{"id":19481,"date":"2020-06-05T08:52:39","date_gmt":"2020-06-05T08:52:39","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/herway.net\/?p=19481"},"modified":"2022-02-26T21:57:48","modified_gmt":"2022-02-26T21:57:48","slug":"stare-con-un-uomo-che-non-abbia-paura-di-mostrarvi-il-suo-lato-vulnerabile","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/stare-con-un-uomo-che-non-abbia-paura-di-mostrarvi-il-suo-lato-vulnerabile\/","title":{"rendered":"State con un uomo che non abbia paura di mostrarvi il suo lato pi\u00f9 vulnerabile"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>Quando eri una bambina, guardavi e leggevi le favole.<\/p>\n<p>Avete assistito al salvataggio di una bellissima principessa da parte di un principe forte, coraggioso e impavido. E i due vissero per sempre felici e contenti.<\/p>\n<p>E man mano che si cresceva, si continuava a guardare film romantici. In tutti questi film, la ragazza era innocente e sensibile, mentre il protagonista maschile era un duro che veniva a salvare la situazione.<\/p>\n<p>E nessuno di questi scenari presenta un uomo vulnerabile, come se questo lo rendesse debole.<\/p>\n<p>And with time, you\u2019ve adopted this concept of gender roles as something normal and natural, while it is actually anything but that.<\/p>\n<p>And deep down, this is exactly what you wanted for yourself. Of course, you never expected for your life to be a fairy tale\u2014you always knew you couldn\u2019t find your Mr. Perfect.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-96174\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/11\/woman-wearing-white-dress-leaning-on-her-knee-closed-eyes-1.jpg\" alt=\"donna in abito bianco appoggiata sul ginocchio occhi chiusi\" width=\"800\" height=\"533\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/11\/woman-wearing-white-dress-leaning-on-her-knee-closed-eyes-1.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/11\/woman-wearing-white-dress-leaning-on-her-knee-closed-eyes-1-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/11\/woman-wearing-white-dress-leaning-on-her-knee-closed-eyes-1-768x512.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Ma sei sempre stata alla ricerca del tuo principe azzurro e hai sempre pensato che fosse l'unico tipo di uomo in grado di darti il tuo <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/love\/per-colpa-tua-non-credo-piu-nel-lieto-fine\/\">lieto fine<\/a>.<\/p>\n<p><b>You wanted to have this fearless, tough man by your side, who would be the savior you\u2019ve waited for all along.<\/b><\/p>\n<p>With time, you\u2019ve started adding different qualities to this imaginary guy\u2019s personality.<\/p>\n<p>You\u2019ve imagined the way he should look and the way he should treat you but the premise has always remained the same.<\/p>\n<p>E la societ\u00e0 moderna ha sostenuto le vostre opinioni. Tutti hanno continuato a insinuare come dovrebbe essere un vero uomo.<\/p>\n<p>Tutti ti direbbero che deve farti sentire una donna e che hai bisogno di un vero uomo al tuo fianco.<\/p>\n<p><b>Quest'uomo deve essere forte fisicamente ed emotivamente. Dovrebbe essere una persona su cui si pu\u00f2 sempre contare e dovrebbe sempre coprirvi le spalle, qualunque cosa accada.<\/b><\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-96175\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/11\/man-protects-hid-girlfriend-and-hugs-1.jpg\" alt=\"l&#039;uomo protegge la fidanzata nascosta e la abbraccia\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/11\/man-protects-hid-girlfriend-and-hugs-1.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/11\/man-protects-hid-girlfriend-and-hugs-1-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/11\/man-protects-hid-girlfriend-and-hugs-1-768x513.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>And all of this is true\u2014you need someone like this. <b>But this doesn\u2019t mean that this man doesn\u2019t have emotions.<\/b><\/p>\n<p><b>This doesn\u2019t mean this man can\u2019t be sad, hurt or disappointed. It doesn\u2019t mean he never cries and it definitely doesn\u2019t mean he doesn\u2019t fight his own insecurities.<\/b><b><br \/>\n<\/b><br \/>\n<b>It doesn\u2019t mean that a guy is less of a man if he has emotions, if he allows them to control him from time to time and if he shows and verbalizes these emotions.<\/b><\/p>\n<p>Al contrario, lo rende un uomo degno del vostro tempo e dei vostri sforzi.<\/p>\n<p>If a man isn\u2019t afraid to show you his vulnerable side, <b>\u00e8 un chiaro segno che crede in voi.<\/b><\/p>\n<p>This man is not afraid that you\u2019ll use his secrets against him and he doesn\u2019t fear that you\u2019ll take advantage of his weaknesses.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-96176\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/11\/Couple-of-mixed-races-standing-face-to-face..jpg\" alt=\"Coppia di razze miste in piedi faccia a faccia.\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/11\/Couple-of-mixed-races-standing-face-to-face..jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/11\/Couple-of-mixed-races-standing-face-to-face.-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/11\/Couple-of-mixed-races-standing-face-to-face.-768x513.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Vi crede al punto da essere sicuro di potervi mostrare il suo vero io, senza il timore di essere giudicato o ridicolizzato.<\/p>\n<p>\u00c8 certo<b> pu\u00f2 contare su di voi,<\/b> Non importa come, ma vi considera una persona speciale nella sua vita e per questo vuole che conosciate l'essenza della sua personalit\u00e0.<\/p>\n<p>Quest'uomo \u00e8 ovviamente <b>in contatto con le sue emozioni<\/b> e significa che capir\u00e0 meglio il vostro. Significa che avr\u00e0 meno possibilit\u00e0 di essere egoista ed egocentrico perch\u00e9 probabilmente \u00e8 un empatico.