{"id":19163,"date":"2021-02-05T10:52:08","date_gmt":"2021-02-05T10:52:08","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/herway.net\/?p=19163"},"modified":"2022-02-28T02:10:59","modified_gmt":"2022-02-28T02:10:59","slug":"7-cose-che-potete-fare-quando-inizia-a-darvi-per-scontati","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/7-cose-che-potete-fare-quando-inizia-a-darvi-per-scontati\/","title":{"rendered":"Lui mi d\u00e0 per scontata: 9 ragioni per cui (e cosa fare)"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><i>Mi d\u00e0 per scontato.<\/i> Senza dubbio, questa \u00e8 una delle frasi pi\u00f9 popolari che circolano da un po' di tempo a questa parte.<\/p>\n<p>Is he seriously taking you for granted? That\u2019s a serious accusation to make, and you shouldn\u2019t make it without the solid proof he is really doing that.<\/p>\n<p>Purtroppo, nelle relazioni moderne \u00e8 molto pi\u00f9 frequente mettere qualcuno nel Piano B. Che lo si voglia ammettere o meno, <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/life\/la-sindrome-dellerba-piu-verde\/\">la sindrome dell'erba pi\u00f9 verde<\/a> \u00e8 diventato il pi\u00f9 grande distruttore di relazioni.<\/p>\n<p>Questo \u00e8 uno dei motivi per cui dare per scontata una persona si insinua in una relazione un tempo felice.<\/p>\n<p>Per essere davvero ottimisti riguardo ai vostri sospetti, dovete innanzitutto essere obiettivi e cercare di non coinvolgere troppe emozioni nella valutazione se lui \u00e8 <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/relationship\/priorita-non-opzione\/\">trattandovi come un'opzione invece che come una priorit\u00e0<\/a>.<\/p>\n<p>Besides looking for signs he&#8217;s taking you for granted, you need to understand what exactly means when someone takes you for granted, why they are doing that, and what you can do about it. We&#8217;ll cover all that (and more) below.<\/p>\n<h2>Significato di He Takes Me For Granted<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-129135\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/02\/unhappy-couple-at-home.jpg\" alt=\"coppia infelice in casa\" width=\"1600\" height=\"1068\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/02\/unhappy-couple-at-home.jpg 1600w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/02\/unhappy-couple-at-home-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/02\/unhappy-couple-at-home-1024x684.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/02\/unhappy-couple-at-home-768x513.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/02\/unhappy-couple-at-home-1536x1025.jpg 1536w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/02\/unhappy-couple-at-home-320x214.jpg 320w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/02\/unhappy-couple-at-home-640x427.jpg 640w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/02\/unhappy-couple-at-home-360x240.jpg 360w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/02\/unhappy-couple-at-home-720x481.jpg 720w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/02\/unhappy-couple-at-home-1080x721.jpg 1080w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/02\/unhappy-couple-at-home-800x534.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/02\/unhappy-couple-at-home-1280x854.jpg 1280w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/02\/unhappy-couple-at-home-150x100.jpg 150w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1600px) 100vw, 1600px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>If he takes you for granted, it basically means that he doesn&#8217;t appreciate you enough. It implies a lack of gratitude where he&#8217;s taking advantage of you or undervalues you.<\/p>\n<p>You know he&#8217;s not appreciating you enough if he doesn&#8217;t reciprocate, doesn&#8217;t acknowledge the things you do for him, and <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/relationship\/10-segni-che-lui-non-si-sta-impegnando-abbastanza-nella-vostra-relazione\/\">isn&#8217;t putting enough effort<\/a> di essere l\u00ec per voi quando ne avete bisogno.<\/p>\n<p>You know he&#8217;s taking you for granted when you feel like you&#8217;re the only one going out of your way to make things work in a relationship.<\/p>\n<p>Tutte le piccole e grandi cose che fate per lui spesso passano inosservate e vi sembra che la vostra presenza sia nell'ombra del suo egoismo.<\/p>\n<h2>Perch\u00e9 i ragazzi ti danno per scontata?<\/h2>\n<p>Uno dei motivi principali per cui i ragazzi vi danno per scontate \u00e8 quando iniziano a pretendere che vi comportiate in un certo modo. Si abituano a ricevere un trattamento regale senza dare nulla in cambio.<\/p>\n<p>Ecco i motivi pi\u00f9 comuni per cui i ragazzi vi danno per scontate:<\/p>\n<h3 class=\"numbered-headline reset\">You have troubles saying &#8216;no&#8217;<\/h3>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter wp-image-79074 size-full\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/12\/shallow-focus-of-thoughtful-woman-sitting-next-to-man-at-home.jpg\" alt=\"messa a fuoco superficiale di una donna pensierosa seduta accanto a un uomo in casa\" width=\"800\" height=\"533\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/12\/shallow-focus-of-thoughtful-woman-sitting-next-to-man-at-home.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/12\/shallow-focus-of-thoughtful-woman-sitting-next-to-man-at-home-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/12\/shallow-focus-of-thoughtful-woman-sitting-next-to-man-at-home-768x512.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/>Vi sentite come se voleste assumervi pi\u00f9 compiti e <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/psychology\/assumersi-la-responsabilita-delle-proprie-azioni\/\">responsabilit\u00e0<\/a> than say &#8216;no&#8217; to your partner or other people? Then you officially have trouble saying &#8216;no&#8217; and you&#8217;re officially going out of your way to please others at your own expense.