{"id":19078,"date":"2019-11-23T06:43:17","date_gmt":"2019-11-23T06:43:17","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/herway.net\/?p=19078"},"modified":"2021-08-12T13:25:19","modified_gmt":"2021-08-12T13:25:19","slug":"concedetevi-un-po-di-tempo","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/concedetevi-un-po-di-tempo\/","title":{"rendered":"Concedetevi un po' di tempo"},"content":{"rendered":"

Roma non \u00e8 stata costruita in una notte e nemmeno il vostro cuore guarir\u00e0 in una notte. <\/strong><\/p>\n

Ma ci\u00f2 che conta <\/strong>alla fine \u00e8 che Roma \u00e8 stata costruita prima o poi e anche voi prima o poi lo dimenticherete. Datevi solo un po' di tempo.<\/strong><\/p>\n

I know all about the heartbreak you\u2019re going through. I know it way too well. I know how hopeless you feel now.<\/p>\n

So che volete solo strisciare nel vostro letto sotto le lenzuola e restarci per il resto della vostra vita.<\/p>\n

So che la tua mano digita ancora il suo numero inconsciamente e che l'hai quasi composto una dozzina di volte.<\/p>\n

So che controllate ancora i suoi social media per vedere se \u00e8 andato avanti. So che ti chiedi cosa potresti fare per sistemare le cose e se lui pensa ancora a te quanto tu pensi a lui.<\/p>\n

I know all about this and I\u2019m here to tell you that it\u2019s okay. It\u2019s okay to feel heartbroken. It\u2019s okay to miss him.<\/p>\n

Ma it\u2019s not okay to get back to him<\/a>. It\u2019s not okay to constantly cry over spilled milk. It\u2019s not okay to beat yourself up for being stuck. \u2018Cause you\u2019re not stuck.<\/p>\n

You\u2019re moving on, you\u2019re healing. And all this what you\u2019re feeling? It\u2019s all part of getting over him.<\/p>\n

They say that the only thing more dangerous than war is love. You\u2019ve felt this on your own skin. It feels like you went through a warzone and not a relationship.<\/p>\n

E sembra che ogni proiettile sparato sia arrivato in qualche modo a te.<\/p>\n

Hai amato e sei stato spezzato. Hai alimentato le tue speranze solo per vederle svanire nella polvere. Avete progettato il vostro futuro insieme solo per non vederlo mai realizzato. <\/strong><\/p>\n

And it hurts. All of this hurts so much. But remember: it\u2019s always the darkest before the dawn.<\/strong><\/p>\n

You wanted to keep him. You planned your future with him. You actually wanted him to stay. But if he didn\u2019t stay, then it means he was never sent your way to stay.<\/p>\n

\u00c8 stato mandato da voi per rimanere nei paraggi per un po', darvi una lezione e, una volta finito il suo lavoro, andarsene.<\/p>\n

C'era un motivo per cui Dio ha mosso il vostro cuore verso di lui e c'era un motivo per cui vi siete affezionati pi\u00f9 di quanto non abbiate fatto con qualsiasi altra persona nella vostra vita.<\/p>\n

When you look back, you\u2019ll see he played a major role in your life, but he had to be in it only temporarily so he could fulfil his duty of showing you a different way of life and then set you free.<\/p>\n

Nothing\u2014or nobody\u2014ever goes away until it teaches us what we need to know.<\/p>\n

The reason he came into your life and the mission he had is known only to you, but you won\u2019t be able to grasp it until you let the pain go.<\/p>\n

So allow yourself to feel whatever you\u2019re feeling. Cry a river. Build a bridge. And then get over it.<\/p>\n

Trova consolazione nel fatto che probabilmente la tua storia \u00e8 meglio lasciarla cos\u00ec com'\u00e8.<\/strong> Avete dato all'altro tutto quello che avevate da offrire.<\/p>\n

One got love and other got sorrow. But either way, what\u2019s done is done. The time has come to admit to yourself that the chapter of your book in which he is playing the main role is over.<\/p>\n

A questo punto potete scegliere di continuare a rileggerlo o di passare alla stesura di un nuovo capitolo, o magari di un intero nuovo libro.<\/p>\n

Il tempo guarisce tutto, quindi concedetevi il tempo di guarire<\/a>. But please don\u2019t build walls. You don\u2019t need all that armor. Because what lives inside can\u2019t be broken.<\/strong><\/p>\n

Un giorno non desidererete pi\u00f9 le sue braccia. Un giorno non lo amerete pi\u00f9.<\/p>\n

One day, you\u2019ll no longer wish that things had gone differently because you\u2019ll finally understand you needed him and everything you lived with him took you to a better place.<\/p>\n

Your heart will finally be whole again and you\u2019ll be able to love someone who\u2019s actually meant to stay.<\/p>\n

You will build your own Rome, your own empire with someone else who\u2019s not temporary. Just give yourself some time.<\/p>\n

If you were brave enough to love someone, then you\u2019re strong enough to get over him, too.<\/strong><\/p>\n

So stay strong, you\u2019ve got this.<\/p>\n

\"Concedetevi<\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

Rome wasn\u2019t built overnight and neither will your heart heal overnight. But what matters in the end is that Rome was built eventually and you too will get over him eventually. Just give yourself some time. I know all about the heartbreak you\u2019re going through. I know it way too well. I know how hopeless…<\/p>","protected":false},"author":20,"featured_media":19079,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29636],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-19078","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-self-help"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29636,"label":"self help"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/05\/dan-7kidz-621635-unsplash.jpg",800,547,false],"author_info":{"display_name":"Christine Keller","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/author\/christine\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29636,"name":"self help","slug":"self-help","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29636,"taxonomy":"category","description":"Whenever you feel lost or hurt in love and life, these self-help tips will help you overcome challenges and make you feel better instantly.","parent":22911,"count":316,"filter":"raw","cat_ID":29636,"category_count":316,"category_description":"Whenever you feel lost or hurt in love and life, these self-help tips will help you overcome challenges and make you feel better instantly.","cat_name":"self help","category_nicename":"self-help","category_parent":22911}],"tag_info":false,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/19078","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/20"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=19078"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/19078\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/19079"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=19078"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=19078"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=19078"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}