{"id":19754,"date":"2019-06-12T10:16:37","date_gmt":"2019-06-12T10:16:37","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=19754"},"modified":"2022-01-14T01:05:08","modified_gmt":"2022-01-14T01:05:08","slug":"ci-rivediamo-quando-sarai-la-vecchia-versione-di-te-stesso","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/ci-rivediamo-quando-sarai-la-vecchia-versione-di-te-stesso\/","title":{"rendered":"Incontriamoci di nuovo quando sarai la vecchia versione di te stesso"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>Non c'\u00e8 niente di peggio o di pi\u00f9 doloroso che vedere la persona che conoscevi meglio trasformarsi lentamente nella persona che conoscevi prima. Non c'\u00e8 niente di peggio che guardare una persona con cui si \u00e8 entrati in sintonia su tanti livelli e non riconoscerla pi\u00f9.<\/p>\n<p><strong>There isn\u2019t anything worse than loving someone but having to <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/relationship\/head-says-let-go-heart-isnt-listening\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\">lasciarlo andare<\/a>. E questo \u00e8 ci\u00f2 che provo per te e per noi adesso.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>I honestly don\u2019t know what happened to us. We were soulmates, we used to understand each other with one simple look, you had my back and I had yours always.<\/p>\n<p>I didn\u2019t even need to think twice about what I meant to you, I knew I was your world, as I knew you were mine.<\/p>\n<p>Mi rispettavi molto di pi\u00f9. Ero la tua priorit\u00e0 e qualsiasi cosa accadesse, prendevi sempre le mie parti.<\/p>\n<p>Non hai mai permesso a nessuno di parlare male alle mie spalle. Ti fidavi molto di pi\u00f9 di me, mi amavi molto di pi\u00f9 e mi apprezzavi molto di pi\u00f9 di adesso.<\/p>\n<p><strong>We were partners. We shared everything and there wasn\u2019t a single struggle we didn\u2019t overcome together.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>I used to lie awake at night and thank God for sending you my way. You were every woman\u2019s dream.<\/p>\n<p>And I hoped we\u2019d stay the way we were till the end of our lives. Only you could make me feel like I was the only woman in this world and honestly, nobody else made me feel the way you did, not now, not ever.<\/p>\n<p>Ma, a poco a poco, la nostra favola inizi\u00f2 a svanire. Siamo diventati pi\u00f9 simili a quelle coppie infelici che hanno gi\u00e0 trascorso la loro vita insieme e che si sono semplicemente stufate l'una dell'altra.<\/p>\n<p>And that\u2019s exactly what happened. We got fed up with each other. We started taking each other for granted.<\/p>\n<p>You no longer cared to impress me. You no longer cared whether I was happy or miserable. You\u2019d rather spend your time with someone else, while on the other side I\u2019d give anything just to have you next to me, as happy and as committed to me as you used to be.<\/p>\n<p>You no longer laugh at my jokes. Nothing I do is enough for you. The things that amused you before about me no longer awake any kind of emotions in you. No matter what I do, I can\u2019t bring the old you back.<\/p>\n<p>And frankly speaking, living with this new you is like living with a roommate who you don\u2019t like. You do all the chores together but you just avoid each other and hate each other\u2019s presence.<\/p>\n<p><strong>Mi chiedo: dov'\u00e8 finito il desiderio ardente che avevamo l'uno per l'altra?<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>Don\u2019t get me wrong, I still love you. When you\u2019re near me I just want to run my hand through your hair. I just want you to pull me into your arms and to hug me.<\/p>\n<p>I still yearn for your lips pressed to mine. I\u2019d still give my life for you.<\/p>\n<p><strong>L'unico futuro che vedo \u00e8 con te. E voglio stare accanto a te, indipendentemente da quanto mi senta infelice. Ma credo che entrambi meritiamo di pi\u00f9 di questo.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>See, I still love you but I no longer like you. I don\u2019t like this person you\u2019ve become. I don\u2019t like this man who doesn\u2019t see me.<\/p>\n<p>I don\u2019t like this man who\u2019s taking me for granted. I don\u2019t like this man who chooses everyone else over me. I don\u2019t like this man who\u2019s making me feel like I\u2019m no longer loved or wanted.<\/p>\n<p><strong>We\u2019re both miserable in this relationship and that\u2019s why I need to let you go.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>I need to let you go for the sake of our past. For the sake of all those beautiful moments, for the sake of our love. I don\u2019t want to stay long enough to wait until each and every nice moment we had is replaced by those ugly ones.