{"id":19871,"date":"2020-07-18T13:17:15","date_gmt":"2020-07-18T13:17:15","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=19871"},"modified":"2021-08-12T10:35:14","modified_gmt":"2021-08-12T10:35:14","slug":"forse-lhai-ferita-ma-alla-fine-hai-perso-tu","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/forse-lhai-ferita-ma-alla-fine-hai-perso-tu\/","title":{"rendered":"Potresti averla ferita, ma alla fine sei tu che hai perso"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>Come hai potuto ferire una ragazza che voleva solo amarti? Come hai potuto non vedere che meritava il mondo perch\u00e9 era pronta a fare qualsiasi cosa per te?<\/p>\n<p><strong>She just wanted to be yours, that\u2019s all she ever asked for.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>You promised to love her forever but you lied to her. You said there would never be another one for you but that wasn\u2019t true. You swore to appreciate her but you only ended up taking her for granted.<\/p>\n<p><strong>Meritava molto di pi\u00f9 di quello che le avete dato. Meritava molto di pi\u00f9 che essere ferita da qualcuno che amava pi\u00f9 di quanto amasse se stessa.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>L'hai fatta innamorare di te, le hai promesso un futuro e le hai fatto credere che eri la sua anima gemella, che eri quello giusto e che voi due eravate davvero destinati a stare insieme. E lo eravate, ma poi siete cambiati.<\/p>\n<p>Alla fine ha ottenuto solo dolore e una coltellata al cuore ogni volta che ne ha avuto l'occasione.<\/p>\n<p>You didn\u2019t choose the tools, you did everything possible to hurt her. You started lying to her, <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/life\/ecco-perche-e-stufa-di-giocare\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\">giochi<\/a>Fare il caldo e il freddo, usarla ogni volta che ti faceva comodo e poi respingerla quando era lei ad avere bisogno di te.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter wp-image-104385\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/06\/the-woman-is-sitting-by-the-sidewalk.jpg\" alt=\"la donna \u00e8 seduta sul marciapiede\" width=\"800\" height=\"531\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/06\/the-woman-is-sitting-by-the-sidewalk.jpg 1000w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/06\/the-woman-is-sitting-by-the-sidewalk-300x199.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/06\/the-woman-is-sitting-by-the-sidewalk-768x510.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/06\/the-woman-is-sitting-by-the-sidewalk-150x100.jpg 150w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p><strong>Ti sei rivelato uno di quegli stronzi egoisti che usano gli altri per i propri bisogni.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>Che cosa hai fatto?<\/p>\n<p>Questa ragazza meritava di essere amata perch\u00e9 non aveva altro che amore per te. Meritava di essere apprezzata perch\u00e9 si \u00e8 fatta in quattro per voi.<\/p>\n<p>She should\u2019ve left you a long time ago but she chose to fight for you and she chose to fight for your love. When you had nobody, she was by your side. When everyone decided to leave you, she chose to stay.<\/p>\n<p>You know why she is this way? She can\u2019t help it, it\u2019s just in her nature. When she loves, she loves till the end, unlike you. When she loves, she accepts both good and bad sides.<\/p>\n<p>Quando ama, fa anche l'impossibile per coloro a cui vuole bene. E non si arrende mai, perch\u00e9 trova sempre un motivo per restare in posti dove nessun altro penserebbe mai di guardare.<\/p>\n<p><strong>See, you really are something. You managed to push all her buttons to the point where she just couldn\u2019t do it anymore. <\/strong><strong>L'hai fatta rinunciare a qualcuno che amava cos\u00ec tanto.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter wp-image-104383\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/06\/a-sad-woman-lies-on-the-couch.jpg\" alt=\"una donna triste giace sul divano\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/06\/a-sad-woman-lies-on-the-couch.jpg 1000w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/06\/a-sad-woman-lies-on-the-couch-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/06\/a-sad-woman-lies-on-the-couch-768x512.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/06\/a-sad-woman-lies-on-the-couch-150x100.jpg 150w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/06\/a-sad-woman-lies-on-the-couch-720x481.jpg 720w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Si \u00e8 semplicemente stancata delle vostre bugie, dei vostri giochi e delle vostre manipolazioni. Si \u00e8 stancata di ascoltare le stesse promesse che non avete mai voluto mantenere.<\/p>\n<p>Si \u00e8 stancata di dare tutto se stessa senza ricevere nulla in cambio. Si \u00e8 stancata di vivere con le briciole del vostro amore.<\/p>\n<p>And most importantly she was exhausted from always coming last on your list when she always put you first. It wasn\u2019t fair and she should\u2019ve gotten more than this. She deserved it.<\/p>\n<p><strong>She just wanted to be yours, that\u2019s all she ever asked for.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>Instead of loving her, you chose to hurt her. It\u2019s a lie that you didn\u2019t mean to hurt her. Nobody hurts people accidentally.