{"id":19039,"date":"2020-04-22T09:12:54","date_gmt":"2020-04-22T09:12:54","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/herway.net\/?p=19039"},"modified":"2022-03-09T13:47:17","modified_gmt":"2022-03-09T13:47:17","slug":"rispettate-voi-stesse-abbastanza-da-allontanarvi-da-un-uomo-che-non-vede-il-vostro-valore","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/rispettate-voi-stesse-abbastanza-da-allontanarvi-da-un-uomo-che-non-vede-il-vostro-valore\/","title":{"rendered":"Rispettate voi stesse abbastanza da allontanarvi da un uomo che non vede il vostro valore"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>Il modo in cui trattate voi stessi stabilisce lo standard per gli altri e non c'\u00e8 niente di pi\u00f9 prezioso che abbia imparato finora nella mia vita. Se non amate voi stessi, come potete aspettarvi che gli altri vi amino?<\/p>\n<p>If you don\u2019t respect yourself, how can you expect others to respect you? Please, don\u2019t be one of those who learned this the hard way. Listen to what I have to say.<\/p>\n<p><b>Il rapporto con se stessi d\u00e0 il tono a tutte le altre relazioni. <\/b><\/p>\n<p>Il modo in cui <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/trattatevi-come-una-persona-che-amate\/\">concedetevi un trattamento<\/a> and the way you let others treat you will be the path of life you\u2019re gonna have to walk, whether you like it or not.<\/p>\n<p>Dicono<i> come si fa il letto, cos\u00ec ci si corica sopra; <\/i>Dico <i>if you don\u2019t see your worth, how can you expect others to see it?<\/i><\/p>\n<p><b>Non siete un piano di riserva e non dovreste mai permettere a nessuno di trattarvi come una seconda scelta. <\/b><\/p>\n<p>A prescindere da ci\u00f2 che vedete quando vi guardate allo specchio, io dico che siete una creatura meravigliosa che, oltre ai suoi difetti, ha anche tanti lati sorprendenti e meravigliosi.<\/p>\n<p>And a creature like this deserves to be a priority, deserves to have someone next to her who\u2019ll always put her first.<\/p>\n<p>You deserve to be next to a man who sees you\u2019re worthy and who treats you as such.<\/p>\n<p>You deserve a man who won\u2019t ever make you question your worth, who won\u2019t bring up your flaws constantly just to bring you down. You deserve a man next to whom you\u2019ll be happy and not miserable.<\/p>\n<p><b>I understand you\u2019re in love but there is a difference between being in love and being an idiot. <\/b><\/p>\n<p>There is only so much you can give to a man. There is only so much of your time, your efforts and your love that you can invest into a relationship with someone who doesn\u2019t see your worth and who doesn\u2019t see the things you\u2019re doing for him.<\/p>\n<p>If you choose to stay by his side even when this line is crossed, then it\u2019s no longer about loving him, it\u2019s about not respecting yourself enough and not being aware of your own worth.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter wp-image-81766 size-full\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/05\/thoughtful-woman-leaning-on-wall.jpg\" alt=\"donna pensierosa appoggiata al muro\" width=\"800\" height=\"533\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/05\/thoughtful-woman-leaning-on-wall.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/05\/thoughtful-woman-leaning-on-wall-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/05\/thoughtful-woman-leaning-on-wall-768x512.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p><b>Il modo in cui si tratta se stessi stabilisce lo standard per gli altri, si sa. <\/b><\/p>\n<p>If you still text him after he hasn\u2019t responded to any of your &nbsp;messages, if you still pick up the phone when he calls even though there has been radio silence for a while, if you continue seeing him even though he refused to commit to you, if you\u2019re giving him boyfriend privileges before he\u2019s your boyfriend, you\u2019re sending him the wrong message.<\/p>\n<p>You\u2019re telling him he can count on you whenever he needs you and that you\u2019re okay with him disrespecting you. And I know you\u2019re not, so why are you allowing him to treat you this way?<\/p>\n<p><b>Pi\u00f9 ci si ama e ci si rispetta, meno si tollerano le assurdit\u00e0. <\/b><\/p>\n<p>So please love yourself to the point where you don\u2019t need anyone else\u2019s love.<\/p>\n<p>Please, respect yourself enough to the point where others can see clearly that they can\u2019t treat you with disrespect. Know your worth and never <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/life\/preferisco-rimanere-single-piuttosto-che-accontentarmi-di-poco\/\">accontentarsi di meno. <\/a><\/p>\n<p><b>If someone is constantly taking you for granted, then there isn\u2019t much you can do except walk away and burn all the bridges behind you. <\/b><\/p>\n<p>You can\u2019t force a man into being faithful, loyal and honest. You can\u2019t make him appreciate you for everything you are but you can force him to live without you, as you invest your time into someone better than him.<\/p>\n<p>You\u2019re not the only one guilty of giving people more chances than they deserve. There are plenty of people like you and me out there.