{"id":18979,"date":"2020-08-21T12:19:15","date_gmt":"2020-08-21T12:19:15","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/herway.net\/?p=18979"},"modified":"2021-08-11T11:02:25","modified_gmt":"2021-08-11T11:02:25","slug":"oggi-finalmente-mi-arrendo-con-te","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/oggi-finalmente-mi-arrendo-con-te\/","title":{"rendered":"Oggi, finalmente, mi arrendo con te"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>I have put up with your shit long enough. I have let you do your own thing because I thought you needed to blow off steam. I thought it will go away. I have given you so many second chances that I\u2019m embarrassed.<\/p>\n<p>I have shown you so many times that I couldn\u2019t take it anymore, that I was done putting up with your selfish ass.<\/p>\n<p>I have threatened to leave which would knock sense into your head\u2014but only for a short time. Later on, you would continue acting like before, not giving a crap about me.<\/p>\n<p><b><i>You were so busy with your own life that you completely forgot about me. You neglected the fact that I\u2019m living and breathing next to you. That\u2019s why my darling, today, I\u2019m finally giving up on you. <\/i><\/b><\/p>\n<p>If you just payed attention to me, if you\u2019d just weren\u2019t so self-centered and selfish, we could have had a perfect life together.<\/p>\n<p>Ma, invece, hai scelto di spezzarmi il cuore pi\u00f9 e pi\u00f9 volte. Ogni volta che ti sei trovato di fronte a una scelta, hai scelto te stesso invece di me.<\/p>\n<p><b><i>I was never your priority and that\u2019s why you forced me to give up on you.<\/i><\/b><\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter wp-image-109709 size-full\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/05\/the-woman-sits-in-an-armchair-and-drinks-coffee.jpg\" alt=\"la donna si siede in poltrona e beve un caff\u00e8\" width=\"1600\" height=\"1067\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/05\/the-woman-sits-in-an-armchair-and-drinks-coffee.jpg 1600w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/05\/the-woman-sits-in-an-armchair-and-drinks-coffee-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/05\/the-woman-sits-in-an-armchair-and-drinks-coffee-1024x684.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/05\/the-woman-sits-in-an-armchair-and-drinks-coffee-768x512.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/05\/the-woman-sits-in-an-armchair-and-drinks-coffee-1536x1024.jpg 1536w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/05\/the-woman-sits-in-an-armchair-and-drinks-coffee-150x100.jpg 150w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/05\/the-woman-sits-in-an-armchair-and-drinks-coffee-720x481.jpg 720w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/05\/the-woman-sits-in-an-armchair-and-drinks-coffee-1280x854.jpg 1280w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1600px) 100vw, 1600px\" \/><\/p>\n<p><b>I\u2019m giving up on you<\/b> because you were never there when I needed you. When my mom died, I couldn\u2019t get up from bed.<\/p>\n<p>When I was so vulnerable and broken, you didn&#8217;t give me the time of day. You saw what I was going through and you still chose yourself. I got on my feet. I went through that tragedy by myself and it made me realize that I don\u2019t need you at all.<\/p>\n<p>But, the sad truth is that you need me, even though you\u2019re still not aware of that.<\/p>\n<p><b>I\u2019m giving up on you<\/b> because you didn&#8217;t know how to keep me safe and there were times in my life when I needed you.<\/p>\n<p>Avevo bisogno che mi abbracciassi e mi dicessi che sarebbe andato tutto bene. Avevo bisogno che tu mi dicessi quanto sono forte.<\/p>\n<p>Ma non hai mai saputo come fare. Mi hai visto in difficolt\u00e0 e ti sei allontanato perch\u00e9 pensavi che potessi farcela da solo. Ancora una volta, hai scelto te stesso invece di me.<\/p>\n<p><b>I\u2019m giving up on you<\/b> because we grew apart. We didn&#8217;t even like the same things anymore. We didn&#8217;t even like to go to the same places.<\/p>\n<p>You were changing or maybe you showed your true self. Either way, I couldn&#8217;t recognize you anymore.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-full wp-image-109710 aligncenter\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/05\/woman-sets-the-beach.jpg\" alt=\"donna imposta la spiaggia\" width=\"1600\" height=\"1067\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/05\/woman-sets-the-beach.jpg 1600w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/05\/woman-sets-the-beach-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/05\/woman-sets-the-beach-1024x684.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/05\/woman-sets-the-beach-768x512.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/05\/woman-sets-the-beach-1536x1024.jpg 1536w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/05\/woman-sets-the-beach-150x100.jpg 150w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/05\/woman-sets-the-beach-720x481.jpg 720w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/05\/woman-sets-the-beach-1280x854.jpg 1280w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1600px) 100vw, 1600px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>You became a stranger\u2014someone I know just by hello. It hurt so bad that the person I once loved became no different from someone passing by me on the street.<\/p>\n<p>And what\u2019s the worst, you never did anything to change that. You never even tried to get close to me again.