telling yourself that you don\u2019t have any memories with this guy, you don\u2019t have anything to hold on to. You keep telling yourself that you are overreacting and that this pain is not something you should be feeling.<\/p>\n<p>Continui a dire a te stesso che sei un <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/relationship\/10-segni-di-relazione-con-una-donna-matura\/\">donna matura<\/a> e che lui \u00e8 tutt'altro che degno di questa sofferenza. Vi sentite persino in imbarazzo per esservi permessi di provare tutto questo dolore per qualcuno che non avete mai frequentato.<\/p>\n<p>Vi vergognate di condividere i vostri pensieri e sentimenti con chi vi sta intorno e cercate persino di nasconderli a voi stessi. Pensate che il dolore sparir\u00e0 se lo eviterete abbastanza a lungo.<\/p>\n<p>But time has passed by and nothing has changed. You\u2019ve tried everything but it appears that this pain only gets stronger and stronger with every day that passes by.<\/p>\n<p>E nessuna di queste cose che continui a ripeterti ti aiuta. Anche se la tua mente ti dice tutto questo, il tuo cuore ha la sua strada.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-94099\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/05\/woman-standing-on-door-looking-outside.jpg\" alt=\"donna in piedi sulla porta che guarda fuori\" width=\"800\" height=\"533\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/05\/woman-standing-on-door-looking-outside.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/05\/woman-standing-on-door-looking-outside-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/05\/woman-standing-on-door-looking-outside-768x512.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>No matter how hard you try to fight it, you know that this pain is real and you simply don\u2019t know what to do about it.<\/p>\n<p>Ebbene, lasciate che vi dica che non c'\u00e8 nulla di cui vergognarsi. E lasciate che vi dica che non siete certo pazzi. <b>Perch\u00e9 si pu\u00f2 soffrire per qualcuno che non \u00e8 mai stato tuo. <\/b><\/p>\n<p><b>E si pu\u00f2 sentire la mancanza di qualcuno che non si \u00e8 mai avuto.<\/b> Although there is no scale or measurement for the amount of pain someone is feeling, it is possible to miss someone you were never with more than someone you\u2019ve had.<\/p>\n<p>It\u2019s not that you only suffer for that person. Y<b>ou suffer for all the hopes and dreams you had about him that are now sadly shattered. You suffer for all the \u2018what ifs\u2019 and \u2018could have beens\u2019. <\/b><\/p>\n<p><b>You miss everything you guys didn\u2019t share<\/b><b>\u2014<\/b><b>every memory he wasn\u2019t a part of and your entire future he won\u2019t be in.<\/b><\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-94100\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/05\/worried-woman-at-home.jpg\" alt=\"donna preoccupata a casa\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/05\/worried-woman-at-home.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/05\/worried-woman-at-home-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/05\/worried-woman-at-home-768x513.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p><strong>Correlato: <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/se-ti-manca-qualcuno-puo-sentirlo\/\">Se vi manca qualcuno, pu\u00f2 sentirlo? S\u00ec, ed ecco perch\u00e9<\/a><\/strong><\/p>\n<p><b>You suffer because you don\u2019t have any pictures of the two of you together, because there don\u2019t exist any songs that will remind him of you, because there don\u2019t exist any places in which you two were together.<\/b><\/p>\n<p><b>Ma soprattutto, soffrite perch\u00e9 voi due non avete mai avuto una possibilit\u00e0 insieme.<\/b> Sarebbe stato pi\u00f9 facile per te se ti avesse dato una possibilit\u00e0, se avessi potuto vedere come ci si sente ad averlo nella tua vita.<\/p>\n<p>It would have been easier for you to know that the two of you were not meant to be or to know that things simply couldn\u2019t work out between you two. It would have been easier for you if one of you guys grew tired of each other, if you could have seen each other\u2019s flaws and imperfections.<\/p>\n<p><b>Ma in questo modo, sapete che dovete <\/b><a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/love\/ecco-come-ci-si-sente-quando-si-cerca-di-andare-avanti-senza-una-chiusura\/\"><b>andare avanti senza la chiusura<\/b><\/a><b> che si desidera cos\u00ec tanto perch\u00e9 non si \u00e8 mai avuto l'inizio in primo luogo.<\/b> Ed \u00e8 questo che vi fa pi\u00f9 male.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-94097\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/05\/The-Truth-Is-That-You-Can-Miss-Someone-You-Never-Dated-Pinterest.jpg\" alt=\"La verit\u00e0 \u00e8 che si pu\u00f2 sentire la mancanza di qualcuno con cui non si \u00e8 mai usciti\" width=\"735\" height=\"1102\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/05\/The-Truth-Is-That-You-Can-Miss-Someone-You-Never-Dated-Pinterest.jpg 735w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/05\/The-Truth-Is-That-You-Can-Miss-Someone-You-Never-Dated-Pinterest-200x300.jpg 200w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/05\/The-Truth-Is-That-You-Can-Miss-Someone-You-Never-Dated-Pinterest-683x1024.jpg 683w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 735px) 100vw, 735px\" \/><\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>A lot of people will tell you that you need to have real memories with someone so you could miss them. They will tell you that you need to share a life with someone so you can feel their absence and so you can suffer for them. They will tell you can\u2019t lose someone you&#8230;<\/p>","protected":false},"author":53,"featured_media":112284,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29614],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-18919","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-love-talks"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29614,"label":"love talks"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/05\/sad-woman-at-home-1024x684.jpg",1024,684,true],"author_info":{"display_name":"Ariel Quinn","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/author\/ariel\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29614,"name":"love talks","slug":"love-talks","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29614,"taxonomy":"category","description":"What is love? 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