<\/p>\n<p>Perch\u00e9 ogni volta che avete deciso di non metterla al primo posto, ogni volta che l'avete ignorata, ogni volta che avete usato parole cattive per buttarla gi\u00f9, ogni volta che le avete negato il vostro amore, l'avete ferita. Vedi, \u00e8 stata una scelta, quindi smettila con le stronzate.<\/p>\n<p><strong>\u00c8 una <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/relationship\/10-tratti-di-una-buona-fidanzata\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\">brava ragazza<\/a> and she didn\u2019t deserve the hell you put her through. She deserved to be happy and she needed just a little but even that little was too much to ask from you.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p><strong>It\u2019s okay, don\u2019t worry, because it is you in the end who pulled the short straw.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter wp-image-104379\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/06\/a-sad-woman-is-sitting-on-the-stairs.jpg\" alt=\"una donna triste \u00e8 seduta sulle scale\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/06\/a-sad-woman-is-sitting-on-the-stairs.jpg 1000w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/06\/a-sad-woman-is-sitting-on-the-stairs-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/06\/a-sad-woman-is-sitting-on-the-stairs-768x512.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/06\/a-sad-woman-is-sitting-on-the-stairs-150x100.jpg 150w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/06\/a-sad-woman-is-sitting-on-the-stairs-720x481.jpg 720w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>She\u2019ll get over it. It\u2019s just a matter of time. Soon, she\u2019ll come to realize you\u2019ve done her no good.<\/p>\n<p>She\u2019ll realize you were just a parasite who fed off of her love. And she might be hurting now but she\u2019ll heal.<\/p>\n<p>We all get hurt by love and we all have our cross to bear but she\u2019ll get over you, she will be fine. And you? Well, I\u2019m not sure you\u2019ll ever get over her. Because even though you hurt her, it\u2019s you who lost in the end.<\/p>\n<p>Ti rendi conto di che tipo di ragazza sei riuscito a perdere?<\/p>\n<p><strong><a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/love\/congratulazioni-ragazza-perduta-in-realta-voleva\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\">Hai perso una ragazza che voleva davvero essere tua...<\/a>.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>Nessuno ti amer\u00e0 mai come lei. Nessuno si impegner\u00e0 mai per voi come ha fatto lei. Nessun altro si far\u00e0 in quattro per rendervi felici. Nessuno sacrificher\u00e0 mai la propria felicit\u00e0 solo per vederti sorridere.<\/p>\n<p><strong>Congratulazioni, ragazzo, hai fatto un bel pasticcio. Sei riuscito a perdere una brava ragazza.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>And perhaps you might not see it now but I promise you, eventually it will hit you. It will hit you and you\u2019ll realize that you\u2019ve lost a girl who just wanted to love you and make you happy.<\/p>\n<p>And when you finally come to your senses and you wish to get her back, don\u2019t bother. She won\u2019t be waiting for you. Because she will have moved on with someone who\u2019d rather die than hurt her.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-full wp-image-104378 aligncenter\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/06\/You-Mightve-Hurt-Her-But-Its-You-Who-Lost-In-The-End-pinterest.jpg\" alt=\"Potresti averla ferita, ma alla fine sei tu che hai perso\" width=\"1000\" height=\"1500\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/06\/You-Mightve-Hurt-Her-But-Its-You-Who-Lost-In-The-End-pinterest.jpg 1000w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/06\/You-Mightve-Hurt-Her-But-Its-You-Who-Lost-In-The-End-pinterest-200x300.jpg 200w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/06\/You-Mightve-Hurt-Her-But-Its-You-Who-Lost-In-The-End-pinterest-683x1024.jpg 683w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/06\/You-Mightve-Hurt-Her-But-Its-You-Who-Lost-In-The-End-pinterest-768x1152.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/06\/You-Mightve-Hurt-Her-But-Its-You-Who-Lost-In-The-End-pinterest-150x225.jpg 150w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1000px) 100vw, 1000px\" \/><\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>How could you hurt a girl who just wanted to love you? How could you not see that she deserved the world because she was ready to do just about anything for you? She just wanted to be yours, that\u2019s all she ever asked for. You promised to love her forever but you lied to&#8230;<\/p>","protected":false},"author":39,"featured_media":104377,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29642],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-19871","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-guy-talk"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29642,"label":"guy talk"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/06\/You-Mightve-Hurt-Her-But-Its-You-Who-Lost-In-The-End.jpg",800,535,false],"author_info":{"display_name":"Owen Scott","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/author\/hase\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29642,"name":"guy talk","slug":"guy-talk","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29642,"taxonomy":"category","description":"Welcome to the land of juicy topics and lots of helpful tips on love and relationships. 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