{"id":19238,"date":"2018-05-30T06:25:01","date_gmt":"2018-05-30T06:25:01","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/herway.net\/?p=19238"},"modified":"2022-03-01T22:42:37","modified_gmt":"2022-03-01T22:42:37","slug":"e-il-momento-di-darsi-una-regolata-perche-lei-non-ti-aspettera-ancora-per-molto","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/e-il-momento-di-darsi-una-regolata-perche-lei-non-ti-aspettera-ancora-per-molto\/","title":{"rendered":"\u00c8 ora di darsi una regolata perch\u00e9 lei non vi aspetter\u00e0 ancora a lungo"},"content":{"rendered":"

I know you\u2019ve gotten used to this girl. And when I say you\u2019ve gotten used to her, I don\u2019t mean you just got used to her presence in your life. No\u2014you\u2019ve gotten used to everything she\u2019s been giving you and I am not referring to her body here.<\/p>\n

You\u2019ve gotten used to this girl loving you, without you loving her back the way you should.<\/p>\n

Vi siete abituati a vederla sempre presente per voi, ad avere il suo sostegno e la sua lealt\u00e0, qualunque cosa accada.<\/p>\n

Hai sempre saputo che questa ragazza era una persona su cui potevi contare, anche se tutti gli altri ti voltavano le spalle.<\/p>\n

Sapevi che era l'unica a fare il tifo per te, qualunque cosa facessi, l'unica a godere sinceramente di ogni tuo successo e l'unica a condividere tutto il tuo dolore.<\/p>\n

Questo \u00e8 stato l'unico girl who couldn\u2019t be happy<\/a> quando eri triste e che ha sempre cercato di farti sorridere.<\/p>\n

Sapevi che era stata l'unica persona al mondo ad amarti incondizionatamente, anche quando meno te lo meritavi.<\/p>\n

L'unico che ha creduto in te, quando nessun altro lo ha fatto e anche quando hai smesso di credere in te stesso.<\/p>\n

Ma invece di apprezzarlo, l'hai usata.<\/strong> Hai sfruttato il suo amore per te e il fatto che fosse ingenua e sensibile.<\/p>\n

Sapevi benissimo che aveva sempre avuto un debole per te e che eri l'unica persona al mondo che non avrebbe mai potuto rifiutare e ne hai approfittato molto bene.<\/p>\n

You\u2019ve been giving her only crumbs of your love and attention\u2014just enough to keep her around.<\/p>\n

\u00c8 la prima persona che si chiama quando si \u00e8 in difficolt\u00e0, quando si ha bisogno di una spalla su cui piangere, quando si ha bisogno di un consiglio o di una guida o semplicemente quando si ha bisogno di parlare con qualcuno.<\/p>\n

And you\u2019ve gotten used to her always being there, so with time, you\u2019ve started taking her for granted, assuming that you didn\u2019t have to put any effort into your relationship, that you didn\u2019t have to give her any love or appreciation and that she would stay by your side, despite your treatment.\"\u00c8<\/strong><\/p>\n

Well, guess what? She won\u2019t.<\/strong> Arriver\u00e0 il momento in cui questa ragazza ti vedr\u00e0 per quello che sei veramente<\/strong>\u2014an egocentric, stronzo egoista<\/a>.<\/p>\n

Arriver\u00e0 il momento in cui questa ragazza smetter\u00e0 di vederti come un ragazzo vulnerabile e smarrito che ha bisogno della sua mano per affrontare la vita.<\/p>\n

Vedr\u00e0 la tua vera natura e ne avr\u00e0 abbastanza.<\/p>\n

E allo stesso tempo, si vedr\u00e0 per quello che \u00e8 veramente.<\/strong> She will finally see her worth and she will realize you don\u2019t deserve her time, patience, efforts or energy.<\/p>\n

She will finally realize you don\u2019t deserve the love she has been giving you and that you don\u2019t deserve her.<\/p>\n

And that is when she\u2019ll walk away from you.<\/p>\n

That is when it will be too late to do anything because she\u2019ll grow tired of you and the way you\u2019ve been treating her.<\/p>\n

And that is when you\u2019ll realize what you have done and what you have lost. But there won\u2019t be anything you can do about it.<\/p>\n

Because when she finally realizes everything, she won\u2019t be able to look at you the same ever again.
\nSo please do something before it\u2019s too late.<\/p>\n

Because she won\u2019t wait forever for you to come to your senses. She won\u2019t wait for you to start appreciating her and all of her efforts and sacrifices.<\/p>\n

She won\u2019t wait much longer for you to start loving and treating her the way she deserves.<\/p>\n

I know you are certain that she will but trust me, this girl won\u2019t waste her entire life on a guy who never gives her anything in return.<\/p>\n

Please get your shit together before it\u2019s too late. Deep down, you know very well that this is the kind of woman you meet once in a lifetime.<\/p>\n

Sai bene che nessuno ti amer\u00e0 mai come ti ama lei e sai bene che nessuno ti tratter\u00e0 mai come ti ha trattato lei.<\/p>\n

Don\u2019t wait a second longer\u2014change your behavior now. Because you\u2019ll spend the rest of your life regretting your choice if you don\u2019t make the right one now.\"\u00c8<\/strong> <\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

I know you\u2019ve gotten used to this girl. And when I say you\u2019ve gotten used to her, I don\u2019t mean you just got used to her presence in your life. No\u2014you\u2019ve gotten used to everything she\u2019s been giving you and I am not referring to her body here. You\u2019ve gotten used to this girl loving…<\/p>","protected":false},"author":40,"featured_media":19239,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29619],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-19238","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-stories-love"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29619,"label":"stories"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/05\/hanna.jpg",800,533,false],"author_info":{"display_name":"Tara Brown","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/author\/tara-brown\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29619,"name":"stories","slug":"stories-love","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29619,"taxonomy":"category","description":"To all the souls struggling with complicated love experiences: These heartfelt stories about love, heartbreak, and moving on will be your voice of wisdom.","parent":38,"count":424,"filter":"raw","cat_ID":29619,"category_count":424,"category_description":"To all the souls struggling with complicated love experiences: These heartfelt stories about love, heartbreak, and moving on will be your voice of wisdom.","cat_name":"stories","category_nicename":"stories-love","category_parent":38}],"tag_info":false,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/19238","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/40"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=19238"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/19238\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/19239"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=19238"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=19238"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=19238"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}