<\/p>\n<h3 class=\"numbered-headline\">You&#8217;re a people pleaser<\/h3>\n<p>You just can&#8217;t be rude to others no matter how rude they are to you because <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/life\/8-segni-che-sei-una-persona-che-piace-alle-persone\/\">you&#8217;re a legit people pleaser<\/a>.<\/p>\n<p>You&#8217;re too sweet and nice which guys immediately recognize and then, through time, decide to &#8216;turn your sweetness against you&#8217; aka take you for granted.<\/p>\n<h3 class=\"numbered-headline\">Gli altri possono prevedere il vostro comportamento<\/h3>\n<p>Predictable behavior can be easily manipulated by others. If you&#8217;re predictable, it means others can know your next few moves in advance.<\/p>\n<p>In questo modo \u00e8 facile per loro manipolarvi e farvi fare ci\u00f2 che vogliono. Questi tipi di manipolazioni sono sottili, quindi potreste non accorgervene.<\/p>\n<h3 class=\"numbered-headline\">Avete problemi a confrontarvi con le persone<\/h3>\n<p>You have trouble confronting issues with others (be it your partner or someone else). If you don&#8217;t tell them how their actions make you feel, you end up unhappy and they keep <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/love\/luomo-delle-lettere-ha-dato-per-scontato-2\/\">dandovi per scontati<\/a>.<\/p>\n<p>They do that because they&#8217;re convinced that everything is fine and you&#8217;re okay with their behavior. Well, are you?<\/p>\n<h3 class=\"numbered-headline\">You&#8217;re not being honest with yourself<\/h3>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter wp-image-79073 size-full\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/12\/shallow-focus-of-thoughtful-man-sitting-next-to-woman-at-home.jpg\" alt=\"messa a fuoco superficiale di un uomo pensieroso seduto accanto a una donna in casa\" width=\"800\" height=\"533\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/12\/shallow-focus-of-thoughtful-man-sitting-next-to-woman-at-home.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/12\/shallow-focus-of-thoughtful-man-sitting-next-to-woman-at-home-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/12\/shallow-focus-of-thoughtful-man-sitting-next-to-woman-at-home-768x512.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/>Invece di ammettere a se stessi la famosa frase, <i>Mi d\u00e0 per scontato, <\/i>si giustificano i suoi comportamenti.<\/p>\n<p>Invece di chiedersi <i>Aspetta, perch\u00e9 mi sta dando per scontato nel <\/i><i>primo posto<\/i><i>? <\/i>you turn a blind eye thinking that you&#8217;re overreacting and it&#8217;s all in your head.<\/p>\n<p>Giustificare il suo comportamento di merda \u00e8 diventato la nuova normalit\u00e0.<\/p>\n<h3 class=\"numbered-headline\">Cercate costantemente l'approvazione degli altri<\/h3>\n<p>Permettete agli altri di emozionare <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/life\/controllo-del-comportamento\/\">controllarvi e manipolarvi<\/a> because you&#8217;re determined to get their approval at any cost. You ask for their approval on almost everything you do and that&#8217;s how you lose yourself.<\/p>\n<p>Quando iniziano a darti per scontato, spesso non te ne accorgi perch\u00e9 hai gi\u00e0 perso il senso del giudizio.<\/p>\n<h3 class=\"numbered-headline\">Avete basse aspettative<\/h3>\n<p>Vi siete abituati a essere delusi dagli altri cos\u00ec tanto che le vostre aspettative nei loro confronti sono diventate molto basse.<\/p>\n<p>You give too much from yourself and receive little or nothing at all but you don&#8217;t <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/relationship\/larte-malvagia-dello-scaricabarile\/\">incolpare gli altri<\/a> per questo. Perch\u00e9?<\/p>\n<p>Because you have low expectations and you don&#8217;t expect others to treat you the way you treat them.<\/p>\n<h3 class=\"numbered-headline\">You&#8217;re scared<\/h3>\n<p>You&#8217;re scared of people who act bossy, confrontational or are too loud. Because of that, you refuse to confront them.<\/p>\n<p>You&#8217;d rather do as they say and accept what they say than ever go against them. They know that, too, and that&#8217;s why they decide to take you for granted.<\/p>\n<h3 class=\"numbered-headline\">Dai pi\u00f9 di quanto ricevi in cambio<\/h3>\n<p>Somehow, you&#8217;re always the one who gives too much without even realizing that you&#8217;re doing that.<\/p>\n<p>You never question the matter of reciprocity in a relationship because you&#8217;re used to being the one who gives more than they get back.<\/p>\n<p>Anche se si decide di <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/her-and-him\/perche-i-ragazzi-si-allontanano-prima-di-impegnarsi\/\">allontanarsi<\/a>, they&#8217;d be upset, accusing you of being the one who changed for the worse.<\/p>\n<h2>He Takes Me For Granted: 7 Clear Signs He&#8217;s Taking You For Granted<\/h2>\n<p>Quando mi sono chiesto per la prima volta <i>Mi sta dando per scontata?<\/i> Ero pronta a trascorrere un anno alla ricerca di segni che lo indicassero. Con mio grande stupore, questi segni sono stati davanti a me per tutto questo tempo, ma ho deciso di trascurarli.<\/p>\n<p>As always, it&#8217;s best to learn from other people&#8217;s mistakes, so here are the signs that will open your eyes by showing his true nature:<\/p>\n<h3 class=\"numbered-headline reset\">Ha smesso di trattarvi con rispetto<\/h3>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter wp-image-79078 size-full\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/12\/thoughtful-couple-sitting-next-to-each-other-at-home.jpg\" alt=\"coppia pensierosa seduta vicino a casa\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/12\/thoughtful-couple-sitting-next-to-each-other-at-home.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/12\/thoughtful-couple-sitting-next-to-each-other-at-home-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/12\/thoughtful-couple-sitting-next-to-each-other-at-home-768x513.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Il rispetto \u00e8 una cosa, oltre all'amore, che non dovrebbe mai esaurirsi in una relazione.<\/p>\n<p>Your partner has to acknowledge you even for the small things you\u2019ve done. It\u2019s important that you know he appreciates you and your effort.