We as humans make major changes in life and as humans we have evolved so much over a period of time, with technology, social media, clothing trends, etc. But one thing that hasn\u2019t changed over this period of time is the expected \u2018timeline\u2019 for us to settle down, get married, and have children, all before our \u2018biological clocks\u2019 time out.<\/p>\n
I\u2019m in my late 20\u2019s and most of my girlfriends are in relationships (or relazioni<\/strong> come mi piace chiamarli). Mi sentivo sempre come se fossi quella che veniva lasciata indietro o quella che si aggregava in modo imbarazzante ai miei amici nelle loro serate. Per non parlare del fatto che la notte piangevo spudoratamente fino ad addormentarmi, quando mi rendevo conto che l'unica cosa\/oggetto con cui tornavo a casa era il mio peluche \"ride or die\" Mr.<\/p>\n One day, as I was out with my girlfriends on a much-needed wine tasting adventure, I found myself and my thoughts in a second bottle of rose. I\u2019m not sure whether it was the bubbles or just a waking moment but I realized Ero veramente molto meglio essere single<\/a> di quanto non lo fossero nelle relazioni.<\/strong> I had to thank them all for this realization\u2014after all, if it hadn\u2019t been for them continually complaining about their fake relationshits or arguing over who had the best #couplestatus<\/strong>, I\u2019d still be thinking their lives were bliss while mine was shit.<\/p>\n Proprio questi pensieri mi hanno portato a questa conclusione: essere single<\/a> in your 20\u2019s is the most beautiful and life-liberating experience!<\/strong> So, while some days you may feel hopeless, I can promise you that the journey in finding yourself and who you truly are is well worth the wait. I promise if you are patient with yourself you\u2019ll find you won\u2019t have to repeat that vicious cycle of being the ever so single one. So if you feel hopeless or lonely, I hope you can look back on these 6 ways to realizing that being single in your 20\u2019s is nothing but pure enjoyment.<\/strong><\/p>\n Maybe it was because I wasn\u2019t in the right relationship but I often would get so frustrated when a partner would not compliment me on my accomplishments, no matter how big or small. However, over time and being alone with myself, I have learned that the only validation I need is from within. Ho imparato a complimentarmi con me stessa quando ho un bell'aspetto e a congratularmi con me stessa quando raggiungo i miei obiettivi o realizzo dei risultati.<\/strong> Sono davvero l'unico che conta quando si tratta di me stesso!<\/p>\n So often when we get into relationships we lose who we are because we are so focused on catering to our partner\u2019s every need. I know we have all been there and that\u2019s OK. However, se ci prendiamo il tempo necessario per stare da soli, possiamo davvero scavare in profondit\u00e0 <\/strong>noi stessi and ask the important question\u2026 what is your true purpose in life?\u2014what is your true calling?<\/strong> State facendo il possibile per raggiungere questo scopo o questa vocazione?<\/p>\n It\u2019s always nice to share dreams and aspirations with a partner. However, il vostro partner non pu\u00f2 sostituire i vostri obiettivi personali.<\/strong> In order to have a fully loving and shared experience with another human being, you must first know how to make yourself happy and fulfilled. If you are unhappy at work, don\u2019t expect a partner to fill that void. Your partner should be that accent to your life\u2014like that great pair of earrings!<\/p>\n Questa \u00e8 la mia preferita in assoluto! Non avete nessuno che vi impedisca di viaggiare in certi luoghi del mondo e non avete nessuno a cui rendere conto. If you decide to wake up and book a flight to Tahiti\u2014you can. You are free to go anywhere at any time.<\/strong> If you want to wear that special dress\u2014go for it. If you want to eat at YOUR favorite restaurant\u2014go for it. That little voice that used to say, \u201cWonder if he\u2019s OK with this, wonder if he\u2019ll like it, wonder if this fits his style,\u201d has been silenced and replaced by a loud, happy, boisterous shout of being oneself!<\/p>\n In passato avete passato il tempo a scrivere bigliettini di sostegno e a comprare qualcosa di speciale per fargli piacere. Eravate molto orgogliosi di renderlo felice, di compiacerlo. Se lui era felice, voi eravate felici. La vostra priorit\u00e0 era quella di compiacerlo prima di tutto. Ora non pi\u00f9! Ora potete coccolarvi.<\/strong> Prenotate quella giornata alle terme. Spend a little extra and get that dress you know you\u2019ve been wanting. Who says that little red sports cars are just for men! Go for it!<\/strong><\/p>\n Siete in grado di capire l'importanza della famiglia e delle cose semplici della vita. Una cosa \u00e8 certa, I\u2019ve found closer relationships within my family and have a better understanding of being grateful for all that I have.<\/strong> No longer do I have to decide between him, HIS family or mine. I have managed to reconnect with my siblings and parents in a way I couldn\u2019t if he was still in the picture. I even have a closer connection with my sweet little dog!<\/p>\n Vedi anche: La mente di una ragazza che non \u00e8 mai stata a un appuntamento<\/a><\/strong><\/p>\n1. Imparate che l'unica convalida di cui avete bisogno viene da dentro di voi.<\/strong><\/span><\/h1>\n
2. La connessione spirituale nel ritrovare se stessi<\/strong><\/span><\/h1>\n
3. Potete perseguire i vostri sogni e le vostre aspirazioni<\/strong><\/span><\/h1>\n
4. Siete liberi da qualsiasi catena<\/strong><\/span><\/h1>\n
5. Si pu\u00f2 viziare<\/strong><\/span><\/h1>\n
6. Imparerete ad apprezzare meglio le cose che avete.<\/strong><\/span><\/h1>\n