Hey, you! I know you are out there and I know you found yourself in this text the moment you read the title. And that is a good step. It shows that you are very well aware that the guy you are with is not the person you need in life. It shows that you know he doesn\u2019t deserve your love and all the sacrifices you\u2019ve been making for him. It shows that you are very well aware that your life doesn\u2019t look the way it should look and that it\u2019s about time you make some changes in it.<\/p>\n
Ma lei ha paura. Avete paura di andarvene.<\/strong> Maybe you are not aware of this fear, but deep down, you know it is more than present and real. And if someone asks you what you are scared of, the truth is that you wouldn\u2019t know the answer. When you look at the things realistically, you know there is nothing to be afraid of. You know that you got stuck in this toxic relationship and that walking away from it is the best possible option for you. You know that this guy can\u2019t drag you back into this relationship if you don\u2019t allow him to do it. You know you are the only one in charge and the only one who has all the control of your own life.<\/p>\n Ma in qualche modo, c'\u00e8 questa paura che vi paralizza.<\/p>\n You are scared of this guy\u2019s emotional blackmails and threats.<\/strong><\/p>\n Hai paura di perdere l'occasione di essere felice con lui perch\u00e9 speri ancora segretamente che stia per cambiare e che non succeder\u00e0 mai se lo lasci adesso.<\/p>\n Avete paura di stare per conto vostro e di vivere la vostra vita senza di lui al vostro fianco. S\u00ec, sai che lui \u00e8 solo rende la vita pi\u00f9 difficile<\/a>, but he is familiar to you and he represents your comfort zone. So you are scared of stepping out of this comfort zone because it is something you\u2019ve gotten used to, despite the fact that you know everything about it is wrong.<\/p>\n Avete paura di andare avanti con la vostra vita.<\/strong> As much as you theoretically want to move on and as much as you allegedly wait for that to finally happen, the truth is quite different. The truth is that you are holding yourself from moving on because you are not certain of your worth. This toxic man has managed to convince you that he is the best you can have in life and that no other man could love you the way he did. Well, guess what\u2014you don\u2019t need anyone loving you the way he loves you because this is everything but love.<\/p>\n Ma soprattutto, avete paura di allontanarvi perch\u00e9 pensate di essere troppo deboli per farlo. In fondo, sapete che tutto ci\u00f2 che strong women know when it\u2019s time to walk away<\/a> and you know that you should have done this a long time ago. But somehow you haven\u2019t. Somehow, you\u2019ve stayed stuck in one place. You\u2019ve stayed alongside the man who makes you unhappy and you think that now it\u2019s too late for you to make any changes.<\/p>\n