<\/p>\n<p>Once he stops doing all that, consider it as not a good sign. It\u2019s the beginning of \u2018\u2019<a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/life\/ho-smesso-di-essere-troppo-gentile-perche-ero-stanco-di-essere-dato-per-scontato\/\">dandovi per scontati<\/a>\u2019\u2019 journey you don\u2019t want to be on.<\/p>\n<p>If he\u2019s making plans without you knowing, then you have a big red warning sign that something is seriously wrong.<\/p>\n<p>Fare progetti da solo invece di coinvolgervi significa che non gli interessa nemmeno se potete partecipare o meno a quei progetti.<\/p>\n<p>What you want in this case is not an option. Ask any relationship expert if this behavior is worthy of putting up with, they will all give you the same answer\u2014you&#8217;re being taken for granted and something needs to be changed.<\/p>\n<h3 class=\"numbered-headline\">He doesn\u2019t care what you think<\/h3>\n<p>Sperimentare questa sensazione pu\u00f2 compromettere seriamente la propria autostima. Le sue reazioni indifferenti <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/relationship\/quello-sbagliato-vi-fara-sentire-inutili\/\">vi fanno sentire insignificanti<\/a> e senza importanza.<\/p>\n<p>Nessuno dovrebbe mai sentirsi cos\u00ec, soprattutto in una relazione in cui il partner dovrebbe farvi sentire speciali e amati.<\/p>\n<p>He\u2019s not making you feel anything except shame and a sense of less worth. If your significant other is faced with difficult choices in life, it\u2019s normal and natural for them to turn to you for advice.<\/p>\n<p>Il vostro ragazzo ha smesso di rendervi partecipi dei momenti e delle decisioni importanti della vita.<\/p>\n<p>It\u2019s because you don\u2019t matter to him as much as you used to. <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/love\/tipi-di-intimita\/\">Relazioni sane<\/a> implica l'amore incondizionato e, soprattutto, la fiducia. Avete perso la fiducia e forse anche l'amore.<\/p>\n<h3 class=\"numbered-headline\">Ha smesso di provarci con te<\/h3>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter wp-image-79072 size-full\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/12\/man-doesnt-want-to-talk-with-her-girlfriend-at-home.jpg\" alt=\"l&#039;uomo non vuole parlare con la sua ragazza a casa\" width=\"800\" height=\"533\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/12\/man-doesnt-want-to-talk-with-her-girlfriend-at-home.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/12\/man-doesnt-want-to-talk-with-her-girlfriend-at-home-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/12\/man-doesnt-want-to-talk-with-her-girlfriend-at-home-768x512.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/>He\u2019s not taking you to nice dates anymore. He\u2019s not even trying to do anything romantic anymore. I don&#8217;t want to scare you but these are huge red flags in a romantic relationship.<\/p>\n<p><a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/relationship\/leggete-questo-articolo-se-la-vostra-relazione-a-lungo-termine-e-in-crisi\/\">La vostra relazione \u00e8 rimasta bloccata in una situazione di stallo<\/a>, and he doesn\u2019t seem to be bothered by it.<\/p>\n<p>He\u2019s even stopped trying to look good for you. I\u2019m not saying he should groom himself all the time to look like a model when he\u2019s with you, don\u2019t get me wrong.<\/p>\n<p>He should be relaxed around you, but isn\u2019t there a line between being relaxed and not giving a damn?<\/p>\n<p>I mean if boxers are the only thing he ever wears around you and you\u2019re home all the time\u2026is that really nice of him to do?<\/p>\n<p>Or is it the result of a lack of trying? I\u2019ll let you be the judge of that.<\/p>\n<p>Riflettete bene: la vostra relazione di lunga durata \u00e8 entrata in crisi e avete bisogno di cambiare qualcosa al pi\u00f9 presto oppure \u00e8 che <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/love\/10-segni-che-non-le-piaci-piu\/\">he\u2019s just not into you anymore<\/a>, so he\u2019s taking you for granted?<\/p>\n<h3 class=\"numbered-headline\">He doesn\u2019t listen when you talk<\/h3>\n<p>When you talk, he does his own thing. He is not paying attention to anything you say, and the reason is more than simple. He doesn\u2019t care about you, things that you say, or things that you think about.<\/p>\n<p>La vostra comunicazione sta andando a rotoli, il che \u00e8 un altro <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/love\/15-red-flags-screaming-leave-relationship\/\">bandiera rossa in una relazione<\/a>.<\/p>\n<p>Come esseri umani, abbiamo l'esigenza di entrare in contatto con gli altri a tanti livelli. Quindi, quando la comunicazione cessa di esistere, sapete che la vostra relazione sta affrontando dei problemi seri.<\/p>\n<h3 class=\"numbered-headline\">I suoi amici sono pi\u00f9 importanti di voi<\/h3>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter wp-image-79071 size-full\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/12\/group-of-male-friends-taking-a-selfie.jpg\" alt=\"gruppo di amici maschi che si scattano un selfie\" width=\"800\" height=\"533\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/12\/group-of-male-friends-taking-a-selfie.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/12\/group-of-male-friends-taking-a-selfie-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/12\/group-of-male-friends-taking-a-selfie-768x512.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/>I\u2019m not saying he should be by your side and hang out with you all the time but if there ever comes a point in your relationship where he chooses to spend time with his friends rather than you, he\u2019s most definitely taking you for granted.<\/p>\n<p>Don\u2019t blow this out of proportion. If he rejects you once to go with his friends, it doesn\u2019t have to mean <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/lettera-ragazzo-ha-smesso-di-preoccuparsi-ragazza-amava\/\">ha smesso di preoccuparsi<\/a> su di te. Dovete lasciargli la sua vita sociale al di fuori della vostra relazione.