{"id":19264,"date":"2019-05-30T08:44:34","date_gmt":"2019-05-30T08:44:34","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/herway.net\/?p=19264"},"modified":"2021-11-03T14:21:38","modified_gmt":"2021-11-03T14:21:38","slug":"8-regole-da-seguire-assolutamente-se-si-vuole-mantenere-una-relazione-a-lungo-termine","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/8-regole-da-seguire-assolutamente-se-si-vuole-mantenere-una-relazione-a-lungo-termine\/","title":{"rendered":"8 regole da seguire assolutamente se si vuole rimanere in una relazione a lungo termine"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>Il detto \"no pain no gain\" \u00e8 davvero perfetto per questa situazione.<\/p>\r\n<p>You can love each other to the moon and back but if you don\u2019t work on your relationship non-stop, it will fail and you don\u2019t want that.<\/p>\r\n<p>Purtroppo, l'amore da solo non \u00e8 sempre sufficiente per rendere la vostra relazione duratura. A volte sono necessari trucchi e accorgimenti che la mantengano viva, che la rendano interessante.<\/p>\r\n<p>It\u2019s easy to be stuck in a rut and when people feel that way, they become depressed and disappointed.<\/p>\r\n<p>After that stage passes, resentment and anger come along. You start literally hating the person you\u2019re with because nothing is going on in your <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/relationship\/a-letter-to-the-girl-who-gives-too-much-in-a-relationship\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\">relazione<\/a>.<\/p>\r\n<p>Everything is the same and you can\u2019t handle it anymore.<\/p>\r\n<p>Per evitare che ci\u00f2 accada, bisogna darsi da fare e lottare per la persona che si ama.<\/p>\r\n<p>Seguendo queste regole essenziali e <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/consigli-sulle-relazioni-2\/\">consigli sulle relazioni <\/a>aiuter\u00e0 la vostra unione a durare molto pi\u00f9 a lungo del solito.<\/p>\r\n<h2><span style=\"font-size: 24pt;\">1. Ammettere di aver sbagliato<img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-44799\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/05\/shutterstock_482734510-768x513.jpg\" alt=\"8 regole da seguire assolutamente se si vuole rimanere in una relazione a lungo termine\" width=\"768\" height=\"513\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/05\/shutterstock_482734510-768x513.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/05\/shutterstock_482734510-768x513-300x200.jpg 300w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 768px) 100vw, 768px\" \/><\/span><\/h2>\r\n<p>You\u2019re in this together and there is no point in being selfish and not admitting when you made a mistake because in that way you\u2019re only doing wrong to yourself and your relationship.<\/p>\r\n<p>You\u2019re not going to accomplish anything if you keep acting like you can\u2019t make a mistake.<\/p>\r\n<p>Siate una persona responsabile e sostenete quello che avete fatto. Il vostro partner vi rispetter\u00e0 di pi\u00f9 e lo incoraggerete a fare lo stesso.<\/p>\r\n<h2><span style=\"font-size: 24pt;\">2. Spazzarlo via dai piedi<img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-44801\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/05\/shutterstock_527774716-768x556.jpg\" alt=\"8 regole da seguire assolutamente se si vuole rimanere in una relazione a lungo termine\" width=\"768\" height=\"556\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/05\/shutterstock_527774716-768x556.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/05\/shutterstock_527774716-768x556-300x217.jpg 300w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 768px) 100vw, 768px\" \/><\/span><\/h2>\r\n<p>If you are in a relationship, it doesn\u2019t have to mean that you don\u2019t have to care about the way you look anymore.<\/p>\r\n<p>Continuate a curare il vostro corpo, prima per voi stesse e poi per il vostro partner. Fate in modo che lui vi desideri ogni volta che vi vede.<\/p>\r\n<p>Se continuate a provarci, non cercher\u00e0 mai altrove per sentirsi amato e apprezzato.<\/p>\r\n<h2><span style=\"font-size: 24pt;\">3. Trovate un posto che piaccia a entrambi<img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-44802\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/05\/shutterstock_1178097721-768x513.jpg\" alt=\"8 regole da seguire assolutamente se si vuole rimanere in una relazione a lungo termine\" width=\"768\" height=\"513\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/05\/shutterstock_1178097721-768x513.