{"id":19953,"date":"2020-09-19T13:15:01","date_gmt":"2020-09-19T13:15:01","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=19953"},"modified":"2022-01-09T22:14:51","modified_gmt":"2022-01-09T22:14:51","slug":"ti-meriti-lamore-che-continui-a-dare-a-tutti-gli-altri-2","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/ti-meriti-lamore-che-continui-a-dare-a-tutti-gli-altri-2\/","title":{"rendered":"Ti meriti l'amore che continui a dare a tutti gli altri"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>I wish there was a way for me to hug you over the screen. I wish there was a way for me to show you how incredible you are, to show you that you are everything but ordinary. To show you that you deserve so much more than you\u2019re settling for.<\/p>\n<p>Instead, I\u2019m writing over and over again, hoping that maybe someday, my words will help someone walk away from things that hurt them.<\/p>\n<p>Hoping that someday, my words will give someone courage to make a decision they should\u2019ve made long time ago. A decision to <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/love\/ti-ho-dato-piu-di-quanto-meritassi-ora-e-il-momento-di-mettere-me-stesso-al-primo-posto-2\/\">mettere se stessi al primo posto<\/a>.<\/p>\n<p><b>Quindi, lasciatemelo dire di nuovo: VI MERITATE TUTTO.<\/b><\/p>\n<p><b>Meritate di essere felici.<\/b> All those quotes about how love is not real if it doesn\u2019t hurt, screw them! Love is not supposed to hurt you.<\/p>\n<p><a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/uomo-dallanimo-gentile\/\">L'amore dovrebbe tenerti al sicuro<\/a> when everything else falls apart. Yes, it gets hard, it gets messy, but if you don\u2019t feel safe, it\u2019s not real. If you don\u2019t feel like you can talk about it, it\u2019s not real.<\/p>\n<p>And happiness is not just about being in love. You deserve to be happy at home, at work, in your own mind. I know, life\u2019s a bitch, but you\u2019ll never know how happy you can be if you don\u2019t try it.<\/p>\n<p>They say that when things seem terrifying, you just need to jump. So, I\u2019m asking you to jump. Jump into the unknown and remember that you are strong enough to deal with whatever is in there. Just jump.<\/p>\n<p><b>Meritate di essere rispettati.<\/b> Il rispetto non \u00e8 un privilegio e mi addolora vedere che viene trattato come tale. Non si \u00e8 definiti dal proprio sesso, dal proprio lavoro o dalla propria etnia.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-122974\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/06\/beautiful-girl-in-the-park-so-sad.jpg\" alt=\"bella ragazza nel parco cos\u00ec triste\" width=\"1600\" height=\"1068\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/06\/beautiful-girl-in-the-park-so-sad.jpg 1600w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/06\/beautiful-girl-in-the-park-so-sad-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/06\/beautiful-girl-in-the-park-so-sad-1024x684.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/06\/beautiful-girl-in-the-park-so-sad-768x513.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/06\/beautiful-girl-in-the-park-so-sad-1536x1025.jpg 1536w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/06\/beautiful-girl-in-the-park-so-sad-150x100.jpg 150w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/06\/beautiful-girl-in-the-park-so-sad-720x481.jpg 720w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/06\/beautiful-girl-in-the-park-so-sad-1280x854.jpg 1280w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1600px) 100vw, 1600px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>And respect shouldn\u2019t be based on those things. Respect shouldn\u2019t be given to only some people. Demand respect if you\u2019re not given any.<\/p>\n<p>There will always be assholes who will try to deny you the respect your deserve. There will always be assholes who will try to belittle the things you\u2019ve done. But show them you\u2019re stronger, better. Show them you\u2019re worth it and walk away. <b>Lasciateli annegare nella vostra polvere, mentre<\/b><a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/relationship\/sopravvivere-a-una-brutta-rottura\/\"><b> you\u2019re thriving<\/b><\/a><b>.<\/b><\/p>\n<p><b>You deserve to be appreciated and accepted\u2014as you are and for who you are.<\/b> If someone wants you to change, screw them. If someone says that you\u2019ve changed, it usually means you\u2019re not the person they need anymore.<\/p>\n<p>It has nothing to you being worse or better. It\u2019s just the idea of you they had that changed. But the thing is, if we don\u2019t change, we don\u2019t grow. And if we don\u2019t grow, we keep on being stuck at the same fucking place for years until we fade away.<\/p>\n<p><b>Don\u2019t let anyone dim your light, because you have the ability to outshine the Sun. Don\u2019t let anyone make you question your worth, because no one walked through your Hell but you. No one walked in your shoes but you. <\/b><\/p>\n<p><b>Nessuno ha amato, sperato o sognato come voi e nessuno lo far\u00e0 mai. Siate ci\u00f2 che siete e non cambiate mai per gli altri. Cambiate da soli, per voi stessi.<\/b><\/p>\n<p><b>Vi meritate l'amore che continuate a dare a tutti gli altri.<\/b> It\u2019s sad that you keep on lowering your walls to help people, how you keep on giving pieces of yourself to make someone better, but getting the same thing from those people is impossible.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-122975\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/06\/Upset-young-girl-sitting-alone-in-cafe.jpg\" alt=\"Giovane ragazza turbata seduta da sola in un caff\u00e8\" width=\"1600\" height=\"1068\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/06\/Upset-young-girl-sitting-alone-in-cafe.jpg 1600w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/06\/Upset-young-girl-sitting-alone-in-cafe-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/06\/Upset-young-girl-sitting-alone-in-cafe-1024x684.