<\/p>\n<p>Ma se ci\u00f2 inizia a verificarsi regolarmente, \u00e8 il caso di iniziare a preoccuparsi. La prima cosa che viene in mente \u00e8 che <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/relationship\/7-signs-hes-losing-interest-deal\/\">sta lentamente perdendo interesse per voi<\/a>.<\/p>\n<h3 class=\"numbered-headline\">Evita l'intimit\u00e0<\/h3>\n<p>Quando \u00e8 stata l'ultima volta che siete stati in intimit\u00e0? Ve lo ricordate? La mancanza di <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/relationship\/cinque-fatti-importanti-da-sapere-sullintimita-fisica-nel-matrimonio\/\">intimit\u00e0 fisica<\/a> \u00e8 sicuramente uno dei segnali allarmanti che indicano che la vostra relazione \u00e8 in difficolt\u00e0.<\/p>\n<p>Passion is one of the things that should always be present in a relationship, no matter what. If you don\u2019t attract each other physically, that relationship is doomed to fail sooner or later.<\/p>\n<p>Lo stesso vale per l'intimit\u00e0 emotiva. Dovete essere in grado e liberi di parlare dei vostri sentimenti con il vostro partner.<\/p>\n<p>Being vulnerable is not something you should be ashamed of, especially when you\u2019re with your loved one. He has to give you emotional support and ensure you feel safe and protected when he\u2019s around.<\/p>\n<h3 class=\"numbered-headline\">He hasn\u2019t introduced you to his family<\/h3>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-49312\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/05\/7-Signs-Hes-Taking-You-For-Granted-And-7-Things-You-Can-Do-About-It1.jpg\" alt=\"7 segni che ti sta dando per scontata (e 7 cose che puoi fare al riguardo)\" width=\"800\" height=\"533\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/05\/7-Signs-Hes-Taking-You-For-Granted-And-7-Things-You-Can-Do-About-It1.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/05\/7-Signs-Hes-Taking-You-For-Granted-And-7-Things-You-Can-Do-About-It1-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/05\/7-Signs-Hes-Taking-You-For-Granted-And-7-Things-You-Can-Do-About-It1-768x512.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/>My family is everything to me, as I\u2019m sure yours to you, too. He is no exception either.<\/p>\n<p>Wouldn\u2019t it be completely normal for him to introduce you to his loved ones if he was <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/relationship\/si-sta-prendendo-gioco-di-me\/\">serio su di te<\/a>? I would do it, and you would do the same. Why hasn\u2019t he done it yet?<\/p>\n<p>The answer is not so pleasing. It could be that he&#8217;s not interested in anything serious with you or he&#8217;s simply taking you for granted.<\/p>\n<p>Questi problemi sono piuttosto seri e non c'\u00e8 una soluzione semplice che venga in mente.<\/p>\n<p>Although you can always try to talk to your boyfriend using complete honesty to try to solve what\u2019s holding him down in your relationship.<\/p>\n<h2>Cosa fare quando un uomo ti d\u00e0 per scontata?<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter wp-image-79077 size-full\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/12\/thoughtful-woman-puts-head-on-man-back-while-standing-outside.jpg\" alt=\"Una donna pensierosa appoggia la testa sulla schiena di un uomo mentre si trova all&#039;aperto\" width=\"800\" height=\"533\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/12\/thoughtful-woman-puts-head-on-man-back-while-standing-outside.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/12\/thoughtful-woman-puts-head-on-man-back-while-standing-outside-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/12\/thoughtful-woman-puts-head-on-man-back-while-standing-outside-768x512.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/>When a man takes you for granted, it&#8217;s best to give him the taste of his own medicine if you want to teach him a valuable lesson.<\/p>\n<p>Ci sono sempre delle opzioni che potete considerare. Quando lui vi d\u00e0 per scontate, potete ignorarlo e concentrarvi su <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/life\/la-vita-migliore-e-godersi-le-piccole-cose\/\">vivere al meglio la propria vita<\/a>.<\/p>\n<p>You can cut off contact for good. At least, you\u2019re getting the satisfaction of winning and walking away from him, instead of him from you.<\/p>\n<p>But, there are other options, too, which might intrigue him and get him hooked back\u2026<\/p>\n<h3 class=\"numbered-headline reset\">Divertirsi da soli<\/h3>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-129138\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/02\/happy-woman-smiling-on-the-street.jpg\" alt=\"donna felice che sorride per strada\" width=\"1600\" height=\"1068\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/02\/happy-woman-smiling-on-the-street.jpg 1600w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/02\/happy-woman-smiling-on-the-street-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/02\/happy-woman-smiling-on-the-street-1024x684.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/02\/happy-woman-smiling-on-the-street-768x513.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/02\/happy-woman-smiling-on-the-street-1536x1025.jpg 1536w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/02\/happy-woman-smiling-on-the-street-320x214.jpg 320w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/02\/happy-woman-smiling-on-the-street-640x427.jpg 640w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/02\/happy-woman-smiling-on-the-street-360x240.jpg 360w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/02\/happy-woman-smiling-on-the-street-720x481.jpg 720w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/02\/happy-woman-smiling-on-the-street-1080x721.jpg 1080w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/02\/happy-woman-smiling-on-the-street-800x534.