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/05\/shutterstock_1178097721-768x513-300x200.jpg 300w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 768px) 100vw, 768px\" \/><\/span><\/h2>\r\n<p>Sar\u00e0 il vostro posto speciale. Pu\u00f2 essere qualsiasi cosa. Pu\u00f2 essere il vostro divano, l'erba di un parco sotto un albero o il caff\u00e8 della vostra strada.<\/p>\r\n<p>Just find something that is yours, where you enjoy life and feel like you\u2019re on top of the world.<\/p>\r\n<p>Ci si va quando ci si vuole rilassare e sentirsi a vicenda.<\/p>\r\n<p>It\u2019s a place that\u2019s perfect for some peace and quiet that you both need to gather your thoughts and enjoy each other\u2019s company.<\/p>\r\n<h2><span style=\"font-size: 24pt;\">4. Trascorrere insieme tutte le date importanti<img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-44803\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/05\/shutterstock_499259464-768x513.jpg\" alt=\"8 regole da seguire assolutamente se si vuole rimanere in una relazione a lungo termine\" width=\"768\" height=\"513\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/05\/shutterstock_499259464-768x513.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/05\/shutterstock_499259464-768x513-300x200.jpg 300w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 768px) 100vw, 768px\" \/><\/span><\/h2>\r\n<p>You\u2019re like a family now and you should start celebrating special holidays together.<\/p>\r\n<p>Don\u2019t ignore your families but if you can, take your partner to your parents\u2019 house for lunch or if you can\u2019t then devote at least some of your time to him on such a day so he doesn\u2019t feel left out.<\/p>\r\n<p>He should do the same for you. Not to mention anniversaries, those are your special days and you should always be together, if that\u2019s possible.<\/p>\r\n<h2><span style=\"font-size: 24pt;\">5. Date del piano<img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-44804\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/05\/shutterstock_369819689-768x513.jpg\" alt=\"8 regole da seguire assolutamente se si vuole rimanere in una relazione a lungo termine\" width=\"768\" height=\"513\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/05\/shutterstock_369819689-768x513.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/05\/shutterstock_369819689-768x513-300x200.jpg 300w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 768px) 100vw, 768px\" \/><\/span><\/h2>\r\n<p>It\u2019s like you just met. You deserve to go out for dinner or to the movies.<\/p>\r\n<p>La vostra relazione merita un po' di coccole ogni tanto, per ricordarvi che avete scelto di stare insieme e perch\u00e9 avete deciso di passare tutto quel tempo insieme.<\/p>\r\n<p>Le persone a volte dimenticano come sono finite in una relazione e perch\u00e9.<\/p>\r\n<p>So it won\u2019t hurt to remind yourself of the times when you just started and enjoyed the honeymoon phase in total infatuation because after some time, that slowly fades away.<\/p>\r\n<h2><span style=\"font-size: 24pt;\">6. Trovare un interesse comune<img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-44805\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/05\/shutterstock_579403366-768x513.jpg\" alt=\"8 regole da seguire assolutamente se si vuole rimanere in una relazione a lungo termine\" width=\"768\" height=\"513\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/05\/shutterstock_579403366-768x513.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/05\/shutterstock_579403366-768x513-300x200.jpg 300w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 768px) 100vw, 768px\" \/><\/span><\/h2>\r\n<p>Trovate un hobby, qualcosa che diventi un rituale.<\/p>\r\n<p>Qualcosa che piace a entrambi e che fate ogni giorno, come fare una passeggiata, andare in palestra o leggere le notizie davanti a una tazza di caff\u00e8 al mattino.<\/p>\r\n<p>Queste cose sono importanti da mantenere perch\u00e9 vi rendono pi\u00f9 vicini l'uno all'altro. Molte coppie si allontanano perch\u00e9 hanno le loro cose da fare.<\/p>\r\n<p>They have to go to work, meet with friends and so on, so it\u2019s not strange that you somehow can part ways if you don\u2019t find things you can enjoy doing together.<\/p>\r\n<h2><span style=\"font-size: 24pt;\">7. Esprimere il proprio pensiero<img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-44806\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/05\/shutterstock_579188665-768x513.jpg\" alt=\"8 regole da seguire assolutamente se si vuole rimanere in una relazione a lungo termine\" width=\"768\" height=\"513\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/05\/shutterstock_579188665-768x513.