{"id":19017,"date":"2020-05-22T07:54:46","date_gmt":"2020-05-22T07:54:46","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/herway.net\/?p=19017"},"modified":"2022-02-27T12:49:08","modified_gmt":"2022-02-27T12:49:08","slug":"un-giorno-desidererai-di-aver-combattuto-per-lei-quando-ne-avevi-ancora-la-possibilita","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/un-giorno-desidererai-di-aver-combattuto-per-lei-quando-ne-avevi-ancora-la-possibilita\/","title":{"rendered":"Un giorno desidererai di aver combattuto per lei quando ne avevi ancora l'occasione"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>Scommetto che in questo momento state piangendo a dirotto. Scommetto che state pregando Dio di tornare indietro nel tempo per poter fare le cose in modo diverso.<\/p>\r\n<p>I bet you\u2019re <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/relationship\/e-il-tipo-di-donna-che-rimpiangerete-di-aver-perso\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\">rimpiangendo cos\u00ec tanto di aver perso<\/a> probabilmente l'unica vera possibilit\u00e0 di sentirsi amati.<\/p>\r\n<p><strong>L'avevi tutta per te e hai fatto una cazzata.<\/strong><\/p>\r\n<p>Ti amava cos\u00ec tanto. Era pronta a dare la sua vita per la tua e tu l'hai mancata.<\/p>\r\n<p>Ti \u00e8 mancato l'amore quando ce l'avevi sotto il naso.<\/p>\r\n<p>Ha cercato di essere perfetta per te, sai? Si \u00e8 sforzata di mantenere un sorriso sul volto quando tutto ci\u00f2 che voleva era urlare di dolore a squarciagola.<\/p>\r\n<p>Scream from sadness and neglect. But you were just doing fine, weren\u2019t you? You were given so much love and affection and gave nothing in return. Isn\u2019t that a pretty life?<\/p>\r\n<p><strong>She stood by your side choking in tears and crying when you weren\u2019t looking, hoping that things would change.<\/strong><\/p>\r\n<p>Nothing changed. You got up in the morning leaving her all alone after just saying goodbye. You didn\u2019t answer her calls when she was worried sick about you.<\/p>\r\n<p>E dopo essere stato via tutto il giorno, tornavi a casa puzzando di alcol e sigarette. Ti divertivi cos\u00ec tanto mentre lei ti immaginava sdraiato in un canale di scolo da qualche parte.<\/p>\r\n<p>And no, you didn\u2019t even bother to text her that you were fine, that you were out with friends, that you were coming back soon.<\/p>\r\n<p>She even opened up to you. She told you what was bothering her and you lied to her face saying that she was right and you\u2019d make up for everything. That was just one of the lines of your endless lies.<\/p>\r\n<p><strong>Non ha mai chiesto troppo.<\/strong><\/p>\r\n<p>Era una ragazza normale. Voleva solo amare ed essere amata. Questa volta pensava di aver finalmente realizzato il suo sogno e lo ha fatto, ma solo a met\u00e0.<\/p>\r\n<p>She loved you and showed it to you every day and you couldn\u2019t have cared less but you took her love anyway. It suited you.<\/p>\r\n<p>Ti sentivi bene. Ma non ti sei mai fermato a pensare come si sentisse lei.<\/p>\r\n<p>Non \u00e8 mai stata esigente. Tutto ci\u00f2 che voleva era passare del tempo con te. Voleva essere al tuo fianco, fare le cose che amavi.<\/p>\r\n<p>Voleva che faceste delle cose insieme. Voleva addormentarsi accanto a voi e svegliarsi al mattino con voi in braccio.<\/p>\r\n<p>But, at the end of the day, you didn\u2019t make her wishes come true. You were too selfish to do that.<\/p>\r\n<p><strong>Voleva amarti.<\/strong><\/p>\r\n<p>It\u2019s as simple as that. She wanted to hold your hand <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/relationship\/un-giorno-ti-accorgerai-che-uno-e-sempre\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\">quando stavi cadendo a pezzi<\/a> e voleva ridere con te quando eri felice.<\/p>\r\n<p>Voleva far parte della vostra vita. Voleva che voi due foste una cosa sola. Ma tu l'hai delusa di nuovo.<\/p>\r\n<p>You made a huge mistake and one day you\u2019ll realize that and it will be too late.<\/p>\r\n<p>By the time you realize what you\u2019ve done and how you neglected the only person who will ever love you the way she did, she\u2019ll be gone.<\/p>\r\n<p>She\u2019ll have found someone to love and that man will never treat her poorly like you did. That man will be aware of what a diamond he has in his possession and he will never let her go.<\/p>\r\n<p><strong>Vi sar\u00e0 grato per averla gettata via, perch\u00e9 cos\u00ec facendo gli avete permesso di trovarla. <\/strong><\/p>\r\n<p><strong>And at the end of the day, you\u2019ll end up bitter and alone and she\u2019ll be the happiest woman alive. And this will hurt you so badly.<\/strong><\/p>\r\n<p><strong>After all she\u2019s been through, she still can\u2019t hate you.<\/strong><\/p>\r\n<p>Nel suo cuore non c'\u00e8 posto per l'odio. S\u00ec, c'\u00e8 delusione, s\u00ec, c'\u00e8 rabbia, ma l'odio non \u00e8 un sentimento che le \u00e8 familiare.<\/p>\r\n<p>S\u00ec, voleva che tu soffrissi come lei, ma era solo perch\u00e9 aveva ricevuto cos\u00ec tanti colpi, uno dopo l'altro, che voleva che tu provassi solo una piccola parte del dolore che provava lei.<\/p>\r\n<p>But that is gone now. She can\u2019t hold anything against you. She can only feel sorry for you for not appreciating her the way you should.<\/p>\r\n<p><strong>Now, she\u2019s thankful.