{"id":19232,"date":"2018-05-29T12:45:48","date_gmt":"2018-05-29T12:45:48","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/herway.net\/?p=19232"},"modified":"2021-08-12T08:21:19","modified_gmt":"2021-08-12T08:21:19","slug":"non-uscire-con-lui-se-speri-di-cambiarlo-2","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/non-uscire-con-lui-se-speri-di-cambiarlo-2\/","title":{"rendered":"Non uscire con lui se speri di cambiarlo"},"content":{"rendered":"

C'\u00e8 un ragazzo che avete conosciuto ma non sapete cosa pensare di lui e della vostra potenziale relazione con lui. <\/span><\/p>\n

Let\u2019s get one thing straight<\/span>\u2014<\/span>you don\u2019t have any doubts about your feelings for this man. You like him very much and you are even falling in love with him hard.<\/span><\/p>\n

This guy gives you butterflies you haven\u2019t felt in a long time and you feel like you can\u2019t keep your hands off him. But you also know that this is more than passion and <\/span>attrazione fisica<\/span><\/a>.<\/span><\/p>\n

S\u00ec, quest'uomo vi attrae sessualmente, ma c'\u00e8 qualcosa di pi\u00f9 tra voi due. Siete attratti anche dal suo cervello e lui ha suscitato in voi diverse emozioni.<\/span><\/p>\n

Therefore, you\u2019ve caught yourself picturing a serious relationship with this guy and planning a life with him.<\/span><\/p>\n

D'altro canto, per\u00f2, siete anche preoccupati. Sebbene proviate forti sentimenti per questo ragazzo, siete comunque consapevoli delle cose che vi circondano e potete guardare alla vostra relazione con lui in modo realistico. <\/span><\/p>\n

You know that you and this man are quite different and you can see some of his personality traits and behavior patterns that you don\u2019t like. <\/b><\/p>\n

Although you know that you both have your flaws and you don\u2019t expect to have a perfect boyfriend because you don\u2019t think of yourself as perfect either, there are still some things about this guy that you don\u2019t know if you can accept or if you\u2019ll ever be able to accept.<\/b><\/p>\n

You are simply afraid that the two of you won\u2019t get along and that you are not compatible, as much as you don\u2019t want that to be.<\/b><\/p>\n

A volte si pensa di dover ascoltare solo il proprio cuore e di dover ignorare questi pensieri e seguire semplicemente la corrente. <\/span><\/p>\n

Pur essendo sempre dalla parte dell'amore e pur consigliandoti di ascoltare il tuo cuore, devo dirti di prendere in considerazione anche questi pensieri che ti passano per la testa e di riconsiderare tutto ci\u00f2 che riguarda questo ragazzo e la vostra potenziale relazione.<\/span><\/p>\n

The truth is that, in general, people don\u2019t change. Even when they do, they do it for their own reasons and only because they think it\u2019s the right thing to do. I know many women hope to change the man by their side but the harsh truth is that they rarely succeed in doing so.<\/b><\/p>\n

So please, don\u2019t be one of those women because you\u2019ll fail and you\u2019ll only end up hurt. Don\u2019t try to change this man because that will only bring dissatisfaction to your relationship and it will make both of you feel miserable. <\/span><\/p>\n

You will be disappointed for not succeeding and because sooner or later, you\u2019ll see that you are fighting with the windmills. On the other hand, it is probable that <\/span>prova un forte sentimento per lei<\/span><\/a> e potrebbe sforzarsi di adeguarsi ai vostri standard e di cambiare le sue abitudini. <\/span><\/p>\n

But he will lose his true self in the process of trying to make you happy. And ironically, this won\u2019t make either of you happy. Instead, it will just ruin both of you individually and it will ruin any chance of you two having a successful relationship.<\/span><\/p>\n

Invece di cercare di cambiarlo, decidete se potete accettarlo per quello che \u00e8 veramente. Perch\u00e9 se amate veramente un uomo, accetterete tutti i suoi difetti e le sue imperfezioni insieme ai suoi lati positivi. <\/span><\/p>\n

In questo modo non gli mostrerete solo il vostro amore, ma anche il rispetto per la sua integrit\u00e0 e per la sua persona. Solo in questo modo gli darete l'opportunit\u00e0 di essere se stesso con voi, e questo vi permetter\u00e0 di <\/span>farlo innamorare di voi come un matto<\/span><\/a>.<\/span><\/p>\n

I am not saying that you should put up with all the bullshit he puts you through. On the contrary, I am just telling you to make up your mind before involving yourself in anything serious. I am telling you to reach your decision without planning on changing him in the future or without realizing you can\u2019t accept him after all.  <\/span> <\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

There is this guy you\u2019ve met but you don\u2019t know what to think of him and of your potential relationship with him. Let\u2019s get one thing straight\u2014you don\u2019t have any doubts about your feelings for this man. You like him very much and you are even falling in love with him hard. This guy gives…<\/p>","protected":false},"author":40,"featured_media":19233,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29619],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-19232","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-stories-love"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29619,"label":"stories"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/05\/freddie-marriage-151597-unsplash.jpg",800,476,false],"author_info":{"display_name":"Tara Brown","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/author\/tara-brown\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29619,"name":"stories","slug":"stories-love","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29619,"taxonomy":"category","description":"To all the souls struggling with complicated love experiences: These heartfelt stories about love, heartbreak, and moving on will be your voice of wisdom.","parent":38,"count":424,"filter":"raw","cat_ID":29619,"category_count":424,"category_description":"To all the souls struggling with complicated love experiences: These heartfelt stories about love, heartbreak, and moving on will be your voice of wisdom.","cat_name":"stories","category_nicename":"stories-love","category_parent":38}],"tag_info":false,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/19232","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/40"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=19232"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/19232\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/19233"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=19232"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=19232"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=19232"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}