{"id":19522,"date":"2020-03-06T09:47:27","date_gmt":"2020-03-06T09:47:27","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/herway.net\/?p=19522"},"modified":"2021-08-12T09:51:40","modified_gmt":"2021-08-12T09:51:40","slug":"ce-unenorme-differenza-tra-lottare-per-lamore-e-implorarlo","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/ce-unenorme-differenza-tra-lottare-per-lamore-e-implorarlo\/","title":{"rendered":"C'\u00e8 un'enorme differenza tra lottare per l'amore e implorarlo"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>Sometimes we get so consumed by this modern dating era that we simply get lost in it. Thanks to the mess going on in other people\u2019s heads and in ours too, we tend to fail to distinguish right from wrong.<\/p>\n<p>Perhaps, this is the main reason why we keep ending in toxic relationships or fighting for people who don\u2019t actually deserve us.<\/p>\n<p>Vedete, uno dei pi\u00f9 grandi errori che commettiamo \u00e8 quello di non notare la differenza tra lottare per l'amore e implorarlo.<\/p>\n<p>Si potrebbe dire che c'\u00e8 una linea sottile tra queste due cose, ma mi permetto di dissentire.<\/p>\n<p><strong>When you\u2019re fighting for love, it\u2019s you who\u2019s in charge. It\u2019s you who\u2019s taking the lead. <\/strong><\/p>\n<p><strong>It\u2019s you being confident enough to go after what you know you deserve and what you believe is worth your time.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>L'amore \u00e8 una partnership e bisogna sempre essere in due per ballare il tango. Ci vogliono sempre due persone per l'amore.<\/p>\n<p>Lottare per amore equivale a due persone che lavorano insieme per superare le loro differenze e risolvere tutti i problemi. <strong>insieme.<\/strong> It\u2019s two people taking responsibility for their roles in the relationship.<\/p>\n<p>It\u2019s always two people in it. If it\u2019s only one who\u2019s trying, then it\u2019s not love\u2014it\u2019s torture.<\/p>\n<p>Come si fa a sapere se vale la pena lottare per la propria relazione? Semplice. Entrambi fate il lavoro duro e pesante che serve per essere allineati con un altro essere umano.<\/p>\n<p>You\u2019re never the only one carrying the whole weight. You\u2019re not the only one dragging the whole relationship forward. Because what\u2019s right will never need to be forced.<\/p>\n<p><strong>When you\u2019re begging for love, it\u2019s a sign you\u2019re desperate. When you\u2019re begging for love, you\u2019re probably going after something that was never meant to be yours to begin with.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p><strong>Because if it did, you wouldn\u2019t have to chase after it.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>Implorare l'amore significa ballare da soli la canzone che \u00e8 stata creata per essere ballata da una coppia.<\/p>\n<p>Holding onto someone who doesn\u2019t really want to be with you is like gripping sand. It will run through your fingers anyway.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter wp-image-83547 size-full\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/03\/couple-hugging-in-corn-field.jpg\" alt=\"coppia che si abbraccia in un campo di grano\" width=\"800\" height=\"533\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/03\/couple-hugging-in-corn-field.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/03\/couple-hugging-in-corn-field-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/03\/couple-hugging-in-corn-field-768x512.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>If you have to beg for love, then the person you\u2019re going after isn\u2019t capable of loving you the way you deserve. If you\u2019re chasing someone, it means they\u2019re running away from you.<\/p>\n<p>And if this is the case, then no matter what you do, you\u2019re not going to be their priority. You\u2019re never gonna get their attention, their time or their love.<\/p>\n<p>You\u2019ll just be bending over backwards for nothing.<\/p>\n<p>Never allow your fear of losing a person commit you to someone who\u2019s not good for you. And a person whom you have to beg for love is one of those.<\/p>\n<p>If you have to beg someone for love or to stay in your life, it\u2019s a clear sign they don\u2019t belong there.<\/p>\n<p>Always remember that when one door won\u2019t open no matter how hard you push or pull, it\u2019s locked for you and there isn\u2019t anything on the other side for you.<\/p>\n<p><strong>La persona sbagliata vi fa implorare attenzione, affetto, amore e impegno. La persona giusta vi d\u00e0 queste cose perch\u00e9 vi ama.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>See, if someone wants you, you\u2019ll be their<a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/love\/se-non-si-va-in-prima-scelta-non-ci-si-preoccupa-di-scegliere\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\"> prima scelta<\/a> without even asking for it. They\u2019ll be the ones to fight for your love instead of making you beg for theirs.<\/p>\n<p>You shouldn\u2019t have to force someone to want to be with you\u2014that\u2019s not how love should work.<\/p>\n<p>When someone is right, you\u2019ll feel it. They won\u2019t make you feel miserable and they won\u2019t hold you at arm\u2019s length.<\/p>\n<p>Lo sai,<strong> it\u2019s okay to fight for someone who loves you but it\u2019s not okay to fight for someone to love you.<\/strong> Conoscere la differenza.<\/p>\n<p>Instead of wasting your life begging for love that isn\u2019t meant to be yours, always have enough self-respect to know that the world is too big and you have too much to offer.<\/p>\n<p>Ricordate che meritate il giusto tipo di amore, non quello che dovete elemosinare. Che questa sia la vostra stella guida quando iniziate a pensare se sia il caso di dare un'altra possibilit\u00e0 o di andarvene.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter wp-image-83544 size-large\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/03\/There-Is-A-Huge-Difference-Between-Fighting-For-Love-And-Begging-For-It-Pinterest-683x1024.jpg\" alt=\"C&#039;\u00e8 un&#039;enorme differenza tra lottare per l&#039;amore e implorarlo\" width=\"683\" height=\"1024\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/03\/There-Is-A-Huge-Difference-Between-Fighting-For-Love-And-Begging-For-It-Pinterest-683x1024.jpg 683w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/03\/There-Is-A-Huge-Difference-Between-Fighting-For-Love-And-Begging-For-It-Pinterest-200x300.jpg 200w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/03\/There-Is-A-Huge-Difference-Between-Fighting-For-Love-And-Begging-For-It-Pinterest.jpg 735w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 683px) 100vw, 683px\" \/><\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Sometimes we get so consumed by this modern dating era that we simply get lost in it. Thanks to the mess going on in other people\u2019s heads and in ours too, we tend to fail to distinguish right from wrong. Perhaps, this is the main reason why we keep ending in toxic relationships or fighting&#8230;<\/p>","protected":false},"author":53,"featured_media":83545,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29614],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-19522","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-love-talks"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29614,"label":"love talks"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/03\/There-Is-A-Huge-Difference-Between-Fighting-For-Love-And-Begging-For-It.jpg",800,534,false],"author_info":{"display_name":"Ariel Quinn","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/author\/ariel\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29614,"name":"love talks","slug":"love-talks","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29614,"taxonomy":"category","description":"What is love? 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