{"id":18958,"date":"2020-04-21T07:35:09","date_gmt":"2020-04-21T07:35:09","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/herway.net\/?p=18958"},"modified":"2022-02-21T19:14:27","modified_gmt":"2022-02-21T19:14:27","slug":"ti-prego-smetti-di-alimentare-le-mie-speranze-perche-sappiamo-entrambi-che-non-potresti-mai-darmi-cio-di-cui-ho-bisogno","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/ti-prego-smetti-di-alimentare-le-mie-speranze-perche-sappiamo-entrambi-che-non-potresti-mai-darmi-cio-di-cui-ho-bisogno\/","title":{"rendered":"Ti prego, smetti di alimentare le mie speranze perch\u00e9 sappiamo entrambi che non potresti mai darmi ci\u00f2 di cui ho bisogno"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>Per anni sei stato l'unico uomo che ho desiderato. Eri il mio unico desiderio e la mia unica preghiera.<\/p>\n<p>Ero convinta di poter essere felice solo con te ed ero certa che tu fossi l'unico uomo per me.<\/p>\n<p>Per anni ho pregato perch\u00e9 tu rinsavissi e capissi finalmente che eravamo fatti l'uno per l'altra. Volevo che tu scegliessi finalmente me e che noi due iniziassimo finalmente a vivere la nostra vita insieme in pace.<\/p>\n<p>But that didn\u2019t happen. All along, you knew I would wait for you for as long as it took.<\/p>\n<p>Sapevi che ti avrei sempre ripreso a braccia aperte, a prescindere dal dolore che mi avevi causato e da quello che mi avevi fatto. E invece di apprezzarlo, invece di apprezzare il mio amore per te e la mia devozione per te, mi hai dato per scontata.<\/p>\n<p>Avete ipotizzato che ci fosse <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/love\/la-triste-verita-e-che-non-ce-nulla-che-tu-possa-fare-per-farmi-smettere-di-amarti\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\">Non c'\u00e8 niente che tu possa fare per farmi smettere di amarti.<\/a>. And every time you saw I was losing my strength, every time you sensed I was about to walk away from you, you didn\u2019t allow that to happen.<\/p>\n<p>All'improvviso, ti saresti trasformato nell'uomo che ho sempre desiderato. Ma non \u00e8 mai durato a lungo.<\/p>\n<p>Nel momento in cui ti accorgessi di avermi di nuovo tra le mani, torneresti alle tue vecchie abitudini e continueresti a <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/love\/dire-amore-trattare-come-sht\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\">trattandomi come una merda<\/a>.<\/p>\n<p><strong>E questo \u00e8 durato per anni.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p><strong>Anche se non avrei mai pensato di essere io a dirlo, per la prima volta ti prego di lasciarmi andare.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>Ti prego di allontanarti da me, perch\u00e9 non sono sicuro che avrei mai la forza di farlo da solo.<\/p>\n<p>Ti prego di smetterla di illudermi e di smettere di alimentare le mie speranze, perch\u00e9 sappiamo entrambi che non potresti mai darmi ci\u00f2 di cui ho bisogno, che voglio o che merito.<\/p>\n<p><a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/vi-prego-di-andarvene\/\">Ti prego di lasciarmi<\/a> perch\u00e9 sappiamo entrambi che \u00e8 l'unica cosa che mi aiuter\u00e0 a dimenticarti e ad andare avanti con la mia vita.<\/p>\n<p>Questo \u00e8 il mio invito a smetterla di alimentare le mie speranze. <strong>perch\u00e9 sappiamo entrambi che noi due non saremo mai una cosa sola.<\/strong> Perch\u00e9 non potremmo mai essere qualcosa di pi\u00f9 di una quasi coppia e non potremmo mai avere qualcosa di pi\u00f9 di una quasi relazione.<\/p>\n<p>Because you will never be able to label things between us and make me your official girlfriend and I\u2019ve had enough of being your part-time girl and I\u2019ve had enough of being the girl you call when everyone else abandons you.<\/p>\n<p><strong>Because we both know you\u2019ll never put any effort into me or into our relationship.<\/strong> Because you\u2019ll always know you have me, no matter what.<\/p>\n<p>Because it is more than obvious that you don\u2019t think I am worthy of your efforts and there is nothing I could do about it, as much as I try.<\/p>\n<p>Because we both know you\u2019ll never put me first. Because you\u2019ll always treat me like one of your options and because you\u2019ll never put me at the top of your priority list.<\/p>\n<p>Because there will always be someone more important to you than me and that is something I don\u2019t want to put up with any longer.<\/p>\n<p><strong>Because we both know you\u2019ll never give up on all those other women.<\/strong> Perch\u00e9 sono stanco di <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/le-donne-hanno-paura-di-competere-o-sono\/\">in competizione con tutte le altre ragazze<\/a> and because I\u2019ve had enough of begging you to give me your love and attention.<\/p>\n<p>Because I am tired of wondering what those other girls have that I don\u2019t and because I am tired of fighting for you against all of them, when you never had to fight for me.<\/p>\n<p><strong>Please stop getting my hopes up because we both know you don&#8217;t love me, you never did and you never will.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>At least not the way I love you and not the way I need to be loved. Because you\u2019ll always be giving me your <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/love\/my-heart-deserves-more-than-your-half-assed-love\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\">amore a met\u00e0<\/a> e non voglio accontentarmi di questo.&nbsp;<!--\/codes_iframe--> <!--codes_iframe--> <!--\/codes_iframe--><\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-full wp-image-80795 aligncenter\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/05\/please-stop-getting-my-hopes-up-because-we-both-know-you-could-never-give-me-what-i-need-pinterest.jpg\" alt=\"TI PREGO, SMETTI DI ALIMENTARE LE MIE SPERANZE PERCH\u00c9 SAPPIAMO ENTRAMBI CHE NON POTRESTI MAI DARMI CI\u00d2 DI CUI HO BISOGNO\" width=\"735\" height=\"1102\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/05\/please-stop-getting-my-hopes-up-because-we-both-know-you-could-never-give-me-what-i-need-pinterest.jpg 735w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/05\/please-stop-getting-my-hopes-up-because-we-both-know-you-could-never-give-me-what-i-need-pinterest-200x300.jpg 200w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/05\/please-stop-getting-my-hopes-up-because-we-both-know-you-could-never-give-me-what-i-need-pinterest-683x1024.jpg 683w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 735px) 100vw, 735px\" \/><\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>For years, you were the only man I wanted. You were my only desire and my only prayer. I was convinced that I could only be happy with you and I was certain that you were the only man for me. For years, I prayed for you come to your senses and finally see we&#8230;<\/p>","protected":false},"author":23,"featured_media":18959,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29631],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-18958","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-getting-over-him"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29631,"label":"getting over him"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/05\/gabriel.jpg",800,533,false],"author_info":{"display_name":"Leah Lee","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/author\/leah\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29631,"name":"getting over him","slug":"getting-over-him","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29631,"taxonomy":"category","description":"Getting over someone you still care about is one of the biggest challenges, but nothing is impossible when you know you're not alone, so check out our brilliant advice.","parent":29627,"count":124,"filter":"raw","cat_ID":29631,"category_count":124,"category_description":"Getting over someone you still care about is one of the biggest challenges, but nothing is impossible when you know you're not alone, so check out our brilliant advice.","cat_name":"getting over him","category_nicename":"getting-over-him","category_parent":29627}],"tag_info":false,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/18958","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/23"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=18958"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/18958\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/18959"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=18958"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=18958"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=18958"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}