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/05\/shutterstock_579188665-768x513-300x200.jpg 300w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 768px) 100vw, 768px\" \/><\/span><\/h2>\r\n<p>Se sentite di dover dire qualcosa, ditelo subito.<\/p>\r\n<p>Don\u2019t hold it in because it will bother you and after some time you won\u2019t be able to be quiet and the only thing you\u2019re going to achieve is to release all the anger that was growing inside you by resenting your partner for something he did.<\/p>\r\n<p>And you could just say it right away and sort it out. Otherwise you\u2019re only going to fight more.<\/p>\r\n<h2><span style=\"font-size: 24pt;\">8. Non lasciate mai morire il romanticismo<img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-44807\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/05\/shutterstock_1042073746-768x513.jpg\" alt=\"8 regole da seguire assolutamente se si vuole rimanere in una relazione a lungo termine\" width=\"768\" height=\"513\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/05\/shutterstock_1042073746-768x513.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/05\/shutterstock_1042073746-768x513-300x200.jpg 300w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 768px) 100vw, 768px\" \/><\/span><\/h2>\r\n<p>It\u2019s important in every relationship to keep showing your partner how much you care about them.<\/p>\r\n<p>Fate un salto di qualit\u00e0 e organizzate un appuntamento romantico a lume di candela con lui. Portatelo a fare una passeggiata sotto le stelle.<\/p>\r\n<p>Show him that you love him and that you\u2019re never going to give up on the two of you.<\/p>\r\n\r\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter wp-image-41809 size-full\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/05\/herway.net-7.jpg\" alt=\"8 regole da seguire assolutamente se si vuole rimanere in una relazione a lungo termine\" width=\"735\" height=\"1102\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/05\/herway.net-7.jpg 735w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/05\/herway.net-7-200x300.jpg 200w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/05\/herway.net-7-683x1024.jpg 683w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 735px) 100vw, 735px\" \/><\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>The saying \u2018no pain no gain\u2019 is really perfect for this situation. You can love each other to the moon and back but if you don\u2019t work on your relationship non-stop, it will fail and you don\u2019t want that. Sadly, love alone is not always enough to make your relationship long-term. Sometimes you need hacks&#8230;<\/p>","protected":false},"author":25,"featured_media":19265,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29621],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-19264","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-healthy-relationship"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29621,"label":"healthy relationship"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/05\/matheus-ferrero-178837-unsplash.jpg",800,533,false],"author_info":{"display_name":"Amy Nicholson","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/author\/amy\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29621,"name":"healthy relationship","slug":"healthy-relationship","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29621,"taxonomy":"category","description":"Explore this part of our site to learn how to recognize and nourish healthy patterns in your relationships and let go of the negative ones with ease.","parent":29620,"count":254,"filter":"raw","cat_ID":29621,"category_count":254,"category_description":"Explore this part of our site to learn how to recognize and nourish healthy patterns in your relationships and let go of the negative ones with ease.","cat_name":"healthy relationship","category_nicename":"healthy-relationship","category_parent":29620}],"tag_info":false,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/19264","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/25"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=19264"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/19264\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/19265"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=19264"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=19264"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=19264"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}