{"id":19093,"date":"2020-05-23T07:30:47","date_gmt":"2020-05-23T07:30:47","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/herway.net\/?p=19093"},"modified":"2022-03-02T00:14:33","modified_gmt":"2022-03-02T00:14:33","slug":"se-volesse-davvero-stare-con-te-non-ti-costringerebbe-a-inseguirlo","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/se-volesse-davvero-stare-con-te-non-ti-costringerebbe-a-inseguirlo\/","title":{"rendered":"Se volesse davvero stare con te, non ti costringerebbe a rincorrerlo"},"content":{"rendered":"

If his feelings were true, he wouldn\u2019t make you wait. He wouldn\u2019t play hard to get. Se vi amasse davvero, vi farebbe diventare suoi<\/a>, proprio in quel momento.<\/p>\n

Niente lo avrebbe ostacolato. Nuoterebbe nei mari e scalerebbe le montagne solo per stare con te.<\/p>\n

Don\u2019t fool yourself into thinking that he\u2019ll come around. Don\u2019t waste your life on someone who clearly thinks you\u2019re not good enough. <\/strong><\/p>\n

Don\u2019t think he will change and suddenly realize he has loved you for all this time. This happens only in movies and not in real life.<\/strong><\/p>\n

Nella vita reale, le ragazze come me e te lo aspettano, assecondano ogni suo desiderio, lo trattano meglio di chiunque altro e tutto ci\u00f2 che riceviamo in cambio \u00e8 usato e rotto.<\/p>\n

All because he didn\u2019t make up his mind. One moment he wanted to be with you and the other one he was saying he didn\u2019t want to commit<\/a>.<\/p>\n

Don\u2019t waste your life on guys like that. Don\u2019t keep searching for fucked up and broken men, hoping that you can change them and turn their lives around.<\/strong><\/em><\/p>\n

Non perdete mai il contatto con la realt\u00e0.<\/strong> State sempre con i piedi per terra e se vi dice qualcosa, prendetelo sul serio.<\/p>\n

If he says that he doesn\u2019t want to be serious with you although he said something completely opposite two days ago, take it seriously.<\/p>\n

A man who wants to be with you will give you the same answer every time. He won\u2019t second-guess you. He will know from the start.<\/p>\n

Don\u2019t look far into the future imagining the moment when he\u2019ll change his mind and swear eternal love.<\/p>\n

Those things don\u2019t happen and even if they do, they don\u2019t last for long. If he was never sure about you and suddenly realized he loves you, he only got scared of being alone so his backup plan, you, became the best he could get.<\/p>\n

Don\u2019t ever settle for that because it\u2019s way less than you deserve.<\/p>\n

Don\u2019t make excuses for him.<\/strong> If he yells at you and hurts you by just being selfish, don\u2019t try to justify his behavior. Don\u2019t say that he didn\u2019t mean it and that he\u2019s sorry.<\/p>\n

Don\u2019t defend the man who is lying to you, saying that he loves you only to keep you by his side as a reserve until something better comes along.<\/p>\n

It\u2019s just a matter of time and how many more shitty situations are you willing to take and overlook until he breaks your heart.<\/p>\n

Lasciare l'uomo che solo vi tratta come un'opzione<\/a> perch\u00e9 quando lo lascerete andare, per quanto doloroso possa essere, sappiate questo: Davanti a voi c'\u00e8 un futuro luminoso.<\/p>\n

There is a loving man waiting for you to be free so he can walk into your life and make everything have sense again. As long as you are stuck with a man who doesn\u2019t appreciate you, you won\u2019t be truly happy. You may kid yourself that things are going to get better and change, but deep inside, even you know that\u2019s not true.<\/p>\n

I know it\u2019s a hard step to take, but it\u2019s important. The pain will pass, you\u2019ll heal and it will all be worth it.<\/p>\n

Un uomo che ti fa inseguire<\/a>, who is not sure about you, is not the man you\u2019ve been waiting for your whole life. <\/strong><\/p>\n

He is not the man who deserves your kindness and your love, so don\u2019t spend it the wrong way. Just be a little bit more patient.<\/strong><\/p>\n

Chiudetevi alle spalle il capitolo che lo riguarda. Sigillatelo e non apritelo mai pi\u00f9. Lasciatelo e accettate il fatto che non siete mai stati importanti per lui perch\u00e9 non vi ha mai amato veramente.<\/p>\n

He kept you for just in case and until someone better comes along. When you realize that, you won\u2019t be sorry for even a second more.<\/p>\n

You\u2019ll realize that it was for the best. You\u2019ll realize that he will never change and he will have no problem with replacing you, either. That\u2019s how much you mean to him.<\/strong><\/p>\n

Se vedete che gli mancate o che vi manca, ricordate tutto il dolore che avete provato e tutte le situazioni in cui vi ha messo all'ultimo posto.<\/p>\n

Remember how you felt and what you prayed for. That should keep your mind made up. That should stop you from making the biggest mistake of your life\u2014getting back to him.<\/p>\n

If he tries to crawl back into your life using manipulations and guilt, just remember that if he was the right one, he wouldn\u2019t have ignored and neglected you.<\/strong><\/em><\/p>\n

If he was the right one, he wouldn\u2019t have let you chase him and would never have let himself be chased.<\/strong><\/em><\/p>\n

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If his feelings were true, he wouldn\u2019t make you wait. He wouldn\u2019t play hard to get. If he really loved you, he would make you his, right that second. Nothing would stand in his way. He would swim seas and climb mountains just to be with you. Don\u2019t fool yourself into thinking that he\u2019ll come…<\/p>","protected":false},"author":42,"featured_media":19094,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29646],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-19093","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-understanding-men"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29646,"label":"understanding men"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/05\/milan-popovic-596860-unsplash.jpg",800,533,false],"author_info":{"display_name":"Selma June","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/author\/selmajune\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29646,"name":"understanding men","slug":"understanding-men","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29646,"taxonomy":"category","description":"Wondering about what's going on inside his head? Or do you need explanations for his actions? Learn to understand men, and your life will become easier.","parent":29643,"count":570,"filter":"raw","cat_ID":29646,"category_count":570,"category_description":"Wondering about what's going on inside his head? Or do you need explanations for his actions? Learn to understand men, and your life will become easier.","cat_name":"understanding men","category_nicename":"understanding-men","category_parent":29643}],"tag_info":false,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/19093","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/42"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=19093"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/19093\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/19094"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=19093"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=19093"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=19093"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}