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/06\/Upset-young-girl-sitting-alone-in-cafe-768x513.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/06\/Upset-young-girl-sitting-alone-in-cafe-1536x1025.jpg 1536w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/06\/Upset-young-girl-sitting-alone-in-cafe-150x100.jpg 150w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/06\/Upset-young-girl-sitting-alone-in-cafe-720x481.jpg 720w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/06\/Upset-young-girl-sitting-alone-in-cafe-1280x854.jpg 1280w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1600px) 100vw, 1600px\" \/><\/p>\n<p><b>It\u2019s heartbreaking to see you hurt because you think you\u2019re unlovable. But let me tell you one thing. You\u2019re not unlovable because someone doesn\u2019t know how to love. You\u2019re not any less pretty, worthy or good just because someone was too blind to see it.<\/b><\/p>\n<p>Don\u2019t close your eyes to your faults because they\u2019re your own. Learn to accept them and learn from them. And accept the truth that you deserve that movie kind of love. You deserve a happy ending and you deserve to be treated like a queen. And so what if there\u2019s no super-hero to save you? You\u2019re perfectly capable of doing it by yourself because you\u2019ve already saved so many people. So, why not save yourself this time?<\/p>\n<p><b>Dal profondo del mio piccolo cuore incasinato, voglio che tu sia felice. Voglio che tu sia amato e <\/b><a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/relationship\/che-cosa-dice-il-suo-bacio-dei-suoi-sentimenti-verso-di-te\/\"><b>baciato<\/b><\/a><b> like you\u2019ve never been kissed before. <\/b><\/p>\n<p><b>Voglio che tu rida finch\u00e9 non sentirai gli addominali formarsi e l'unico dolore che sentirai sar\u00e0 quello delle risate. Voglio che tu salti cos\u00ec in alto da perderti tra le stelle. <\/b><\/p>\n<p><b>Voglio che impariate a volare perch\u00e9 avete gi\u00e0 le ali. Tutto ci\u00f2 che dovete fare ora \u00e8 lasciare andare tutte le cose che vi appesantiscono e saltare!<\/b><\/p>\n<p><b>Con tutto il mio amore,<\/b><\/p>\n<p><b>Qualcuno che \u00e8 a soli due clic di distanza.<\/b><\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-122972\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/06\/You-Deserve-The-Love-You-Keep-Giving-Everyone-Else-Pinterest.jpg\" alt=\"Ti meriti l&#039;amore che continui a dare a tutti gli altri\" width=\"1587\" height=\"2245\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/06\/You-Deserve-The-Love-You-Keep-Giving-Everyone-Else-Pinterest.jpg 1587w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/06\/You-Deserve-The-Love-You-Keep-Giving-Everyone-Else-Pinterest-212x300.jpg 212w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/06\/You-Deserve-The-Love-You-Keep-Giving-Everyone-Else-Pinterest-724x1024.jpg 724w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/06\/You-Deserve-The-Love-You-Keep-Giving-Everyone-Else-Pinterest-768x1086.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/06\/You-Deserve-The-Love-You-Keep-Giving-Everyone-Else-Pinterest-1086x1536.jpg 1086w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/06\/You-Deserve-The-Love-You-Keep-Giving-Everyone-Else-Pinterest-1448x2048.jpg 1448w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/06\/You-Deserve-The-Love-You-Keep-Giving-Everyone-Else-Pinterest-150x212.jpg 150w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1587px) 100vw, 1587px\" \/><\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>I wish there was a way for me to hug you over the screen. I wish there was a way for me to show you how incredible you are, to show you that you are everything but ordinary. To show you that you deserve so much more than you\u2019re settling for. Instead, I\u2019m writing over&#8230;<\/p>","protected":false},"author":40,"featured_media":122970,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29619],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-19953","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-stories-love"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29619,"label":"stories"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/06\/You-Deserve-The-Love-You-Keep-Giving-Everyone-Else-1024x684.jpg",1024,684,true],"author_info":{"display_name":"Tara Brown","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/author\/tara-brown\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29619,"name":"stories","slug":"stories-love","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29619,"taxonomy":"category","description":"To all the souls struggling with complicated love experiences: These heartfelt stories about love, heartbreak, and moving on will be your voice of wisdom.","parent":38,"count":424,"filter":"raw","cat_ID":29619,"category_count":424,"category_description":"To all the souls struggling with complicated love experiences: These heartfelt stories about love, heartbreak, and moving on will be your voice of wisdom.","cat_name":"stories","category_nicename":"stories-love","category_parent":38}],"tag_info":false,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/19953","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/40"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=19953"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/19953\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/122970"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=19953"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=19953"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=19953"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}