{"id":19128,"date":"2020-05-23T12:23:49","date_gmt":"2020-05-23T12:23:49","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/herway.net\/?p=19128"},"modified":"2021-08-12T10:49:22","modified_gmt":"2021-08-12T10:49:22","slug":"5-domande-da-porsi-prima-di-dirgli-che-ti-manca","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/5-domande-da-porsi-prima-di-dirgli-che-ti-manca\/","title":{"rendered":"5 domande da porsi prima di dirgli che ti manca"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>Quando vi manca il vostro ex ragazzo, l'unica cosa che vi preoccupa \u00e8 se <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/love\/11-signs-your-ex-misses-you\/\">gli manchi<\/a> indietro.<\/p>\n<p>Ma anche se questo \u00e8 importante da sapere, ci sono altre cose cruciali che dovete risolvere con voi stesse prima di confessargli i vostri sentimenti.<\/p>\n<p>Ecco 5 domande da porsi prima di dire al vostro ex che vi manca.<\/p>\n<h2 class=\"numbered-headline\">\u00c8 amore o ego?<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-94116\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/05\/thoughtful-woman-lying-on-bed-and-typing-on-her-phone.jpg\" alt=\"donna pensierosa sdraiata sul letto che scrive sul suo cellulare\" width=\"800\" height=\"533\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/05\/thoughtful-woman-lying-on-bed-and-typing-on-her-phone.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/05\/thoughtful-woman-lying-on-bed-and-typing-on-her-phone-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/05\/thoughtful-woman-lying-on-bed-and-typing-on-her-phone-768x512.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Quando perdiamo qualcuno che pensavamo ci appartenesse, tendiamo a provare una gamma diversa di emozioni.<\/p>\n<p>Naturalmente, il primo \u00e8 di solito lo shock, seguito da un'enorme quantit\u00e0 di dolore emotivo.<\/p>\n<p>But something not many of us are aware of is that this pain sometimes doesn\u2019t have a lot to do with love.<\/p>\n<p>Sometimes, we miss a person because we got used to having them in our life or we suffer for all the future plans we won\u2019t be able to accomplish with that someone, now that they are gone.<\/p>\n<p>But there are also times in which our heart is not the thing which is actually hurt, even though we don\u2019t know it.<\/p>\n<p>There are times when there is simply too much vanity in us which prevents us from accepting that we\u2019ve lost someone we thought would always be ours.<\/p>\n<p>We take this person\u2019s departure as a personal defeat and our ego makes us think we would do anything just to have this person back.<\/p>\n<p>So one of the first questions you need to ask yourself before you decide to tell your ex you miss him is, \u201cIs this love or just my ego talking?\u201d Are you just jealous of him for moving on with his life before you did or is it that you really can\u2019t imagine spending the rest of your life without this person by your side?<\/p>\n<h2 class=\"numbered-headline\">Mi manca davvero tutto di lui?<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-94117\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/05\/sad-brunette-with-curly-hair-at-home.jpg\" alt=\"bruna triste con capelli ricci in casa\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/05\/sad-brunette-with-curly-hair-at-home.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/05\/sad-brunette-with-curly-hair-at-home-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/05\/sad-brunette-with-curly-hair-at-home-768x513.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>After the break-up happens and some time passes by, one of your brain\u2019s defense mechanisms is there to make you forget most of the bad memories you shared with this person.<\/p>\n<p>In questo modo, dopo un po' di tempo, si finisce per ricordare solo le cose belle della relazione passata ed \u00e8 naturale che si provi nostalgia quando si ricordano questi momenti.<\/p>\n<p>Ma se si pensa a <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/love\/the-truth-is-that-i-want-us-to-get-back-together-im-just-scared\/\">tornare insieme<\/a> with your ex, you need to be aware that your relationship wasn\u2019t all that great because otherwise the two of you wouldn\u2019t have broken things off.<\/p>\n<p>Therefore, you need to ask yourself whether you miss this person completely and entirely or you just miss the parts of him you liked\u2014because he is still the whole package, despite your wishes.<\/p>\n<h2 class=\"numbered-headline\"> Vale la pena lottare per questa relazione?<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-94118\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/05\/sad-woman-looking-down-at-home.jpg\" alt=\"donna triste che guarda verso casa\" width=\"800\" height=\"537\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/05\/sad-woman-looking-down-at-home.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/05\/sad-woman-looking-down-at-home-300x201.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/05\/sad-woman-looking-down-at-home-768x516.