<\/p>\n<p>Ma \u00e8 arrivato il momento di imparare quando \u00e8 il momento di andarsene. \u00c8 arrivato il momento di demolire i ponti dietro di noi e di non lasciarci altra scelta se non quella di andare avanti.<\/p>\n<p><b>At some point in your life, the relationship you\u2019re constantly dragging forward on your own will be too much of a burden to carry and you\u2019ll need to learn the art of letting go if you don\u2019t want to get stuck in the same spot forever. <\/b><\/p>\n<p>If a man can\u2019t see your worth, if a man doesn\u2019t respect you, then <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/relationship\/se-non-ti-rispetta-non-ti-merita\/\">he doesn\u2019t deserve you<\/a>.<\/p>\n<p>E nessuna quantit\u00e0 di amore che gli date, nessuna quantit\u00e0 di tempo che gli dedicate, nessuna quantit\u00e0 di sforzi che fate lo cambier\u00e0.<\/p>\n<p>Eventually, you\u2019ll come to realize that you\u2019ve been wasting your time trying to show the rainbow to a man who\u2019s colorblind.<\/p>\n<p>Eventually, you\u2019ll come to realize that while you\u2019ve been bending over backward to show one man you\u2019re worthy enough, there was another man waiting for a woman like you his whole life.<\/p>\n<p>Eventually, you\u2019ll realize there isn\u2019t anything else to do when a man doesn\u2019t see your worth except to pick up your pride and walk away.<\/p>\n<p>One day you\u2019ll have to learn to respect yourself and it might as well be today. Show him how you want to be treated, show him you respect yourself.<\/p>\n<p>\u201cOne of the most courageous decisions you\u2019ll ever make is to finally let go of what is hurting your heart and soul.\u201d \u2014 <i>Brigitte Nicole<\/i><\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter wp-image-81763 size-large\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/05\/Respect-Yourself-Enough-To-Walk-Away-From-A-Man-Who-Doesn\u2019t-See-Your-Worth-Pinterest-683x1024.jpg\" alt=\"Rispettate voi stesse abbastanza da allontanarvi da un uomo che non vede il vostro valore\" width=\"683\" height=\"1024\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/05\/Respect-Yourself-Enough-To-Walk-Away-From-A-Man-Who-Doesn\u2019t-See-Your-Worth-Pinterest-683x1024.jpg 683w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/05\/Respect-Yourself-Enough-To-Walk-Away-From-A-Man-Who-Doesn\u2019t-See-Your-Worth-Pinterest-200x300.jpg 200w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/05\/Respect-Yourself-Enough-To-Walk-Away-From-A-Man-Who-Doesn\u2019t-See-Your-Worth-Pinterest-768x1152.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/05\/Respect-Yourself-Enough-To-Walk-Away-From-A-Man-Who-Doesn\u2019t-See-Your-Worth-Pinterest.jpg 1000w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 683px) 100vw, 683px\" \/><\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>How you treat yourself sets the standard for others and there isn\u2019t anything more valuable I\u2019ve learned in my life so far. If you don\u2019t love yourself, how can you expect others to love you? If you don\u2019t respect yourself, how can you expect others to respect you? Please, don\u2019t be one of those who&#8230;<\/p>","protected":false},"author":23,"featured_media":81764,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29631],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-19039","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-getting-over-him"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29631,"label":"getting over him"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/05\/Respect-Yourself-Enough-To-Walk-Away-From-A-Man-Who-Doesn\u2019t-See-Your-Worth.jpg",800,533,false],"author_info":{"display_name":"Leah Lee","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/author\/leah\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29631,"name":"getting over him","slug":"getting-over-him","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29631,"taxonomy":"category","description":"Getting over someone you still care about is one of the biggest challenges, but nothing is impossible when you know you're not alone, so check out our brilliant advice.","parent":29627,"count":124,"filter":"raw","cat_ID":29631,"category_count":124,"category_description":"Getting over someone you still care about is one of the biggest challenges, but nothing is impossible when you know you're not alone, so check out our brilliant advice.","cat_name":"getting over him","category_nicename":"getting-over-him","category_parent":29627}],"tag_info":false,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/19039","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/23"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=19039"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/19039\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/81764"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=19039"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=19039"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=19039"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}