{"id":19897,"date":"2020-06-19T06:43:23","date_gmt":"2020-06-19T06:43:23","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=19897"},"modified":"2021-08-31T08:01:46","modified_gmt":"2021-08-31T08:01:46","slug":"il-lato-negativo-dellessere-empatici-2","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/il-lato-negativo-dellessere-empatici-2\/","title":{"rendered":"Il lato brutto dell'essere empatico"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>Gli empatici sono un tipo di persone molto rare, ipersensibili, fragili, melodrammatiche e pi\u00f9 emotive degli altri.<\/p>\n<p>Hanno la capacit\u00e0 di percepire l'energia delle persone che li circondano e nella maggior parte dei casi queste energie sono negative e le assorbono tutte.<\/p>\n<p>Quindi, essendo un <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/love\/8-modi-in-cui-gli-empatici-amano-in-modo-diverso\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\">empatico<\/a> ha alcuni lati positivi e negativi.<\/p>\n<p>Il lato positivo \u00e8 che sono grandi ascoltatori e faranno sempre il possibile per aiutare gli altri, ma il lato negativo \u00e8 che mettono sempre gli altri al primo posto, ma si dimenticano di se stessi.<\/p>\n<p>Possono prosciugare tutta la loro energia positiva aiutando altri che non ci saranno mai quando avranno bisogno di loro.<\/p>\n<p>When you are an empath, you attract negative energy and you won\u2019t know why that happens to you.<\/p>\n<p>Il problema \u00e8 che le persone riconoscono sempre gli empatici e se ne approfittano, mentre un empatico non dir\u00e0 mai di no se c'\u00e8 la possibilit\u00e0 di aiutare qualcuno.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-116478\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/06\/woman-sitting-on-wooden-bridge.jpg\" alt=\"donna seduta su un ponte di legno\" width=\"1600\" height=\"1068\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/06\/woman-sitting-on-wooden-bridge.jpg 1600w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/06\/woman-sitting-on-wooden-bridge-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/06\/woman-sitting-on-wooden-bridge-1024x684.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/06\/woman-sitting-on-wooden-bridge-768x513.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/06\/woman-sitting-on-wooden-bridge-1536x1025.jpg 1536w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/06\/woman-sitting-on-wooden-bridge-150x100.jpg 150w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/06\/woman-sitting-on-wooden-bridge-720x481.jpg 720w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/06\/woman-sitting-on-wooden-bridge-1280x854.jpg 1280w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1600px) 100vw, 1600px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>They will feel bad if they know that they could have helped someone and they didn\u2019t do so.<\/p>\n<p>Persone come queste perdono il sonno per qualcuno che non farebbe mai lo stesso per loro, ma questo \u00e8 l'unico modo che conoscono per funzionare.<\/p>\n<p>Quindi, se vi riconoscete in queste linee e se siete stati feriti molte volte nella vostra vita, \u00e8 probabile che anche voi siate empatici.<\/p>\n<p>And even if you belong to this rare type of people, don\u2019t consider yourself lucky because there is an ugly side to being an empath as well.<\/p>\n<p><strong>Assorbite tutte le energie negative che vi circondano.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>A volte vorresti essere la persona amata, quella di cui le persone si prendono cura, ma tutto ci\u00f2 che ottieni sono persone che hanno bisogno di aiuto, ma non si offrono mai di aiutarti.<\/p>\n<p>And you, as a natural giver, can\u2019t just look at someone having problems and getting hurt and not do anything about it.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-116476\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/06\/girl-look-in-window-distance-thinking.jpg\" alt=\"ragazza guarda in lontananza dalla finestra pensando\" width=\"1600\" height=\"1068\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/06\/girl-look-in-window-distance-thinking.jpg 1600w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/06\/girl-look-in-window-distance-thinking-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/06\/girl-look-in-window-distance-thinking-1024x684.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/06\/girl-look-in-window-distance-thinking-768x513.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/06\/girl-look-in-window-distance-thinking-1536x1025.jpg 1536w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/06\/girl-look-in-window-distance-thinking-150x100.jpg 150w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/06\/girl-look-in-window-distance-thinking-720x481.jpg 720w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/06\/girl-look-in-window-distance-thinking-1280x854.jpg 1280w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1600px) 100vw, 1600px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>E alla fine ci si ritrova come il pi\u00f9 triste, senza tutto ci\u00f2 che si desiderava. <strong>The world\u2019s problems are on your shoulders.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>You simply can\u2019t resist helping the ones who are not so lucky and who <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/love\/amore-ragazza-che-ha-ferito-molte-volte\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\">sono stati feriti<\/a> nella loro vita.<\/p>\n<p>Sapete cosa significa essere stati feriti e non avere qualcuno che vi conforti, quindi state sempre accanto alle persone che hanno bisogno di voi per guarire.<\/p>\n<p>You don\u2019t even think about yourself and your needs but instead about others and their needs and in most cases you feel sorry for doing that but you just can\u2019t help yourself.<\/p>\n<p><strong>Siete sempre sopraffatti.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>Quando si \u00e8 empatici si pensa troppo alle cose e si prova costantemente ansia per le cose brutte che accadono nel mondo.