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/02\/happy-woman-smiling-on-the-street-1280x854.jpg 1280w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/02\/happy-woman-smiling-on-the-street-150x100.jpg 150w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1600px) 100vw, 1600px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Mi d\u00e0 per scontata. E allora? Puoi ancora divertirti da sola e concentrarti sulla tua vita, giusto?<\/p>\n<p>Don\u2019t even bother to ask him what he\u2019s doing that night if you know that he\u2019s going to have some lame excuse for not going out with you.<\/p>\n<p>Instead, go out on a date with yourself or find new hobbies. Do something that you will enjoy doing even when you know that he wouldn\u2019t enjoy it with you.<\/p>\n<p>There are so many things you stopped doing since you two started your relationship, so it&#8217;s time to do those things right now.<\/p>\n<p>Oh, and don\u2019t forget to take a picture and post it somewhere he will see it. Let him ask himself why you didn\u2019t even invite him.<\/p>\n<h3 class=\"numbered-headline\">Don\u2019t answer his messages right away<\/h3>\n<p>Women have this urge to answer messages right away. I mean it\u2019s polite, and that\u2019s how it\u2019s supposed to be done if you have your phone by your hand.<\/p>\n<p>But now that he\u2019s taking you for granted and he doesn\u2019t know how hard it is for you when you have to wait a whole day before he answers, ignore the urge to <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/love\/8-motivi-legittimi-per-non-rispondergli-mai-piu-con-un-sms\/\">rispondetegli con un messaggio<\/a>. <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/12-motivi-per-cui-non-ti-scrive-mai-per-primo-ma-risponde-sempre-quando-gli-mandi-un-messaggio\/\">Don&#8217;t text him and he will text you.<\/a><\/p>\n<p><i>Riappropriatevi del vostro <\/i><i>rispetto di s\u00e9<\/i><i>. Make him feel your pain. Don\u2019t answer him.<\/i><\/p>\n<p>You could even leave him on \u2018read\u2019.<\/p>\n<h3 class=\"numbered-headline\">Vestirsi per fare colpo<\/h3>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter wp-image-79064 size-full\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/12\/man-looking-at-glass-of-beer.jpg\" alt=\"uomo che guarda un bicchiere di birra\" width=\"800\" height=\"532\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/12\/man-looking-at-glass-of-beer.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/12\/man-looking-at-glass-of-beer-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/12\/man-looking-at-glass-of-beer-768x511.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/>Non importa quanto spesso vi vestiate bene, raddoppiate! Vestitevi cos\u00ec bene che lui sbava ogni volta che passate.<\/p>\n<p>Let him see what he\u2019s losing. A little red lipstick and mascara will make you feel good about yourself, too.<\/p>\n<p>Needless to say that men are visual creatures, so if he sees you that hot, he\u2019ll instantly come after you. But don\u2019t let him touch you.<\/p>\n<p>Il contatto fisico \u00e8 off-limits fino a quando lui non inizia a <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/relationship\/7-segni-a-prova-di-proiettile-non-apprezza-piu\/\">apprezzando la vostra presenza<\/a> nella sua vita.<\/p>\n<p>I know that this sounds like manipulation but if he doesn\u2019t see what he\u2019s losing, he won\u2019t realize what\u2019s going on and he won\u2019t be able to \u2018read the signals\u2019 you\u2019re trying to send him.<\/p>\n<h3 class=\"numbered-headline\">Uscire con gli amici<\/h3>\n<p>Il vostro ragazzo vi d\u00e0 per scontate? Nessun problema.<\/p>\n<p>Andare alle feste, <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/questions-and-games\/bff-talk\/lista-di-amici-13-sfide-da-fare-con-il-vostro-migliore-amico\/\">divertirsi con i migliori amici<\/a>colleghi di lavoro, eccetera. Fategli vedere che siete in grado di avere una vita meravigliosa senza di lui.<\/p>\n<p>Plan an all-girls weekend for your birthday, and don\u2019t allow him to join the party.<\/p>\n<p>Let him know that he\u2019s not invited. He doesn\u2019t deserve to be there in the first place, right?<\/p>\n<h3 class=\"numbered-headline\">Annullare i piani con lui<\/h3>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter wp-image-79061 size-full\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/12\/beautiful-woman-listening-to-music-at-home.jpg\" alt=\"bella donna che ascolta la musica a casa\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/12\/beautiful-woman-listening-to-music-at-home.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/12\/beautiful-woman-listening-to-music-at-home-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/12\/beautiful-woman-listening-to-music-at-home-768x513.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/>Believe me, I know it\u2019s hard. You want to spend more time with him because you love him, but this is the best way for you to let him know that something isn\u2019t right.<\/p>\n<p>\u00c8 necessario <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/relationship\/10-modi-per-far-capire-alluomo-che-sta-perdendo\/\">make him realize he&#8217;s losing you<\/a>!<\/p>\n<p>If he calls you to go out, politely tell him that you don\u2019t want to. If you have already made plans with him, then cancel the date night and tell him that you have something important to do for work. Either way, it will pay off.<\/p>\n<h3 class=\"numbered-headline\">Don\u2019t talk to him about your life<\/h3>\n<p><i>Mi d\u00e0 per scontata. Forse devo moltiplicare i miei sforzi ed essere pi\u00f9 aperta con lui.<\/i><\/p>\n<p>That&#8217;s exactly what I was thinking a few years ago. Don&#8217;t make the same mistake. Withhold information about your life right now.<\/p>\n<p>At one point when you\u2019re talking to him and he asks you about why you haven\u2019t told him that before, choose a passive-aggressive answer like, \u201cI saw that you were too busy to actually care.\u201d These sentences hit the spot even though they may sound a bit rough.<\/p>\n<p>Dopo tutto questo tempo <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/love\/ha-dato-per-scontato-che-si-preoccupasse-molto-2\/\">dandovi per scontati<\/a>dimostrargli che non siete d'accordo con il suo comportamento.