<\/p>\n<p>Significa che \u00e8 onesto e che non scappa mai dai suoi sentimenti. Significa che vi rispetta abbastanza da non fingere di essere qualcuno che non \u00e8.<\/p>\n<p>It means he is confident enough to show you his true colors and that he doesn\u2019t need you or anyone else around him assuring him he is a <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/relationship\/45-cose-che-i-veri-uomini\/\">uomo vero<\/a>perch\u00e9 sa chi \u00e8.<\/p>\n<p>Although you may think of this man as being too weak, trust me, you couldn\u2019t be more wrong. His strength can be best seen in his vulnerability.<\/p>\n<p>Vi dimostra solo che \u00e8 abbastanza forte da riconoscere le sue emozioni pi\u00f9 profonde, da affrontarle da solo e da condividerle con voi.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-96178\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/11\/Handsome-guy-looking-at-distance.jpg\" alt=\"Un bel ragazzo che guarda in lontananza\" width=\"800\" height=\"533\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/11\/Handsome-guy-looking-at-distance.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/11\/Handsome-guy-looking-at-distance-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/11\/Handsome-guy-looking-at-distance-768x512.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p><b>E questo \u00e8 esattamente il tipo di uomo di cui avete bisogno nella vostra vita e il tipo di uomo che vi far\u00e0 sentire la donna pi\u00f9 felice del mondo.<\/b><\/p>\n<p>Although it doesn\u2019t seem this way, this guy will be your rock for the rest of your life. He will be your biggest support, no matter what you are going through in life.<\/p>\n<p>Sar\u00e0 l'uomo di cui potrete sempre fidarvi e su cui potrete sempre contare. L'uomo che sar\u00e0 il vostro porto tranquillo e la vostra ancora.<\/p>\n<p>Quindi, per favore, <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/ha-smesso-di-scegliere-i-ragazzi-sbagliati\/\">smettete di inseguire le persone sbagliate<\/a>.<\/p>\n<p><b>Smettete di andare dietro ai cattivi ragazzi che vi danno emozioni e smettete di illudervi che uno di questi ragazzi sia il vostro principe azzurro. <\/b><\/p>\n<p><b>Smettetela di inseguire i duri che non vi mostrano emozioni solo perch\u00e9 qualcuno vi ha detto che questo li rende uomini pi\u00f9 grandi.<\/b><\/p>\n<p>Because trust me\u2014it doesn\u2019t and it never will.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter wp-image-96181 size-large\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/11\/Be-With-A-Man-Who-Won\u2019t-Be-Afraid-To-Show-You-His-Vulnerable-Side-Pinterest-724x1024.jpg\" alt=\"State con un uomo che non abbia paura di mostrarvi il suo lato pi\u00f9 vulnerabile\" width=\"724\" height=\"1024\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/11\/Be-With-A-Man-Who-Won\u2019t-Be-Afraid-To-Show-You-His-Vulnerable-Side-Pinterest-724x1024.jpg 724w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/11\/Be-With-A-Man-Who-Won\u2019t-Be-Afraid-To-Show-You-His-Vulnerable-Side-Pinterest-212x300.jpg 212w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/11\/Be-With-A-Man-Who-Won\u2019t-Be-Afraid-To-Show-You-His-Vulnerable-Side-Pinterest-768x1086.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/11\/Be-With-A-Man-Who-Won\u2019t-Be-Afraid-To-Show-You-His-Vulnerable-Side-Pinterest-1086x1536.jpg 1086w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/11\/Be-With-A-Man-Who-Won\u2019t-Be-Afraid-To-Show-You-His-Vulnerable-Side-Pinterest-1448x2048.jpg 1448w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/11\/Be-With-A-Man-Who-Won\u2019t-Be-Afraid-To-Show-You-His-Vulnerable-Side-Pinterest.jpg 1587w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 724px) 100vw, 724px\" \/><\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>When you were a little girl, you watched and read fairy tales. You watched a beautiful princess being rescued by a strong, brave and fearless prince. And the two of them lived happily ever after. And as you grew older, you continued watching romantic movies. In all of these movies, the girl was innocent and&#8230;<\/p>","protected":false},"author":25,"featured_media":96179,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29621],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-19481","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-healthy-relationship"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29621,"label":"healthy relationship"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/11\/Be-With-A-Man-Who-Won\u2019t-Be-Afraid-To-Show-You-His-Vulnerable-Side.jpg",800,537,false],"author_info":{"display_name":"Amy Nicholson","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/author\/amy\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29621,"name":"healthy relationship","slug":"healthy-relationship","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29621,"taxonomy":"category","description":"Explore this part of our site to learn how to recognize and nourish healthy patterns in your relationships and let go of the negative ones with ease.","parent":29620,"count":254,"filter":"raw","cat_ID":29621,"category_count":254,"category_description":"Explore this part of our site to learn how to recognize and nourish healthy patterns in your relationships and let go of the negative ones with ease.","cat_name":"healthy relationship","category_nicename":"healthy-relationship","category_parent":29620}],"tag_info":false,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/19481","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/25"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=19481"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/19481\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/96179"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=19481"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=19481"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=19481"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}