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Un'altra domanda che dovete porvi prima di dire al vostro ex che vi manca \u00e8 se vale la pena lottare per questa relazione.<\/p>\n<p>\u00c8 una relazione in cui desiderate trascorrere anni e forse anche il resto della vostra vita?<\/p>\n<p>Oppure si tratta di qualcosa di cui ci si pu\u00f2 dimenticare tra qualche mese?<\/p>\n<p>Questa relazione e questo uomo sono degni della vostra energia, del vostro tempo e della vostra pazienza e, soprattutto, sono degni di voi?<\/p>\n<p>Queste sono tutte le domande a cui dovete rispondere in modo realistico e dovete essere certi delle vostre risposte prima di agire in base ai vostri potenziali sentimenti.<\/p>\n<h2 class=\"numbered-headline\">Sono pronto a rivivere tutto ancora una volta?<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-94119\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/05\/sad-woman-holding-cup-and-thinking-at-home.jpg\" alt=\"donna triste che tiene in mano una tazza e pensa a casa\" width=\"800\" height=\"541\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/05\/sad-woman-holding-cup-and-thinking-at-home.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/05\/sad-woman-holding-cup-and-thinking-at-home-300x203.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/05\/sad-woman-holding-cup-and-thinking-at-home-768x519.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Se dite al vostro ragazzo che vi manca e lui vi risponde, \u00e8 probabile che torniate insieme.<\/p>\n<p>But it doesn\u2019t mean all of your problems will magically go away and this is one of the most important<a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/relationship\/7-important-lessons-last-break-taught\/\"> Le lezioni che la vostra rottura vi insegner\u00e0<\/a>se tornate dal vostro ex.<\/p>\n<p>Dovete essere consapevoli del fatto che lo stesso esito della vostra relazione \u00e8 molto possibile.<\/p>\n<p>The two of you are still the same people you were before and the fact that you might miss one another doesn\u2019t change that fact.<\/p>\n<p>Quindi la domanda che devi porti prima di intervenire sui tuoi sentimenti \u00e8 se sei pronta ad affrontare un'altra rottura e tutto ci\u00f2 che ne consegue, perch\u00e9 \u00e8 un rischio possibile che tu torni con lui.<\/p>\n<h2 class=\"numbered-headline\">Possiamo perdonarci a vicenda?<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-94120\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/05\/Sad-young-woman-looking-in-distance.jpg\" alt=\"Giovane donna triste che guarda in lontananza\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/05\/Sad-young-woman-looking-in-distance.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/05\/Sad-young-woman-looking-in-distance-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/05\/Sad-young-woman-looking-in-distance-768x513.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Il fatto \u00e8 che qualcosa ha dovuto portare alla vostra rottura perch\u00e9 questa avvenisse.<\/p>\n<p>Ma una cosa \u00e8 se avete avuto qualche piccolo disaccordo e una cosa completamente diversa se vi siete feriti a vicenda.<\/p>\n<p>If this is the case, what you need to ask yourself is if you and your ex are ready to forgive one another for all the pain you\u2019ve caused.<\/p>\n<p>Perch\u00e9 non ha senso tornare insieme se poi tornerete a fare le stesse cose che vi siete fatti a vicenda.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter wp-image-94121 size-large\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/05\/5-Questions-To-Ask-Yourself-Before-You-Tell-Him-You-Miss-Him-Pinterest-724x1024.jpg\" alt=\"5 domande da porsi prima di dirgli che ti manca\" width=\"724\" height=\"1024\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/05\/5-Questions-To-Ask-Yourself-Before-You-Tell-Him-You-Miss-Him-Pinterest-724x1024.jpg 724w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/05\/5-Questions-To-Ask-Yourself-Before-You-Tell-Him-You-Miss-Him-Pinterest-212x300.jpg 212w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/05\/5-Questions-To-Ask-Yourself-Before-You-Tell-Him-You-Miss-Him-Pinterest-768x1086.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/05\/5-Questions-To-Ask-Yourself-Before-You-Tell-Him-You-Miss-Him-Pinterest-1086x1536.jpg 1086w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/05\/5-Questions-To-Ask-Yourself-Before-You-Tell-Him-You-Miss-Him-Pinterest-1448x2048.jpg 1448w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/05\/5-Questions-To-Ask-Yourself-Before-You-Tell-Him-You-Miss-Him-Pinterest.jpg 1587w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 724px) 100vw, 724px\" \/><\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>When you miss your ex-boyfriend, the only thing that bothers you is if he misses you back. But although that is important to know, there are some more crucial things you need to resolve with yourself before confessing your feelings to him. 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