<\/p>\n<h3 class=\"numbered-headline\">Parlategli di come vi sentite<\/h3>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter wp-image-79063 size-full\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/12\/woman-holding-phone-outside.jpg\" alt=\"donna con telefono in mano all&#039;esterno\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/12\/woman-holding-phone-outside.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/12\/woman-holding-phone-outside-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/12\/woman-holding-phone-outside-768x513.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/>Dopo aver deciso che i giochi sono sufficienti, provate la vecchia ma preziosa tecnica del dialogo.<\/p>\n<p>Forse ci avete gi\u00e0 provato prima di tutto questo, ma ora \u00e8 il momento giusto per parlarne.<\/p>\n<p>Tell him how you have been feeling lately, and tell him that you aren\u2019t happy in your relationship because he doesn\u2019t appreciate you and what you\u2019re doing for him.<\/p>\n<p>I\u2019ve said this already\u2014communication is the key to every <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/relationship\/7-regole-relazionali-da-seguire-se-volete-una-vita-sentimentale-felice\/\">relazione felice<\/a>.<\/p>\n<p>Ditegli che prende solo dalla relazione senza dare nulla in cambio e vedete cosa succede. Ditegli che ogni relazione \u00e8 una strada a doppio senso e che non funziona se uno dei due partner si impegna pi\u00f9 dell'altro.<\/p>\n<p>Pensate se merita una seconda possibilit\u00e0.<\/p>\n<p>If he says that he is going to change his behavior, then you should give him a chance, but be careful with how many chances you\u2019re giving out and is it worth the trouble?<\/p>\n<h2>Come posso impedirgli di darmi per scontata?<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter wp-image-79062 size-full\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/12\/An-attractive-young-woman-prepares-in-a-dressing-room.jpg\" alt=\"Una giovane donna attraente si prepara in un camerino\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/12\/An-attractive-young-woman-prepares-in-a-dressing-room.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/12\/An-attractive-young-woman-prepares-in-a-dressing-room-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/12\/An-attractive-young-woman-prepares-in-a-dressing-room-768x513.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/>You&#8217;ll stop him from taking you for granted when you stop doing those things he takes for granted and <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/life\/stabilire-dei-limiti-come-una-donna-di-alto-valore-2\/\">stabilire dei limiti come la donna di alto valore<\/a> che siete.<\/p>\n<p>Let him know that you won&#8217;t tolerate him not appreciating your effort. Let him know that you&#8217;re fine without him.<\/p>\n<p>This is how you&#8217;ll stop him from taking you for granted ever again:<\/p>\n<h3 class=\"numbered-headline reset\">Stop doing those things he&#8217;s taking for granted<\/h3>\n<p><i>Mi d\u00e0 per scontato. <\/i>Well, then stop doing those things he&#8217;s taking for granted.<\/p>\n<p>Questo \u00e8 qualcosa che ogni coach di relazioni vi direbbe: Smettete di fare di tutto per fare cose carine per lui. Punto.<\/p>\n<p>The more you&#8217;re going out of your way to please him, the more he&#8217;ll take your effort for granted. You need to break this evil art of <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/lui\/inside-his-mind\/7-segni-che-sta-solo-approfittando-della-tua-gentilezza\/\">lui che si approfitta di lei<\/a> and you&#8217;ll do it by not giving him the things he used to receive from you.<\/p>\n<p>Let him know that it takes two to tango. You will not be the only one trying to make things work. It&#8217;s high time that he chooses between reciprocity or nothing.<\/p>\n<h3 class=\"numbered-headline\">Richiamarlo per il suo comportamento<\/h3>\n<p>Don\u2019t omit anything he does, and most importantly, don\u2019t make excuses for him in the process of evaluating what his deal is.<\/p>\n<p>Guardate tutto, dalle piccole alle grandi cose, perch\u00e9 sono tutte ugualmente importanti.<\/p>\n<p>I\u2019m sure you\u2019ve realized by now that you\u2019ve missed so many sure signs telling you that he is not appreciating you as he used to.<\/p>\n<p>If you did, don\u2019t let that lower your spirits and discourage you.<\/p>\n<p>It&#8217;s not your fault that you missed out on whatever was going on right in front of your nose. You\u2019re not the one to blame that your significant other is not treating you the way you deserve.<\/p>\n<h3 class=\"numbered-headline\">Stabilire i confini<\/h3>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter wp-image-79065 size-full\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/12\/group-of-friends-cheering-with-glasses-of-wine.jpg\" alt=\"gruppo di amici che fanno il tifo con bicchieri di vino\" width=\"800\" height=\"533\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/12\/group-of-friends-cheering-with-glasses-of-wine.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/12\/group-of-friends-cheering-with-glasses-of-wine-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/12\/group-of-friends-cheering-with-glasses-of-wine-768x512.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/>It&#8217;s time to set yourself some boundaries. Choose the things that you&#8217;ll do because you want to do them and accentuate the things you won&#8217;t do because he&#8217;s obviously taking them for granted.<\/p>\n<p>Once he sees that you&#8217;re no longer going out of your way to please him, he&#8217;ll start to question his behavior. (Well, I hope he will.)<\/p>\n<p>Stabilire dei limiti \u00e8 di fondamentale importanza se si vuole <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/fake-love\/emotional-abuse\/7-modi-per-proteggere-gli-abusi-emotivi\/\">proteggersi<\/a> dal suo comportamento manipolatorio.