<\/strong><\/p>\r\n<p>If it wasn\u2019t for you, she wouldn\u2019t be so happy today. If it wasn\u2019t for you, she wouldn\u2019t know what it means to hit rock bottom and come back to life stronger than ever.<\/p>\r\n<p>She would never have learned what she is capable of surviving if you hadn\u2019t been there in that one sad chapter of her life.<\/p>\r\n<p>Ma ha chiuso quel capitolo con un grande punto fermo alla fine e ha voltato una pagina nuova, fresca, pronta per essere scritta da capo. In questo capitolo della sua vita, non \u00e8 scontata, non \u00e8 triste e, soprattutto, \u00e8 amata.<\/p>\r\n<p><strong>Ma non ci sono comunque scuse per quello che hai fatto.<\/strong><\/p>\r\n<p><a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/come-si-perde\/\">You\u2019re an idiot for losing a one-of-a-kind girl<\/a>. So che l'amore non \u00e8 una strada a senso unico e potete cercare di trovare la vostra giustificazione.<\/p>\r\n<p>But she was the one driving in the right direction and you were nowhere to be found, so please don\u2019t even try to go there.<\/p>\r\n<p>Hai fatto una cazzata e devi ammetterlo. L'hai spezzata. L'hai fatta piangere.<\/p>\r\n<p>You almost made her never trust anyone again. You can\u2019t do that to a person, especially not a woman who loved you unconditionally.<\/p>\r\n<p>You just had to be less selfish. She wasn\u2019t a needy girl, she always gave you space and time to sort out everything you needed to deal with.<\/p>\r\n<p>Tutto quello che dovevate fare era aprire gli occhi e fare spazio per lei nella vostra vita. Avresti avuto la vita migliore di sempre.<\/p>\r\n<p>This way, you\u2019re going to end up alone, thinking about what a fool you\u2019ve been and cursing yourself for pushing her away.<\/p>\r\n<p><strong>Ragazze come lei <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/il-tuo-amore-non-si-allontana-le-cose-si-fanno-difficili\/\">don\u2019t walk away that easily<\/a>. Le ragazze come lei danno tante possibilit\u00e0, molte di pi\u00f9 di quelle che meritano gli uomini come te. <\/strong><\/p>\r\n<p><strong>One day, when you look back, you\u2019ll be sorry but don\u2019t feel so bad. <\/strong><\/p>\r\n<p><strong>In ogni caso, voi due non avete mai avuto una possibilit\u00e0. <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/love\/non-eri-la-mia-anima-gemella-eri-solo-la-mia-lezione\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\">Eri solo una lezione<\/a> che aveva bisogno di imparare. Tu eri solo la preparazione per la bella vita che aveva davanti. <\/strong><\/p>\r\n<p><strong>She\u2019s living it now. And where are you? Probably sitting all alone with a bottle of whiskey by your side. Tell me, isn\u2019t that karma at its best?<\/strong><\/p>\r\n\r\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-full wp-image-41147 aligncenter\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/05\/herway.net-21.jpg\" alt=\"\" width=\"735\" height=\"1102\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/05\/herway.net-21.jpg 735w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/05\/herway.net-21-200x300.jpg 200w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/05\/herway.net-21-683x1024.jpg 683w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 735px) 100vw, 735px\" \/><\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>I bet you\u2019re crying your eyes out right now. I bet you\u2019re praying to God to turn back time so you could do things differently. I bet you\u2019re regretting so hard for missing probably your only true chance to feel loved. You had her all to yourself and you fucked up. She loved you so&#8230;<\/p>","protected":false},"author":40,"featured_media":19021,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29618],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-19017","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-moving-on"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29618,"label":"moving on"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/05\/samuel-zeller-27200-unsplash.jpg",800,533,false],"author_info":{"display_name":"Tara Brown","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/author\/tara-brown\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29618,"name":"moving on","slug":"moving-on","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29618,"taxonomy":"category","description":"When nothing else works - inspiring stories about moving on are bound to help you let go of people and situations you never thought you could live without.\r\n","parent":38,"count":200,"filter":"raw","cat_ID":29618,"category_count":200,"category_description":"When nothing else works - inspiring stories about moving on are bound to help you let go of people and situations you never thought you could live without.\r\n","cat_name":"moving on","category_nicename":"moving-on","category_parent":38}],"tag_info":false,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/19017","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/40"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=19017"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/19017\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/19021"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=19017"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=19017"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=19017"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}