{"id":19883,"date":"2020-03-18T12:59:54","date_gmt":"2020-03-18T12:59:54","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=19883"},"modified":"2021-08-12T07:38:43","modified_gmt":"2021-08-12T07:38:43","slug":"il-mio-piu-grande-rimpianto-e-quello-di-averla-avuta-nella-mia-vita-e-di-averla-lasciata-andare","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/il-mio-piu-grande-rimpianto-e-quello-di-averla-avuta-nella-mia-vita-e-di-averla-lasciata-andare\/","title":{"rendered":"Il mio pi\u00f9 grande rimpianto \u00e8 averla avuta nella mia vita e averla lasciata andare"},"content":{"rendered":"

As a man, I have a hard time admitting I was wrong. But I have no other option now but to come clean about my biggest mistake as it’s starting to suffocate me. The truth is as simple as it is painful.<\/p>\n

Ho amato, mi sono comportato da perfetto idiota e l'ho persa per sempre. Avevo una ragazza fantastica, una su un milione, e l'ho trattata come se fosse ordinaria.<\/p>\n

Sapevo cosa provava per me fin dall'inizio. Sapevo che era innamorata pazza, era piuttosto evidente e non faceva nulla per nasconderlo. I suoi occhi si illuminavano ogni volta che mi vedeva.<\/p>\n

Si scioglieva nelle mie mani. Le piaceva cos\u00ec tanto la mia presenza che cercava di fermarmi ogni volta che volevo andarmene.<\/p>\n

But I didn’t know how to stay at the time. Not for very long anyway. As much as I loved her pulling me close, it was also freaking me out. <\/b>So I did what any man unsure of himself does\u2014I played it cool.<\/p>\n

Un attimo prima ero l\u00ec e poi allontanarsi<\/a> il successivo. Le dicevo le parole pi\u00f9 dolci prima di andare a letto e poi sparivo con esse al mattino.<\/p>\n

Ricordo il ronzio del mio telefono. Lo alzavo e vedevo che mi aveva mandato un messaggio e lo mettevo gi\u00f9 di default. Ero felice per il messaggio, ma rispondevo sempre pi\u00f9 tardi.<\/p>\n

La facevo aspettare per ore, a volte anche per un giorno, solo per poterla tenere vicina ma non abbastanza.<\/p>\n

I would postpone our plans often. I was always the type to put my friends first, so if they had something going on I wouldn’t have any problem calling her and canceling last minute.<\/p>\n

\"uomo<\/p>\n

I was so caught up with that \u2018bros before hoes\u2019 mantra that I exaggerated big time and she was paying the price.<\/p>\n

I was a jerk and though I did most things unintentionally, it doesn’t excuse everything that I put her through.<\/b> It’s not that I was playing games, or at least I had no intention of doing so. It was just easier keeping her at arm’s length.<\/p>\n

Ero cos\u00ec abituato al fatto che lei fosse presente a qualsiasi costo. Ero cos\u00ec abituata al fatto che mi perdonasse senza nemmeno doverle dire che mi dispiaceva.<\/p>\n

Ero abituato a essere trattato bene per essermi comportato come una merda. Ero abituato e pensavo che sarebbe durato per sempre. Pensavo male.<\/p>\n

She warned me that she couldn\u2019t handle my inconsistency anymore. She was sick of me being only halfway in the relationship. She said she didn\u2019t know how much more she could take if something didn\u2019t change.<\/b><\/p>\n

She told me she wouldn\u2019t beg for my time. She told me I needed to treat her better.<\/b><\/p>\n

Mi ha detto molte cose e tutte erano vere, ma non mi hanno mai raggiunto finch\u00e9 non \u00e8 stato troppo tardi. <\/b><\/p>\n

I don’t know why I acted that way. I want to blame it all on the fact that I was young and foolish.<\/p>\n

Voglio appuntare tutto sulla mia perpetua paura di impegnarsi<\/a>. Ma nulla sembra sufficiente.<\/p>\n

Qualunque sia stata la causa del mio comportamento a met\u00e0, ora la sto pagando a caro prezzo.<\/p>\n

\"un<\/p>\n

I have to watch her from a distance instead of holding her close. She is happy with him, it pains me to say, but maybe happier than when she was with me. He has given her all I couldn’t or didn’t know how to.<\/p>\n

Sta apprezzando tutto ci\u00f2 che avevo e che davo per scontato. \u00c8 un uomo migliore. \u00c8 un uomo fortunato.<\/p>\n

D'altra parte, sono l'uomo che ha avuto l'opportunit\u00e0 di stare con una persona fantastica e l'ha sprecata.<\/p>\n

For what? For lonely nights and random girls now and then, who don\u2019t even come close to her. I deserve it.<\/p>\n

Mi merito il rimpianto che ho ora per tutte le lacrime che ho versato sul suo bellissimo viso. Mi merito tutti i \"e se\" che mi tengono sveglio la notte.<\/p>\n

What if I\u2019d had the balls to put her above my fears?<\/b> I can’t understand now quello che stavo combattendo<\/a> contro.<\/p>\n

Forse sarebbe ancora al mio fianco se avessi abbassato la guardia e le avessi detto come mi sentivo davvero.<\/p>\n

Dovevo solo cadere tra le sue braccia e rischiare tutto.<\/p>\n

E se fossi stato l'uomo che si meritava?<\/b> A man who would appreciate her being just the way she was. A man who was able to give back all that she gave him. She didn’t ask for much.<\/p>\n

\"coppia<\/p>\n

Voleva il mio rispetto, voleva che le coprissi le spalle come lei copriva le mie. Voleva il mio tempo e la mia attenzione. Voleva sentirsi amata.<\/p>\n

E se l'avessi messa al primo posto? <\/b>I love my friends but they didn’t need all of my time. I love my job but I didn’t have to work overtime, at least not always. I should have made time like she did for me.<\/p>\n

I should have answered her texts and calls like she did mine. I should have pulled her close and not run away. I should have. But I didn’t. Now I have to live with that.<\/p>\n

E se le avessi chiesto di restare?<\/b> Maybe she would have given me one more chance to make it right even though I didn’t deserve it. Maybe she wouldn’t have stayed but I should have asked nonetheless.<\/p>\n

Ha inciampato nel suo orgoglio cos\u00ec tante volte per me, io avrei dovuto fare lo stesso per lei. Invece di fare qualcosa, non ho fatto nulla.<\/p>\n

I didn’t fight for the one I loved. I did nothing to keep her in my life. That’s why all I am left with now are what ifs and the hope that one day I will be able to forgive myself for letting her go.<\/p>\n

Di Owen Scott<\/em><\/p>\n

\"Il<\/p>\n

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