<\/p>\n<p>It will help you realize the things you&#8217;re doing for yourself and the things you&#8217;ve been doing for him that he didn&#8217;t appreciate whatsoever.<\/p>\n<h3 class=\"numbered-headline\">Concentrarsi su se stessi<\/h3>\n<p>One of the greatest relationship advice of all times: When everything else fails, focus on yourself. When you&#8217;ve done all you could and you see that he still doesn&#8217;t realize the mistake of taking you for granted, just ignore him completely.<\/p>\n<p>Do what makes YOU happy at the moment. Don&#8217;t worry about how he&#8217;ll perceive your decision to no longer settle for his selfish treatment.<\/p>\n<p>A man cannot realize what he had if you don&#8217;t let him know what he lost. In this case, I refer to what he &#8216;temporarily&#8217; lost.<\/p>\n<p>Naturalmente, se vedete che <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/relationship\/se-non-riuscite-a-parlare-con-lui-di-queste-5-cose-la-vostra-relazione-non-ha-futuro\/\">la vostra relazione non ha futuro<\/a> and the problems are beyond fixing, you can easily replace the word &#8216;temporarily&#8217; with &#8216;permanently&#8217;.<\/p>\n<h3 class=\"numbered-headline\">Let him know you&#8217;re TOTALLY fine without him<\/h3>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter wp-image-79066 size-full\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/12\/woman-looks-thoughtful-while-talking-on-phone-at-cafe.jpg\" alt=\"donna guarda pensierosa mentre parla al telefono in un caff\u00e8\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/12\/woman-looks-thoughtful-while-talking-on-phone-at-cafe.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/12\/woman-looks-thoughtful-while-talking-on-phone-at-cafe-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/12\/woman-looks-thoughtful-while-talking-on-phone-at-cafe-768x513.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/>I&#8217;ve heard many women say: <i>He took me for granted so I left him. He didn&#8217;t appreciate my gestures, so I stopped trying.<\/i><\/p>\n<p>Here&#8217;s one for you:<i> He took me for granted, so I showed him that I&#8217;m TOTALLY fine without him.<\/i><\/p>\n<p>Live your best life and don&#8217;t think about him even for a second. Let him know that if you had to leave, you definitely would and that you would be fine without him.<\/p>\n<p>Questo gli ricorder\u00e0 che <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/relationship\/10-segni-che-dimostrano-che-stai-trattando-una-donna-indipendente\/\">you&#8217;re an independent woman<\/a> who knows how to take care of herself. You don&#8217;t need his lame behavior in your life because you know better.<\/p>\n<p>You put up with his behavior so far because you wanted to and not because you had to. Now that you see he still hasn&#8217;t changed his game, you&#8217;ll give him a checkmate.<\/p>\n<p>He&#8217;ll either open his eyes and realize what he&#8217;ll lose or he&#8217;ll keep taking you for granted. The only difference is that this time he knows you won&#8217;t tolerate the latter.<\/p>\n<h2>Don&#8217;t Take Me For Granted Quotes<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter wp-image-79067 size-full\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/12\/couple-talking-at-cafe.jpg\" alt=\"coppia che parla al bar\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/12\/couple-talking-at-cafe.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/12\/couple-talking-at-cafe-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/12\/couple-talking-at-cafe-768x513.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/>Se volete che lui (e gli altri) smettano di darvi per scontati, dovete ricordare loro di smettere di comportarsi cos\u00ec.<\/p>\n<p>One of the surefire ways to do so is by posting or sending them quotes about taking you for granted. These words of wisdom have the power to change everyone&#8217;s perception and he is not an exception.<\/p>\n<p>1. \u201cLearn my VALUE or earn my ABSENCE. Don\u2019t take me for granted.\u201d \u2013 Unknown<\/p>\n<p>2. \u201cWhen I give you my time, I\u2019m giving you a portion of my life that I will never get back. So please don\u2019t make me regret it.\u201d \u2013 Unknown<\/p>\n<p>3. \u201cNever take a woman for granted because one day another guy will come along and appreciate what you didn\u2019t.\u201d \u2013 Unknown<\/p>\n<p>4. \u201cDon\u2019t take me for granted because unlike the rest I\u2019m not afraid to <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/relationship\/10-ottime-ragioni-per-andarsene-2\/\">allontanarsi<\/a>.\u201d \u2013 Unknown<\/p>\n<p>5. \u201cWomen are often overlooked, taken for granted. They can slip easily through a man\u2019s defense.\u201d \u2013 Stan Lee<\/p>\n<p>6. \u201cJust because I\u2019m here for you all the time, doesn\u2019t mean you can take me for granted.\u201d \u2013 Unknown<\/p>\n<p>7. \u201cYou need to stop doing things for someone when you find out it\u2019s expected rather than appreciated.\u201d \u2013 Unknown<\/p>\n<p>8. \u201cIf they don\u2019t appreciate your presence, perhaps you should try giving them <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/relationship\/assenza-che-hai-insegnato-a-vivere-senza\/\">la tua assenza<\/a>.\u201d \u2013 Tinku Razoria<\/p>\n<p>9. \u201cEven the most caring people can get tired of being taken for granted.\u201d \u2013 Nishan Panwar<\/p>\n<p>10. \u201cIf they don\u2019t respect, appreciate and value you, then they don\u2019t deserve you.\u201d \u2013 Robert Tew<\/p>\n<p>11. \u201cIt is sad when you realize you are not as important to someone as they are to you!\u201d \u2013 Nikhil Andy<\/p>\n<p>12. \u201cKindness should never be taken for granted because even the nicest people have their limits.\u201d \u2013 Unknown<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter wp-image-79060 size-full\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/12\/upset-couple-talking-at-cafe.jpg\" alt=\"coppia sconvolta che parla in un caff\u00e8\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/12\/upset-couple-talking-at-cafe.