{"id":19007,"date":"2020-09-22T07:08:42","date_gmt":"2020-09-22T07:08:42","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/herway.net\/?p=19007"},"modified":"2022-02-27T02:47:52","modified_gmt":"2022-02-27T02:47:52","slug":"ad-ogni-ragazza-che-continua-a-spezzarsi-il-cuore","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/ad-ogni-ragazza-che-continua-a-spezzarsi-il-cuore\/","title":{"rendered":"A tutte le ragazze che continuano a spezzare il proprio cuore"},"content":{"rendered":"

When you look at your love life up to now from this point of view, all you can see is pain and disappointment. You\u2019ve been hurt more than once and many men have taken advantage of you and did nothing but cause you pain.<\/p>\n

When you come to think about it, you can\u2019t even count how many times you had your heart broken. Of course, not all of these heartbreaks left a permanent mark on your soul but some of them were devastating.<\/p>\n

And you keep wondering why that is so. How come you can\u2019t find a way to leave this never-ending circle of having your heart broken and of you always being the one who gets hurt?<\/p>\n

Perch\u00e9 tutti questi uomini ti scelgono per farti soffrire e spezzarti il cuore? Perch\u00e9 finiscono tutti per lasciarti e perch\u00e9 nessuno riesce ad amarti come meriti di essere amata?<\/p>\n

Beh, odio essere io a dirtelo, ma sei tu che continui a spezzare il tuo stesso cuore.<\/p>\n

Sei tu che si innamora di tutti questi uomini sbagliati<\/a>, quella che ha permesso loro di continuare a farvi soffrire dopo averlo fatto per la prima volta e quella che ha continuato a soffrire per loro.<\/p>\n

So che farsi del male era l'ultima cosa che avresti voluto fare, ma in qualche modo \u00e8 stato proprio quello che hai finito per fare.<\/p>\n

Hai spezzato il tuo cuore ogni volta che far entrare la persona sbagliata<\/a>.<\/strong> Lo facevi ogni volta che incontravi un giocatore o un ragazzo che sapevi essere un problema.<\/p>\n

\"una<\/p>\n

You did it every time you didn\u2019t follow your intuition or every time you thought you could save or change a man. I know hai sempre pensato che il tuo amore avrebbe guarito tutti quegli uomini emotivamente indisponibili<\/a> but sometimes this simply doesn\u2019t happen.<\/p>\n

E siete voi a finire feriti e danneggiati emotivamente, mentre loro continuano a vivere la loro vita come se nulla fosse accaduto.<\/p>\n

Hai spezzato il tuo cuore ogni volta che hai ripreso qualcuno che sapevi ti avrebbe ferito.<\/strong><\/p>\n

You did it every time you gave a guy a second chance, thinking that time would be different. You did it every time you went back to a man who you knew wasn\u2019t right for you.<\/p>\n

You did it every time you let your abuser back in, thinking he wouldn\u2019t continue hurting you.<\/p>\n

You broke your own heart every time you forgave someone for the things you shouldn\u2019t have.<\/strong><\/p>\n

You did it every time you forgave a guy for cheating on you, for abusing you in any way or for not treating you right. I know you did it because you loved them but the harsh truth is that you\u2019d just given them a heads-up.<\/p>\n

By forgiving them, you\u2019d just shown them that their behavior was acceptable and that\u2019s why they continued acting the way they did all along.<\/p>\n

\"una<\/p>\n

Hai spezzato il tuo stesso cuore ogni volta che hai inseguito un uomo che era paura di impegnarsi<\/a>.<\/strong> Because it was obvious that you two didn\u2019t want the same things from the start.<\/p>\n

And instead of walking away and instead of doing your best to try and find someone who would give you what you needed, you allowed these men to use you for their ego and you allowed yourself to become someone\u2019s booty call, when that was the last thing you wanted.<\/p>\n

Ti sei spezzata il cuore ogni volta che hai pensato che un ragazzo sarebbe cambiato per te.<\/strong> What you obviously didn\u2019t know is that people never change for others. People change only when they feel the need to.<\/p>\n

Instead of looking for a guy who would be compatible with you, you kept getting yourself involved with men whom you wanted to change. But sadly that never happened and all of the pain that you\u2019ve been through caused you to be the only one who changed.<\/p>\n

You broke your own heart thinking you didn\u2019t deserve better than some guy who treated you like shit<\/strong>.<\/p>\n

You did it every time you were scared of stepping out of your comfort zone, every time you were afraid of leaving a guy you knew didn\u2019t deserve you.<\/p>\n

You did it every time you missed a chance to be with someone who would love and appreciate you just because you thought you weren\u2019t good enough for them.<\/p>\n

Hai spezzato il tuo cuore ogni volta che ti sei aggrappato al passato.<\/strong> Lo facevi ogni volta che rivivevi tutti i ricordi che avevi in testa.<\/p>\n

\"la<\/p>\n

Lo hai fatto ogni volta che hai riletto tutti i vecchi messaggi con il tuo ex e ogni volta che hai pianto fino ad addormentarti pensando a quanto avreste potuto essere felici voi due.<\/p>\n

Lo facevi ogni volta che guardavi vecchie foto di voi due sorridenti, ogni volta che controllavi il suo profilo Instagram o Facebook o ogni volta che passavi davanti a casa sua o andavi da qualche parte, sperando di incontrarlo.<\/p>\n

You broke your own heart whenever you didn\u2019t allow yourself to move on.<\/strong> You did it because you didn\u2019t know that you were the one impedendo a se stessi di essere veramente felici<\/a>Quella che non si permette di dimenticare gli uomini che le hanno portato solo dolore.<\/p>\n

Quindi, per favore, smettete di fare tutto questo a voi stessi e buttatevi finalmente nel futuro felice che meritate. Abbiate cura del vostro cuore perch\u00e9 siete gli unici che possono guarirlo.<\/strong> <\/p>\n

\"A<\/p>\n

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