<\/p>\n<p>I don\u2019t want to forget what we had. But you can\u2019t expect me to let you live on the glory of past days. I know how capable of loving you are and that\u2019s why I\u2019m not settling for this, what you\u2019re giving me now.<\/p>\n<p>Holding on brings us no good. Someone needs to be brave enough to say goodbye and to pull us out of this vortex of toxicity we\u2019ve fallen into. It might as well be me.<\/p>\n<p><strong>When you find you again, I\u2019ll be waiting.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>This is not a goodbye so please don\u2019t look it like that. It\u2019s just a small let\u2019s catch up later. Find your way back to me when you\u2019re a better version of yourself and I\u2019ll be waiting for you to come back to me when I\u2019m a better version of myself.<\/p>\n<p><a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/relationship\/7-cose-che-potete-fare-quando-inizia-a-darvi-per-scontati\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\">Quando iniziate a dare per scontato il vostro partner<\/a> and there is nothing else you haven\u2019t already done then there is one last thing to try. Show him what your lives would look like without each other. And that\u2019s exactly what I\u2019m doing now.<\/p>\n<p>I\u2019m walking away and I\u2019m letting you go. I\u2019m distancing myself from you as I have no other options left.<\/p>\n<p>If you care, you\u2019ll wake up just like I did. If you still love me, you\u2019ll reach back out for me. And I promise I\u2019ll be there to take your hand.<\/p>\n<p><strong><a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/mi-chiedo-se-le-cose-sarebbero-diverse\/\">Trovatemi di nuovo<\/a> when you\u2019re the same man I fell for. Because you who you are now is neither someone I recognize nor someone I want to spend my life with.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-full wp-image-53486 aligncenter\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/06\/MEET-ME-AGAIN-WHEN-YOU\u2019RE-THE-OLD-VERSION-OF-YOURSELF-PINTEREST-GRAPHIC.jpg\" alt=\"CI RIVEDREMO QUANDO SARAI LA VECCHIA VERSIONE DI TE STESSO\" width=\"1000\" height=\"1500\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/06\/MEET-ME-AGAIN-WHEN-YOU\u2019RE-THE-OLD-VERSION-OF-YOURSELF-PINTEREST-GRAPHIC.jpg 1000w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/06\/MEET-ME-AGAIN-WHEN-YOU\u2019RE-THE-OLD-VERSION-OF-YOURSELF-PINTEREST-GRAPHIC-200x300.jpg 200w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/06\/MEET-ME-AGAIN-WHEN-YOU\u2019RE-THE-OLD-VERSION-OF-YOURSELF-PINTEREST-GRAPHIC-683x1024.jpg 683w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/06\/MEET-ME-AGAIN-WHEN-YOU\u2019RE-THE-OLD-VERSION-OF-YOURSELF-PINTEREST-GRAPHIC-768x1152.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1000px) 100vw, 1000px\" \/><\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>There is nothing worse or more painful than having the person you knew the best slowly turn into someone you used to know. There is nothing worse than looking at someone you connected with on so many levels and not recognizing him anymore. There isn\u2019t anything worse than loving someone but having to let him&#8230;<\/p>","protected":false},"author":40,"featured_media":19756,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29619],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-19754","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-stories-love"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29619,"label":"stories"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/06\/justin-groep-662995-unsplash.jpg",800,533,false],"author_info":{"display_name":"Tara Brown","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/author\/tara-brown\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29619,"name":"stories","slug":"stories-love","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29619,"taxonomy":"category","description":"To all the souls struggling with complicated love experiences: These heartfelt stories about love, heartbreak, and moving on will be your voice of wisdom.","parent":38,"count":424,"filter":"raw","cat_ID":29619,"category_count":424,"category_description":"To all the souls struggling with complicated love experiences: These heartfelt stories about love, heartbreak, and moving on will be your voice of wisdom.","cat_name":"stories","category_nicename":"stories-love","category_parent":38}],"tag_info":false,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/19754","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/40"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=19754"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/19754\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/19756"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=19754"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=19754"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=19754"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}