<\/p>\n<p>You will want to help others but you won\u2019t be able to do so and you will be disappointed because of that.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-116479\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/06\/attractive-woman-looking-away.jpg\" alt=\"donna attraente che distoglie lo sguardo\" width=\"1600\" height=\"1068\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/06\/attractive-woman-looking-away.jpg 1600w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/06\/attractive-woman-looking-away-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/06\/attractive-woman-looking-away-1024x684.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/06\/attractive-woman-looking-away-768x513.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/06\/attractive-woman-looking-away-1536x1025.jpg 1536w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/06\/attractive-woman-looking-away-150x100.jpg 150w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/06\/attractive-woman-looking-away-720x481.jpg 720w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/06\/attractive-woman-looking-away-1280x854.jpg 1280w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1600px) 100vw, 1600px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Tutti i pensieri cattivi e buoni si mescoleranno nella vostra testa e vi sentirete esausti perch\u00e9 non riuscirete mai a controllare i vostri pensieri.<\/p>\n<p><strong>You can\u2019t fall head over heels in love.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>Gli empatici si innamorano, ma tengono sempre una parte del loro cuore vicino perch\u00e9 hanno paura di essere feriti.<\/p>\n<p>So, even if they say that they are in love they actually don\u2019t give their heart to their partner totally but they keep something for themself as well.<\/p>\n<p>Si potrebbe pensare che siano egoisti e senza cuore, perch\u00e9 sono sempre <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/life\/non-lascia-mai-la-guardia\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\">tenere alta la guardia<\/a> but they do it because they don\u2019t know any different.<\/p>\n<p><strong>La testa \u00e8 come una zona di guerra. <\/strong>Ci sono cos\u00ec tante cose che passano per la testa e la maggior parte di esse sono negative.<\/p>\n<p>Pensate ai vostri problemi e a quelli degli altri e non riuscite mai a provare la pace che meritate.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-116477\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/06\/worried-woman-lying-and-thinking.jpg\" alt=\"donna preoccupata che mente e pensa\" width=\"1600\" height=\"1068\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/06\/worried-woman-lying-and-thinking.jpg 1600w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/06\/worried-woman-lying-and-thinking-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/06\/worried-woman-lying-and-thinking-1024x684.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/06\/worried-woman-lying-and-thinking-768x513.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/06\/worried-woman-lying-and-thinking-1536x1025.jpg 1536w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/06\/worried-woman-lying-and-thinking-150x100.jpg 150w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/06\/worried-woman-lying-and-thinking-720x481.jpg 720w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/06\/worried-woman-lying-and-thinking-1280x854.jpg 1280w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1600px) 100vw, 1600px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Si pensa sempre al buio e alle cose brutte e ci si sente persi e isolati.<\/p>\n<p>You feel like people can\u2019t truly understand you and it is really hard for you to function normally in that kind of environment.<\/p>\n<p><strong>Trascurate il vostro corpo e la vostra mente per il bene degli altri.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>Si finisce per essere completamente persi e disorientati e si deve cercare di nuovo il proprio vero s\u00e9, ma nella maggior parte dei casi ci vuole molto tempo per farlo.<\/p>\n<p>You don\u2019t understand that people wouldn\u2019t do the same for you and that you just have a golden heart but others often take advantage of you by taking you for granted.<\/p>\n<p>Gli empatici hanno bisogno di persone che siano in grado di capirli veramente, di aiutarli e di ascoltarli.<\/p>\n<p>Solo quando vedono qualcosa di buono nel mondo che li circonda, riescono ad abbassare la guardia.<\/p>\n<p>Solo allora porranno fine alla guerra di emozioni con cui si confrontano ogni giorno e troveranno finalmente la pace che meritano.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-116473\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/06\/The-Ugly-Side-Of-Being-An-Empath-pinterest.jpg\" alt=\"Il lato brutto dell&#039;essere empatico\" width=\"735\" height=\"1102\" 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They have the ability to feel the energy of the people around them and in most cases those energies are bad and they absorb all of them. So, being an empath has some good and bad sides&#8230;.<\/p>","protected":false},"author":20,"featured_media":116475,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29677],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-19897","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-personality-types"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29677,"label":"personality types"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/06\/The-Ugly-Side-Of-Being-An-Empath-1024x684.jpg",1024,684,true],"author_info":{"display_name":"Christine Keller","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/author\/christine\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29677,"name":"personality types","slug":"personality-types","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29677,"taxonomy":"category","description":"Hippies, alphas, betas, sapiophiles...Every personality type is unique and contains a particular set of skills. 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