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/12\/upset-couple-talking-at-cafe-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/12\/upset-couple-talking-at-cafe-768x513.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/>13. \u201cNever take someone\u2019s feelings for granted. Because you never know how much courage they took to show it to you.\u201d \u2013 Unknown<\/p>\n<p>14. \u201cDon\u2019t be mad because I don\u2019t care anymore. Be mad because I once did, and you were too blind to see.\u201d \u2013 Unknown<\/p>\n<p>15. \u201cEvery time you take them for granted, you\u2019re teaching them to live without you.\u201d \u2013 Unknown<\/p>\n<p>16. \u201cOnce you take me for granted, <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/life\/manco-al-mio-ex\/\">you\u2019ll miss me<\/a> when I stop doing the things I used to do for you.\u201d \u2013 Unknown<\/p>\n<p>17. \u201cShe used to love his kisses, but not anymore. She had lost him, somewhere along the way, and this man was a stranger-a stranger who took her for granted.\u201d \u2013 Caroline Anderson<\/p>\n<p>18. \u201cWhen you have taken for granted the things that are important, you lose them eventually.\u201d \u2013 Unknown<\/p>\n<p>19. \u201cI do not judge people at all, and I\u2019m ALWAYS here to help anyone at any time. But please don\u2019t take my help for granted.\u201d \u2013 Unknown<\/p>\n<p>20. \u201cDon\u2019t take me for granted. Cause when you lose me, I won\u2019t come back.\u201d \u2013 Unknown<\/p>\n<p>21. \u201cWhen you&#8217;re always there for people they stop appreciating you because your favors are now an expectation.\u201d \u2013 Unknown<\/p>\n<p>22. \u201cYou don&#8217;t need to waste your time on someone who only wants you around when it fits their needs. \u201d \u2013 Rajat Dogra<\/p>\n<p>23. \u201cIf we don&#8217;t feel appreciated, we don&#8217;t feel loved.\u201d \u2013 Jonathan Lockwood Huie<\/p>\n<p>24. \u201cAs I was fighting for you, I realized I was fighting to be lied to; fighting to be taken for granted; fighting to be disappointed; and fighting to be hurt again&#8230;so I started fighting to let go.\u201d \u2013 Unknown<\/p>\n<p>25. \u201cIf you take someone for granted, you don&#8217;t deserve them. Be mature enough to let them move on to someone else who knows their worth.\u201d \u2013 Unknown<\/p>\n<h2>Il verdetto<\/h2>\n<p><i>Mi d\u00e0 per scontata. Smetter\u00e0 mai di farlo?<\/i><\/p>\n<p>Se gli fate capire con le azioni e le parole che non tollererete pi\u00f9 che vi dia per scontate, potete aspettarvi uno dei seguenti risultati:<\/p>\n<p>a) He will continue doing so (because he doesn&#8217;t care).<\/p>\n<p>b) He&#8217;ll open his eyes and realize that he&#8217;s losing you (because he cares).<\/p>\n<p>Una cosa \u00e8 certa: se <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/lui\/inside-his-mind\/32-piccole-cose-che-urlano-che-ti-ama-senza-dirlo-ad-alta-voce\/\">ti ama<\/a>Lui ti cercher\u00e0 e trover\u00e0 un modo per far funzionare la relazione. Tutto il resto \u00e8 solo una scusa.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-129136\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/02\/He-Takes-Me-For-Granted-9-Reasons-Why-And-What-To-Do-About-It-pinterest.jpg\" alt=\"Lui mi d\u00e0 per scontata: 9 ragioni per cui (e cosa fare)\" width=\"1000\" height=\"1500\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/02\/He-Takes-Me-For-Granted-9-Reasons-Why-And-What-To-Do-About-It-pinterest.jpg 1000w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/02\/He-Takes-Me-For-Granted-9-Reasons-Why-And-What-To-Do-About-It-pinterest-200x300.jpg 200w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/02\/He-Takes-Me-For-Granted-9-Reasons-Why-And-What-To-Do-About-It-pinterest-683x1024.jpg 683w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/02\/He-Takes-Me-For-Granted-9-Reasons-Why-And-What-To-Do-About-It-pinterest-768x1152.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/02\/He-Takes-Me-For-Granted-9-Reasons-Why-And-What-To-Do-About-It-pinterest-320x480.jpg 320w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/02\/He-Takes-Me-For-Granted-9-Reasons-Why-And-What-To-Do-About-It-pinterest-640x960.jpg 640w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/02\/He-Takes-Me-For-Granted-9-Reasons-Why-And-What-To-Do-About-It-pinterest-360x540.jpg 360w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/02\/He-Takes-Me-For-Granted-9-Reasons-Why-And-What-To-Do-About-It-pinterest-720x1080.jpg 720w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/02\/He-Takes-Me-For-Granted-9-Reasons-Why-And-What-To-Do-About-It-pinterest-800x1200.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/02\/He-Takes-Me-For-Granted-9-Reasons-Why-And-What-To-Do-About-It-pinterest-150x225.jpg 150w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1000px) 100vw, 1000px\" \/><\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>He takes me for granted. Undoubtedly, this is one of the most popular sentences that have been circulating for a while now. Is he seriously taking you for granted? That\u2019s a serious accusation to make, and you shouldn\u2019t make it without the solid proof he is really doing that. Sadly, putting someone in Plan B&#8230;<\/p>","protected":false},"author":42,"featured_media":79059,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29646],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-19163","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-understanding-men"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29646,"label":"understanding men"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/12\/7-Signs-Hes-Taking-You-For-Granted-And-7-Things-You-Can-Do-About-It.jpg",800,533,false],"author_info":{"display_name":"Selma June","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/author\/selmajune\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29646,"name":"understanding men","slug":"understanding-men","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29646,"taxonomy":"category","description":"Wondering about what's going on inside his head? 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