<\/p>\n<p><b>I\u2019m giving up on you<\/b> perch\u00e9 mi ero stancata di piangere in continuazione. Mi sono stancata di alzarmi la mattina con le occhiaie. Mi sono stancata che la gente mi chiedesse perch\u00e9 ho un aspetto di merda?<\/p>\n<p>I got tired of conspiracies cooking up behind my back. I\u2019m young, and there is still hope for me. There is still a chance that I will have a happy life with a man who\u2019ll never allow me to cry by his side.<\/p>\n<p><b><i>Today, I\u2019m giving up on you because you made me forget what it means to be happy. <\/i><\/b><\/p>\n<p><b>I\u2019m giving up on you <\/b> perch\u00e9 invece di farmi desiderare di pi\u00f9 e di farmi desiderare di essere una persona migliore, mi avete trasformato in un essere umano depresso e amareggiato.<\/p>\n<p>You made me accept whatever I could get, instead of pushing me into wanting more. You know, I was always there by your side when you wanted to give up and I didn\u2019t let you. You never did the same for me.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-full wp-image-109711 aligncenter\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/05\/a-woman-with-long-blonde-hair-sets.jpg\" alt=\"una donna con lunghi capelli biondi imposta\" width=\"1600\" height=\"1067\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/05\/a-woman-with-long-blonde-hair-sets.jpg 1600w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/05\/a-woman-with-long-blonde-hair-sets-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/05\/a-woman-with-long-blonde-hair-sets-1024x684.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/05\/a-woman-with-long-blonde-hair-sets-768x512.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/05\/a-woman-with-long-blonde-hair-sets-1536x1024.jpg 1536w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/05\/a-woman-with-long-blonde-hair-sets-150x100.jpg 150w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/05\/a-woman-with-long-blonde-hair-sets-720x481.jpg 720w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/05\/a-woman-with-long-blonde-hair-sets-1280x854.jpg 1280w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1600px) 100vw, 1600px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>But, anyway, you\u2019re welcome for that.<\/p>\n<p><b>I\u2019m giving up on you<\/b> because love is not a one-way street. I\u2019m not the only person in our relationship and I felt like I was.<\/p>\n<p>I\u2019m giving up on you because your kisses weren\u2019t the same as before and your hugs became weaker and weaker with each next day. I\u2019m sorry, but I can\u2019t let myself go through the pain of another broken heart.<\/p>\n<p><b>Today, my darling, I\u2019m giving up on you because you\u2019ve already given up on me<\/b> \u2014 <b>you just didn\u2019t want to admit it.<\/b><\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter wp-image-109706\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/05\/Today-Im-Finally-Giving-Up-On-You-pinterest.jpg\" alt=\"Oggi, finalmente, mi arrendo con te\" width=\"1000\" height=\"1500\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/05\/Today-Im-Finally-Giving-Up-On-You-pinterest.jpg 735w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/05\/Today-Im-Finally-Giving-Up-On-You-pinterest-200x300.jpg 200w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/05\/Today-Im-Finally-Giving-Up-On-You-pinterest-683x1024.jpg 683w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/05\/Today-Im-Finally-Giving-Up-On-You-pinterest-150x225.jpg 150w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1000px) 100vw, 1000px\" \/><\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>I have put up with your shit long enough. I have let you do your own thing because I thought you needed to blow off steam. I thought it will go away. I have given you so many second chances that I\u2019m embarrassed. I have shown you so many times that I couldn\u2019t take it&#8230;<\/p>","protected":false},"author":40,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29618],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-18979","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-moving-on"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29618,"label":"moving on"}]},"featured_image_src_large":false,"author_info":{"display_name":"Tara Brown","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/author\/tara-brown\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29618,"name":"moving on","slug":"moving-on","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29618,"taxonomy":"category","description":"When nothing else works - inspiring stories about moving on are bound to help you let go of people and situations you never thought you could live without.\r\n","parent":38,"count":200,"filter":"raw","cat_ID":29618,"category_count":200,"category_description":"When nothing else works - inspiring stories about moving on are bound to help you let go of people and situations you never thought you could live without.\r\n","cat_name":"moving on","category_nicename":"moving-on","category_parent":38}],"tag_info":false,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/18979","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/40"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=18979"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/18979\/revisions"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=18979"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=18979"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=18979"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}